Why don't girls go for 'nice' guys?

[TheFemalePerspective]

You're a fraud.

Before you even went on a date with this guy you were just lying to yourself about giving him a chance, because if you were really open to it, you would have done it long ago.

You sat there silent as he babbled away...rather than injecting something of interest that YOU wanted to explore. Like too many women you were just waiting for him to secretly know what was going to pique your interest? He's not a mindreader.
So what else was this goon going to do? Just suddenly open up a topic about US foreign policy, or what the implications are of the Ebola pandemic?

If you're going to sit at a table looking like a silent, pretty idiot, that's what someone is going to talk about...how pretty you are. Because you literally gave him nothing else to go on.

A date is where you peel back layers instead of admiring the outer layer. Those are your words. But dates are 50/50 and you didn't show any attempt to peel back the layers of his personality. As shytty a date as this was, you deserve equal blame for it.

Don't gloss over the fact that you admitted to being a stuck up c*nt. Because you were. And you know it. So don't try to pass it off on him like he was the reason you acted the way you did.

Was the guy lusting over you?
Probably.

If you're a pretty woman, that's what guys do. Welcome to reality.

Maybe you'll have better success dating people if you actually take charge of your own dating experience rather than waiting for Magical Mr. Right to ask all the right questions and tell all the right jokes.

This entire thread comes across as typical arrogant feminist douchebaggery, where women think that because they have a pretty face and are relatively smart that they don't have to put any effort into seeking what THEY themselves want.

Ask me questions instead of making assumptions. I've had GREAT dates in the past; thus don't consider my observation mode as my blueprint for all dates. As I mentioned previously this was a social experiment of mine. A person who is willing to fall in love with you without needing a reason to do so is suffering from delusion. I didn't expound into the numerous texts, calls, and declarations of love I received after that date because I didn't think it was necessary. I'm not a c*nt and I don't refer to myself as a feminist; but this is the net, so I understand asking you to not make judgements about me is like asking a thirsty man not to drink.

 

[13473]

well date a aggressive thug who will make all the moves

so if i want a guy to treat me nice i have to be the one to initiate contact all the time? i have to get beat up because i don't like to chase men? wow.

 

[Elle Driver]

OP sounds arrogant and like you don't know what you want. Make the moves and take intiative. If he still acts superficial, then you can talk. Plus ole boy don't even sound like a nice guy.

 

[MikelArteta]

Ask me questions instead of making assumptions. I've had GREAT dates in the past; thus don't consider my observation mode as my blueprint for all dates. As I mentioned previously this was a social experiment of mine. A person who is willing to fall in love with you without needing a reason to do so is suffering from delusion. I didn't expand into the numerous texts, calls, and declarations of love I received after that date because I didn't think it was necessary. I'm not a c*nt and I don't refer to myself as a feminist; but this is the net, so I understand asking you to not make judgements about me is like asking a thirsty man not to drink.

Gasp HOLD THE PRESSES

A guy texts and calls after a date

what kind of sorcery is this

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Ask me questions instead of making assumptions. I've had GREAT dates in the past; thus don't consider my observation mode as my blueprint for all dates. As I mentioned previously this was a social experiment of mine. A person who is willing to fall in love with you without needing a reason to do so is suffering from delusion. I didn't expound into the numerous texts, calls, and declarations of love I received after that date because I didn't think it was necessary. I'm not a c*nt and I don't refer to myself as a feminist; but this is the net, so I understand asking you to not make judgements about me is like asking a thirsty man not to drink.

If you even read your responses to previous things in this thread, you either reply with one word, or 'stop making assumptions'. I can't imagine that's easy to deal with in real life.

Social experiment You're just making excuses to be bytchy and feel holier than thou, as usual.

 

[Taadow]

What I got from that story is that you're looking for a guy who will taste you.

If you just lead with that info, i'm certain you'll find a guy you like.

 

[Remote]

Ask me questions instead of making assumptions. I've had GREAT dates in the past; thus don't consider my observation mode as my blueprint for all dates. As I mentioned previously this was a social experiment of mine. A person who is willing to fall in love with you without needing a reason to do so is suffering from delusion. I didn't expound into the numerous texts, calls, and declarations of love I received after that date because I didn't think it was necessary. I'm not a c*nt and I don't refer to myself as a feminist; but this is the net, so I understand asking you to not make judgements about me is like asking a thirsty man not to drink.

Your observations are total bullshyt because you didn't set any ground rules for how you wanted the date to go because you didn't say anything worthwhile that might indicate to this man that he should switch up his style and attack the date in a different way.

So you can hide behind calling this an experiment all you want.

It's all total bullshyt.

Good luck with your natural hair products business, though.
I hope you put more effort into telling people what that is about than you did telling this date about yourself.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

Your observations are total bullshyt because you didn't set any ground rules for how you wanted the date to go because you didn't say anything worthwhile that might indicate to this man that he should switch up his style and attack the date in a different way.

So you can hide behind calling this an experiment all you want.

It's all total bullshyt.

Good luck with your natural hair products business, though.
I hope you put more effort into telling people what that is about than you did telling this date about yourself.

I explained already why I didn't speak more. I'll reiterate myself once more: I could've spoken more and explained what it is that I exactly want, but then he would just emulate it and therefore it wouldn't be genuine in my eyes.

Thanks for wishing me luck though, I appreciate it. And why would I tell my customers what they want or should want? I prefer to be a listener anyway.

 

[Elle Driver]

If you even read your responses to previous things in this thread, you either reply with one word, or 'stop making assumptions'. I can't imagine that's easy to deal with in real life.

Social experiment You're just making excuses to be bytchy and feel holier than thou, as usual.

It's funny reading this shyt because OP don't realize how stank she is.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

If you even read your responses to previous things in this thread, you either reply with one word, or 'stop making assumptions'. I can't imagine that's easy to deal with in real life.

Social experiment You're just making excuses to be bytchy and feel holier than thou, as usual.

I'm sorry you feel that way about me.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

It's funny reading this shyt because OP don't realize how stank she is.

Thanks for the enlightenment. I appreciate it.

 

[Victoria Wade]

Not really. Dumb bytch.

WOW! What an awesome way to show nice you are,cumstain.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

WOW! What an awesome way to show nice you are,cumstain.

Why, thank you.

 

[Elle Driver]

Thanks for the enlightenment. I appreciate it.

Change your attitude and be more open minded. I know it's tough for you seeing that you're bible belt. It'll do you a world of good.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

He probably kept talking because you were being a mute weirdo. What did you expect him to do, stare at you in silence? Then you would be on here talking about how he kept staring at you like a lecher. A conversation requires at least 2 people; you sitting there and "observing" sounds like a bunch of bull, especially since you admitted to liking to talk.

You weren't attracted to ol dude from jumpstreet, so I'm confused as to what your experiment was supposed to prove. It wasn't a date, because from what you've presented, you weren't interested in getting to know this dude; this was a game to you.