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U a cac boy?

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I'm @*L*E*G*A*C*Y* breh. Im Nigerian and West indian...shyt im probably blacker than the majority of black folks on this site
 

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It's crazy because I'm from and stay in the hood and I go to a local university. I get more respect from non-blacks on campus than I do from blacks in my hood with exception to the OGs. Misery loves company homies. That's why I'm in the gym every night. nikkas trying to squabble out here:wow:
This thread kind of hits home for me...in college if you're black and not a student athlete people treat you like you're invisible or you just don't matter. Even girls ignore you.

Went to a university of over 45,000 and had only 2 friends there...all of my friends that i hung out with didnt even go to school at the time. Random graffiti writers, artists, skaters, djs...etc. i would just do work at school and leave.

I actually went down the physical self improvement route like you my final year. Spent 42 weeks in the gym 5 days a week...signed up for phys ed classes. Eventually i had people coming up to me and asking me if i was on the football team or basketball team and when i told them neither they stopped talking to me. Didnt even get any play with the ladies on campus my last year either. Needless to say though i went to a PWl that probably had more black people playing on the football and basketball teams then actually enrolled for academics. Those were some sad and lonely times and I'm beyond happy I graduated.
 

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Had this chick on my roster and the subject if classes came up. When I told her I was taking chemistry and stats she said "boi you takin that nerd shyt:usure:"

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last I heard she had gotten outta the joint for attempt robbery:ld:

Not every body shyts on knowledge tho. I use to tutor some folks in math when I was in 8 th grade :yeshrug: they looked out for your boi in return
 

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I was in my bed preparing to finish the rest of 1984 tonight (coincidentally) and I decided to check out thecoli and eventually this thread. This is why I joined the coli - to post in an area of with other motivated black men who are trying to become something in life and defy stereotypes. OP I feel where you coming from because I too am in a similar situation as you and have felt the same frustration before.

We gon be alright
 
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Lack of Unification that have led to the overall Destruction of The Black Foundation.

Led us to the "Crab In A Barrel mentality"

The Lack of a Charismatic Figure inbedded within our Community and/or the refusal to become one.
 

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Wow

all this self hate amongst the militants in this thread.

If y'all don't see how generalizing and stereotyping your own people isn't self hate, cooking and just flat out ignorant then I see why y'all go as far as typing on your keyboard to spur any type of change
Umm....how do i respond to this?

Do you see me bashing black people? Do you see me resorting to broad stokes of a brush to describe black people? No. Just that the thread and it's subjects at hand refer to black people. And while i know and am very well aware that there are many of us that are cultured, intelligent, creative, etc ( i have worked with such people pleasurably) i am very well aware that talents outside of athletics and entertainment dont get the necessary praise it should from fellow black folks.

Which is the issue. How does it feel to get props for something from other races but not your own? Ive been there...its hurts.
 

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Lack of Unification that have led to the overall Destruction of The Black Foundation.

Led us to the "Crab In A Barrel mentality"

The Lack of a Charismatic Figure inbedded within our Community and/or the refusal to become one.
Okay...i skateboard for fun and as a hobby...im just going to talk about a little something i feel has more than likely ran it's course.

I grew up in Pittsburgh...i would skate around the city. I would ALWAYS have other black people call me things like "oreo", "white boy", even call me an "uncle tom" and a wannabe...theyd even get angry at me and give me mean looks when i would be skateboarding around town.

Then i moved to nyc...im so happy there are so many black people that skate and build each other up and its cool amongst the younger generation and i feel like it was really what people like me were doing back then that gave those black kids the courage to go out there and skate and express themselves.

But yeah...that crab in the barrel mentality was sad to see.
 

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I feel like we need to big up more black people in engineering, in architecture, in science, in technology, in mathematics, in computer technology/science, in medicine, in chemistry, in the fields that matter...represenatation matters like @PhonZhi says. Black people grow up not seeing themselves in these roles and it becomes limiting to the scope of their own perspective at that time.

Now im not going to shyt on black men and women in sports and entertainment (technically im an entertainer as a dj) especially because those have given many opportunities they wouldnt of had...but in the long run only a few can realistically make it in those fields and the window of opportunity for success is small.
 

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shyt...even look at how damn near every nikka jocking basquiat now cause jay z mentioned him in a verse...guaranteed that dude did not have any sort of black fanbase or following when he was alive.
And you would get clowned for tryna educate some of them on the artist if it was before jay mentioned him.

I remember i used "a big word" and one of my friends looked at me side ways and they was like oh here he go with these words. Cant remember the word, but it wasnt anything impressive. A word on the level of "facetious".

Long story short, ironically , i think we was listening to lil boosie and he said the exact same word. It was all good then cause his favorite gangsta rapper said it.

Thats when i realized some people think its cool to be dumb. Safe to say he isnt my friend anymore.
 

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What kind of self deprecating shyt is this :scust:
If that comes off that way...whatever. im not making any apologies for it.

But ive just seen the struggle that young black men and women go through chasing their dreams outside of sports and entertainment and it made me feel like black people dont support the best and brightest like others. Not even on some keeping up with the jonses shyt...

I see it here in NYC. For black men and women in the arts, in science, in fashion, in engineering, hell damn near any field your just dealing with the motions of being a black person in a predominantly white field. Its rough. We dont get the same financial support, grants, loans, and funding that white artists, designers, creatives get. Most treat them like an anomaly and not even with the respect they so rightfully deserve. Some even view you as out of place. Its 2015 and we're still having firsts. Why dont these black artists, creatives, scientists, engineers, get the same amount of praise as black athletes and entertainers do? Most of us arent even aware they exist until there's an article written about them after the fact. Its almost as if our views of blackness and success and intelligence and innovation are purposefully obscured from a broader scope to a more narrow one.

Kind of the reason i stopped making threads on art and different types of music outside of hip-hop and r&b...ot doesnt get the same amount of love.
 
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