Why is having female friends looked down upon on the coli?

[JSmoove29]

Who cares what posters on the coli think..they don't put food in your mouth or pay your bills.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Pretty much .. It's a difference from being friends and being cool

I legit think this is the disconnect happening in this thread. Being a friend, at least IMO, is more than just talking to someone a lot and hanging out once in a while. Friend should be a backbone system, someone to confide real shyt with, someone you shouldn't feel uncomfortable being your true self around. Also someone to keep shyt 100 and call you on your bullshyt.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

I used to think female friends i couldnt fukk were useless but they are actually a good look.

being seen with beautiful women, or having them comment on your photos on social media is a good look.

 

[Tanahashi Coates]

Yep. There were even posters that swore by that here.

I think its stupid black men are even regurgitating that mra/mgtow/meninist/red pill nonsense. They dont even realize that one of the main reasons those groups exist is because they (white males) want to "protect" their women from black men cause they're deluded into thinking we're "stealing their women". Its basically another white supremacist group. Oh those sites and forums get very racist too.

What gives it away is when they start talking about divorce rape. I doubt the average Coli poster has to worry about spousal support. Reading that shyt gave me a better understanding of white coded language. Sites like Heartiste are full of it then when you see how these cats look, you understand why they're so intimidated. Their only power comes from the words they post online and the minions who follow them.

 

[Paradise]

Alot of men on here will say having female friends is stupid because they automatically assume that you've been friendzoned. Women and men can be friends without it being some type of attraction even if one or the other is attractive. Don't let these men folks on here keep you from making friends with women because their logic is silly.

 

[Ashley Banks]

How is he wrong for not wanting to be platonic friends with someone he wants more from?

idk maybe you see nothing wrong with dropping a good friend because they don't want to have sex with you but I think it makes you a pig.

 

[Silkk]

idk maybe you see nothing wrong with dropping a good friend because they don't want to have sex with you but I think it makes you a pig.

He said

"I cant be friends with a girl I'm attracted to, I don't play that. We're either potentially/actually fukking or nothing"

He didn't say anything about dropping a good friend, he said he doesn't want to be just friends with someone he is attracted to.

 

[underwaterboogiebaby]

I cant be friends with a girl I'm attracted to, I don't play that. We're either potentially/actually fukking or nothing

With that said, my best friend is a girl because she's a dope person

Yeah you can.....think with your head(the one on top)

 

[underwaterboogiebaby]

I used to think female friends i couldnt fukk were useless but they are actually a good look.

being seen with beautiful women, or having them comment on your photos on social media is a good look.

how typical.......sigh

 

[Matt504]

lets discuss this further here @ coliworld

 

[MikelArteta]

No such thing as a legit female friend , just women you have smashed and women you want to smash imo.

Even my closest female friend got married a few months at, haven't spoken to her since all female friendships have a expire date for the most part.

Even now in a relationship some chicks I considered friends or acquaintances don't even speak to me anymore


Female. Co workers sure
Female acquaintances sure

Female friends hell no

 

[Dominicansbelit]

Being friends with a female tho?

For what reason?

If she ain't tryna fukk I don't really consider my relationship with her important, unless it's on a professional level

/thread



This is how boss nikkas move

 

[BocaRear]

Where did this lie that female friends are the best wingmen come from?

Women hate each other and most of all hate to see you with another women regardless if you're just friends or not, she'll do anything to sabotage your shyt.


You nikkas confusing the fact that women aspire to have a man that has a lot of female approval/ bytches that want the D. That doesn't mean you have to befriend any of them

Any nikka with a legitimate female friend is a bytch. Full stop.

 

[underwaterboogiebaby]

Any nikka with a legitimate female friend is a bytch. Full stop. [/QUOTE]
Nope, not true for everyone. We are GREAT friends, and he would do anything for me. Again, not every man is trying to get an attractive woman into his bed. A true friend, male or female is priceless

 

[Shameonyou]

this issue is multifaceted....the true constant backbone in this topic though is that any man over the age of 25 still hanging around women and not getting anywhere with them and are only being seen as "friends" in the womans eyes are wasting their time, and hustlin backwards.....if yall just talk on whattsapp every weekend and you bored thats different. If you taking her places, paying for shyt, and its on some "kicking it with the homies" shyt...you gotta be gay or your pops aint love you enough.

no man should be spending hard earned time which is money and progress on a woman that doesnt see him as a romantic option....sometimes in life we have to stop making shyt complicated and just keep it 100....im a grown ass man, you a grown ass woman...if im spending time with you physically...you know what time it is....

dont be fooled. Women know this...they just using you for your time cuz its there....and you letting them.