Why Do Women Do This? UPDATE IN OP

[SheWantTheD]

I bet you could get the actual answer if you asked her instead of us.

nikka you know women give inconspicuous ass answers when confronted like this or they outright lie.

I don't care about this specific situation like that, just raising a question.

I chalk it off as no interest and keep it moving.. like I did until she started talking to me again.

 

[Johnny Kilroy]

Was gonna tell a story but fukk it. Why do women give you their number, not respond to phone calls or text messages but when they see you in person they wanna try and get your attention?

This has happened to me more than once, and I've had a chick go months of trying to get my attention after ignoring my text.

Long story short, I got this stupid thick shorty's number from my job (she's here temporarily). I see her the next day and she's acting weird and avoiding me. I didn't hit her up the same day cause I was busy doing other things. I call her the next day around 9 pm cause one of my homies popped up at my house unexpectedly. Anyways, she don't pick up then I text her shortly after telling her this is my number. Shorty never responds and when I get to work the next day she avoiding me during breaks

I wrote it off as having no interest and kept it moving, ain't got time for games or chasing chicks (let's meet in the middle). Few days later she wants to start talking again

What is it? Another nikka in the picture, fukk buddy, ex she ain't over, playing games, just want attention?

shyt test, breh. When you hit her up she figured she had you. When you ignored her you showed her you a real nikka so she back on the nuts. My advice: as with any chick, continue to not sweat her, handle yours, let her sweat you, and hit her up when you want your balls drained only. Watch how quick she get over there, breh.

All this is much easier when you got multiple chicks on deck because then you can really not give a fukk.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Not even trying to act cool but this hasn't happened to me in a while. Not even because I'm so good looking or so smooth. More because in the last few years I've only been giving my attention to girls who want me bad.

To answer the OP, she is doing this to test you. When you called and she didn't pick up, she knew it was you. She wanted to see if you would try again to classify you as thirsty (cause she's dumb). When you texted to say it was you, she felt like she had the power (again, dumb/immature). So she ignores you. Then you stop giving her attention, she realizes she might have misjudged you and starts sweating you again. They do it because it's in their nature to test how much they can control you. How much they can make you eat out of their hand. How far are you willing to go to get a chance at her. What is the best way to control you (sex, emotions, jealousy, ego, guilt, damsel in distress, becoming your momma and you being dependent on them to take care of you, etc, etc). They just want to figure out how to get what they want. They all do it. Some are aware of it. Some aren't. Some do it intricately, some do it in a tacky way.

(not to you specifically)

 

[Turk]

I delete numbers real fast with no fukks given. If i text you twice and you don't reply Im done

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Messed up talking to a woman at work bruh.Leave her alone or get that Sexual Harassment

 

[Ashley Banks]

Women have trouble being upfront

I'd rather they just reject me in the first place than string me along if they're not interested

the problem is most guys don't want that. You'll tell them you're not interested and as if you don't already feel awkward enough, they guy will ask again, then make it even more awkward and ask why. Then you have the guys that will insult you. So you just give him your number to avoid that.

anyways, op some women do it because they just want an ego boost while some women just don't respond because you send boring texts. it happens, I did the same thing when I was single. I still do it to my husband. lolol

 

[Kokoro]

the problem is most guys don't want that. You'll tell them you're not interested and as if you don't already feel awkward enough, they guy will ask again, then make it even more awkward and ask why. Then you have the guys that will insult you or follow you. So you just give him your number to avoid that.

That's true

I was speaking personally tho not in general. I think I've built up immunity to rejection so I'll never give that kind of reaction

Dudes that get mad or are overly persistent after being rejected reek of insecurity and lust

 

[Koba St]

Ignore her or snub her at work.

You do is and you're playing her games.

What I'll do is:
Don't text her again. If you see her at work be polite and say hello and keep it moving.

Start talking to other females and other people and actually look like she doesn't matter at all and you're over her.

 

[Koba St]

Not even trying to act cool but this hasn't happened to me in a while. Not even because I'm so good looking or so smooth. More because in the last few years I've only been giving my attention to girls who want me bad.

To answer the OP, she is doing this to test you. When you called and she didn't pick up, she knew it was you. She wanted to see if you would try again to classify you as thirsty (cause she's dumb). When you texted to say it was you, she felt like she had the power (again, dumb/immature). So she ignores you. Then you stop giving her attention, she realizes she might have misjudged you and starts sweating you again. They do it because it's in their nature to test how much they can control you. How much they can make you eat out of their hand. How far are you willing to go to get a chance at her. What is the best way to control you (sex, emotions, jealousy, ego, guilt, damsel in distress, becoming your momma and you being dependent on them to take care of you, etc, etc). They just want to figure out how to get what they want. They all do it. Some are aware of it. Some aren't. Some do it intricately, some do it in a tacky way.

Pretty much.

 

[Lo-Co]

the problem is most guys don't want that. You'll tell them you're not interested and as if you don't already feel awkward enough, they guy will ask again, then make it even more awkward and ask why. Then you have the guys that will insult you. So you just give him your number to avoid that.

anyways, op some women do it because they just want an ego boost while some women just don't respond because you send boring texts. it happens, I did the same thing when I was single. I still do it to my husband. lolol

I never understand why is it so hard to just take the rejection and move on. Its Their loss anyway

My text game needs work tho. ​

 

[Marlostanfield.]

She not interested in u but she likes the attention u show her in public

Y'all gotta stop giving the homies wrong advice cause those same signs can mean she like him and just testing his manhood.

When a woman wants attention only from a guy she will do things deliberately to get that attention, like telling a guy how much a freak she is, etc.

She just testing the homie, play your cards right, don't let a person control your hand

 

[Koba St]

Y'all gotta stop giving the homies wrong advice cause those same signs can mean she like him and just testing his manhood.

When a woman wants attention only from a guy she will do things deliberately to get that attention, like telling a guy how much a freak she is, etc.

She just testing the homie, play your cards right, don't let a person control your hand

There's a difference between wanting attention and actually being interested though.

 

[Neuromancer]

You do is and you're playing her games.

What I'll do is:
Don't text her again. If you see her at work be polite and say hello and keep it moving.

Start talking to other females and other people and actually look like she doesn't matter at all and you're over her.

I'm actually referring to cutting her off. Like ignoring a person you don't like.

 

[Marlostanfield.]

There's a difference between wanting attention and actually being interested though.

You right. When a woman wants attention she will do things deliberately to get it. Now, if she likes a guy and not responding is just playing a form of being hard to get, because nobody wants nothing that comes easy especially a female.

And like I said earlier woman want a man, not a guy who's weak because woman are vulnerable in a way, so they do tests to figure things out.

She's doing nothing but testing the homie manhood. Reverse it, would you want a female who's blowing you up or all over you and y'all just exchanged numbers ? I think not, same with a female.

 

[CoochieMane]

Just stop texting her and keep it moving. You might still be able to smash if you play it right.