Why Do Women Do This? UPDATE IN OP

[Flywin Lannister]

Then why she tryna get my attention after the fact? after she ain't respond I kept it moving, didn't bother her or nothing. I probably won't see her again anyways cause she was only here
temporarily.

Exactly why I don't mess with women at work.

Then why.. then why.. then why..

Why ask a bunch of nikkaz on here when you can (wait for it) ASK HER.

You have shown us that you have put A LOT of thought and time in analyzing her. Yet you do the 'I ain't got time' time.

Dude: you're either soft af (not necessarily true you MAY be a stand up guy nh) OR you're genuinely intrigued by this OR you're actually soft af.

Which one is it?

 

[Flywin Lannister]

She was only here temporarily, last day at the building I work at was this past Monday.

Day I got the number, I thought was gonna be her last day which was last week. Ain't even fronting over her, it's just that she was thick af

Dude you replied to gave you great game and you gave excuses.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Dude you replied to gave you great game and you gave excuses.

I didn't read his entire post, ima re-read it right now.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Then why.. then why.. then why..

Why ask a bunch of nikkaz on here when you can (wait for it) ASK HER.

You have shown us that you have put A LOT of thought and time in analyzing her. Yet you do the 'I ain't got time' time.

Dude: you're either soft af (not necessarily true you MAY be a stand up guy nh) OR you're genuinely intrigued by this OR you're actually soft af.

Which one is it?

Thing is I don't wanna think to myself a couple months from now "what if?" with this chick even though I have no attachments to her. She seems cool, but that game playing/hard to get I'm not cool with.. at all.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Sounds like you give a fukk more than she does

Most likely, she got a lotta nikkas in her phone hitting her up and was probably with one of them then

You hit her up "wassup" and if she didn't respond, thats where you shouldve left the conversation. If she said wassup to you in the halls, say it back and continue doing your thing in life. Guarantee she will hit you up first or start some convo with you at work and even then I wouldn't have hit her up unless she asked or did it first.

Let her avoid you and consider it a blessing if you did nothing crazy. She sounds like drama and you going out of your way to get buns you might regret when shyt is all said and done.

I don't even really fukk with chicks I worked with like that and if I did, never would I chase on some bullshyt. I let them
Know I'm cool to just do small talk and keep it moving.

I had chicks numbers at work and never even hit them up unless it was about work. They hit me up if they wanted to hang and chill, which I did many times but if it was nothing more then I just let her figure her shyt out. She has my number, why chase after what doesnt want to be chased?

She gave you her number thinking like nikkas do in Spades... You were a possible.

She storing you in the fridge for later if shyt doesn't work out with any other situation at work or in general. It's not even a bad thing either. She most likely just had more of a "sure thing" going on with other nikkas she met first but she like you too she just couldn't juggle an extra nikka as well and overplays her hand.

Hit her up once, thats it. If she doesn't respond, then be cool about it and move on. If she gets desperate she'll hit you up then you can respond on some cool stuff or not respond on some bitter stuff. You texting her more than once looked desperate tho.

Have some self respect and have a code. If I hit a chick ONCE and she doesnt reply back, shes bushed to me until she proves otherwise. I shot my shot... And i'm not being cocky or arrogant but that whole "chase until she gives in" shyt is not my style

She doesn't even work at my building anymore, it was just for a week cause it was slow where she's usually at.

I didn't text her twice. Called once and then texted once. I kept it cool the entire time at work, and I only see her during breaks if that. She was avoiding me and eventually tried to get my attention and started talking to me again this past friday. I kept it cool and didn't bring up how she was giving me the cold shoulder at all.

Weekend passes by and she does the same thing as before. Giving me the cold shoulder. I laughed it off (not in front of her) and kept it moving.

I just wanna feel that phat ass

 

[R=G]

Ignore her or snub her at work.

No. Pinch her cheekbone hard.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Thing is I don't wanna think to myself a couple months from now "what if?" with this chick even though I have no attachments to her. She seems cool, but that game playing/hard to get I'm not cool with.. at all.

Do as you please fam

That user name tho in this situation.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Women thrive on attention. This game will help her keep getting it without committing to anything.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Women thrive on attention. This game will help her keep getting it without committing to anything.