Why do you all think black women hate the character Lawerence on the show Insecure so much?

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But here's why I think black women hate the Lawrence character

1. He never forgave Issa for cheating. Most of them would like to think they could cheat on their dude and he won't leave them for it because he's so sprung.

2. Didn't take care of her financially. The type that would probably want to go half on a date because he didn't have money like that. All he had was his dream and a mediocre job and black women want the finished package instead of enduring the dream.

3. He didn't wallow in pity after the breakup, he used that shyt as extra motivation to get his money right and he stepped his social life up and started getting laid by badder bytches after the breakup. They be wanting a nikka to fall off after the breakup.
 
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I thought it was because he was a bum on the couch for years and was more concerned about getting his "going no where" company going than actually helping more and being more productive. Also, he got very lax in the relationship and even forgot her birthday.

I have no problem with Lawrence though, but I probably would not stick with a guy who sits on the couch all the time (for years) and then when he finally gets a job offer, he almost decided to stay on the couch or at Best Buy.


But that's not what happened..:dwillhuh: He was working at best buy and got a call from the tech company that wanted him to work there... but Issa dumped him before all of that the reason he was sleeping on the couch is because Issa put him there...:comeon:
 

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IDK but I remember them chicks used to tell on themselves in the Insecure thread. Talking bout Issa didn't cheat because Lawrence was emotionally absent like they done fukked some dudes on the side too
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GTFOH!!!!! Besides lack of money, what didn't Lawrence give Issa? What did them other nikkas give her besides dikk and a place to pay rent?

What didn’t. Lawrence give Issa? ATTENTION. This is the same negro who forgot her birthday. I can understand no dinner but b/c he was broke. But he couldn’t even get a card...a single rose...a four page letter? That shows his level of selfishness.

Daniel have Issa a listening ear, a person to be herself with & security in the form of housing while her entire life was/is falling apart. Daniel is better than Lawrence.
 

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We dislike Lawrence b/c he a reminder of a negro that wasted our damn time.

We dislike Lawrence’s b/c he’s one of those dudes who think that they are top quality just b/c they don’t have a record or a baby. He was the epitome of a bum dude sitting on Issa’s couch for two whole damn years! Yet y’all drag Issa for being a bum for a few weeks.

We dislike Lawrence b/c he is a constant reminder that our community believes all a black man has to do is be faithful while failing at all other accounts of a partnership. In return, he should be cherished & we should sacrifice our emotional stability to support him, while simultaneously not getting any of our needs met.

We dislike Lawrence b/c he is a selfish & passive agressive male. And btw, being passive agressive is not a masculine trait.

We dislike Lawrence b/c he’s the complete opposite of Daniel. Daniel was there for Issa when she needed him. Daniel was upfront about how he felt with Issa. Daniel told Issa about herself (although very harshly), which partially led her to confront her fears. Issa has treated Daniel like crap though. And they shouldn’t have started their “relationship” with cheating.

This idea that Lawrence is a bum or was willingly wasting time is straight trash. The second Issa brought their issues to his attention, he realized he had been in a funk and made immediate steps to better himself.

Lawrence got a good degree from a good school, is very talented, and had a great app idea that fell through due to know fault of his phone. He believed in himself, got blasted, and struggled finding a job in the field that he studied for BECAUSE he bet on himself.

Dude was depressed and wasn’t handling it great. He obviously still loved and cared for Issa. He tried to be supportive and attentive emotionally but he was in a funk. Issa is living her broke ass in her fukk buddies couch yet we judging Lawrence because he’s human.

And how was Lawrence not there for Issa when she needed him? What was he doing for Issa when Issa was hopping on Daniel’s dikk in the first season?
 

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What didn’t. Lawrence give Issa? ATTENTION. This is the same negro who forgot her birthday. I can understand no dinner but b/c he was broke. But he couldn’t even get a card...a single rose...a four page letter? That shows his level of selfishness.

Daniel have Issa a listening ear, a person to be herself with & security in the form of housing while her entire life was/is falling apart. Daniel is better than Lawrence.

Man issa put him on the couch and neglected his ass too... :stopitslime: stop frontin'.... she blamed him for working at best buy and called him broke, but how he working helping YOU pay rent??? but he's broke and your mad he forgot to give you a birthday card...
 

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What didn’t. Lawrence give Issa? ATTENTION. This is the same negro who forgot her birthday. I can understand no dinner but b/c he was broke. But he couldn’t even get a card...a single rose...a four page letter? That shows his level of selfishness.

Daniel have Issa a listening ear, a person to be herself with & security in the form of housing while her entire life was/is falling apart. Daniel is better than Lawrence.

The second Issa actually had a conversation with Lawrence about her issues, like an adult, he immediately saw where he’d been slacking and started making moves to better himself. And she couldn’t be herself around Lawrence?

Selfishness? He immediately got out of his funk and started glowing up to appease her. The second he got news about his job and his app idea, he shared it with her. He asked his friend about how he can make things better between him and Issa. How the fukk was he selfish?
 

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@Draje @ORDER_66 @Voice of Reason

Lawrence had a very low balance in his account, per his convo with Tasha, so exactly how was he depositing enough money to pay the rent. He was unemployed & living with his girlfriend for two years. No one gets severence pay for two years unless they’ve worked for 10+ years. Lawrence, on the show, admitted that he had to swallow his pride to work at Best Buy so he was definitely down on his luck the entire time. All that being said, where is Lawrence getting all this money to pay half the rent? Giving blood? Giving sperm? Can someone give me a realistic answer as to how this is possible?

Furthermore, Lawrence is the same guy who was thinking about quitting a job he just obtained, to work on Woo Woo. Mind you, we find out later that his Woo Woo idea was an outdated concept. Why did he think it was acceptable to consider quitting a job he just obtained, thus placing all of the daily adult responsibilities on Issa again? Does he think that he is too good to work on projects on the side while he earns a living like most people? Is this the train of thought aligned with a man that is ready to lead a household?

And for the record, I rarely agree with any decisions that Issa has made thus far.
 

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I think they messed up with saying he wasnt in this season. I didn't bother watching when they announced that and at this point I'm not going to start back watching since I've already been hearing the season isn't good.
 

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What didn’t. Lawrence give Issa? ATTENTION. This is the same negro who forgot her birthday. I can understand no dinner but b/c he was broke. But he couldn’t even get a card...a single rose...a four page letter? That shows his level of selfishness.

Daniel have Issa a listening ear, a person to be herself with & security in the form of housing while her entire life was/is falling apart. Daniel is better than Lawrence.
Them other nikkas gave her nothing but dikk. Daniel might've got that house from his grandparents and that makes him a better man because let her sleep on the couch while fukking other bytches in his room? She fukking nikkas on the street without even getting a formal date yet Lawrence was the bad guy?
 

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Them other nikkas gave her nothing but dikk. Daniel might've got that house from his grandparents and that makes him a better man because let her sleep on the couch while fukking other bytches in his room? She fukking nikkas on the street without even getting a formal date yet Lawrence was the bad guy?

I never said Issa wasn’t moving reckless in these streets...NEVER. So miss me with the bolded line.

Daniel may have petty but Issa is a non paying guest in his house who told him he was an itch she needed to scratch. IMO, she has no right to dictate the order of his apartment. He was nice enough to oblige.
 

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@Draje @ORDER_66 @Voice of Reason

Lawrence had a very low balance in his account, per his convo with Tasha, so exactly how was he depositing enough money to pay the rent. He was unemployed & living with his girlfriend for two years. No one gets severence pay for two years unless they’ve worked for 10+ years. Lawrence, on the show, admitted that he had to swallow his pride to work at Best Buy so he was definitely down on his luck the entire time. All that being said, where is Lawrence getting all this money to pay half the rent? Giving blood? Giving sperm? Can someone give me a realistic answer as to how this is possible?

Furthermore, Lawrence is the same guy who was thinking about quitting a job he just obtained, to work on Woo Woo. Mind you, we find out later that his Woo Woo idea was an outdated concept. Why did he think it was acceptable to consider quitting a job he just obtained, thus placing all of the daily adult responsibilities on Issa again? Does he think that he is too good to work on projects on the side while he earns a living like most people? Is this the train of thought aligned with a man that is ready to lead a household?

And for the record, I rarely agree with any decisions that Issa has made thus far.



:russ: She said,” you still have some savings”. She didn’t say anything thing about a very low balance lol.



And if Lawrence wasn’t paying any rent why did she have to move out because of a slight rent increase?
 
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