Why is having sex early on in a relationship seen as a bad thing?

[Neuromancer]

I think he cancer before hand iirc

I thought it was years of being bonded to the suit. I need to reread that run.

 

[Black_Panther_JS]

cause p*ssy brainwashes the dudes mind to the point where that's all he wants

 

[DazednTranslation]

The way I see it, fukkin between adults should be between those adults. Who tf still out here running their mouths about where their pussies and dikks been??

Its your own damn fault for letting nikkas in your business in the first place.

 

[KodeBlue]

I've noticed that the women didn't chime in on my points about the lesbian thing, or going Dutch until sex is involved..etc? No rebuttals?

 

[Neuromancer]

I've noticed that the women didn't chime in on my points about the lesbian thing, or going Dutch until sex is involved..etc? No rebuttals?

Speak on it bro.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Like someone already stated, everybody likes sex but everybody doesn't wanna admit it. We are wired to reproduce so sex feels good. Now, you can be smart and not end up with offspring every time you do the deed but some wreckless folks ain't trying to hear that.

 

[Gus Money]

That's the thing, I can understand, I think most women can. It's men that don't understand how hard it is for women. Most guys only want sex so women try to avoid those guys by waiting to see what he's about and you guys villainize women for that. As if there's something wrong with not wanting to be used. We can't want to get to know a guy before having sex with him, we can't have a high body count, we also can't be single. But we can't get a boyfriend unless we have sex with him before he's our boyfriend but if we have sex with him before that there's a 98% chance he won't want anything serious.

Then after he smashes and leaves we'll have to repeat and if we keep getting the same results it's our fault but we can't get to know the guys we sleep with before we sleep with them because we can't make a guy wait because he will play us.

Men say women are confusing but yall are even more confusing. It's exhausting.



The only guys I've ever heard say differently are a few guys on here.

I see your POV and I respect how hard it is to be in a position like that. Dudes put so much value on sex that they don't even realize how much they're messing it up for everyone in the long run. Part of that mentality for dudes comes from the fear of being put in the "friend zone" if they wait too long to make a move or show interest in sex. It's messed up all around.

I know this will sound corny and cliche but a respectable dude wouldn't have a problem with waiting to get to know a woman before having sex. And a respectable woman wouldn't "friend zone" a guy just because he wasn't super aggressive early on. But you can tell from a lot of the posts on here that plenty of people (myself included at one time) are not getting involved with respectable people. And dealing with those shytty people influences how we view the respectable people when we're lucky enough to meet them.

Makes me wants to go buy a cabin in the woods and live off the land.

 

[PinotNoir]

Women want an emotional connection before sex happens but unfortunately it rarely happens that way. I'll give some info about myself, the man I'm with now is the first one I moved fast with meaning we slept together two weeks after meeting, at the time I felt it was okay to do, but looking forward now I still prefer to get to know him first as friends before getting intimate and if he wants to date around because I'm not giving up the panties fast enough, that's on him I have no problem with it. To each his own.

 

[Jean Jacket]

We want to hunt our prey. The trill and ultimately the measure of prowess result from the degree of difficulty and scope of clutching your victory.

If you ever played Forza on Xbox...

You get that first weak ass obligatory car after your first race event. Everybody got it, nobody respects it... But they understand its purpose.

You modify it and upgrade it only enough to win races and save money.


What you are saving up for and honing your skills for is that McLaren P1... Which everybody respects, because not every man can earn it and it takes acumen to procure it and maximize its capability.

Just a perspective.

 

[True Blue Moon]

It's all about the energy of the person you're dealing with. You gotta really be a judge of character and keep your mind, heart and senses open. If a dude takes you emotionally to the point of wanting to fukk, he likely also shared enough of himself to get a vibe on his character. While that vibe won't tell you their credit score or whether he believes in God etc., I'm a firm believer that a fukk nikka reveals himself early.

To the ladies complaining of confusion or problems in these areas, I guarantee you if dude was around your uncles or male cousins for any stretch of time their Spider senses would tingle.

 

[The ADD]

It's not. They should be giving it up as quick as possible.

With reason of course

 

[Easy-E]

Who has sex with someone before actually knowing them? A ho who doesn't respect themselves

I'll go there; just because you"waited" 6 months doesn't mean u "know" anyone...especially before they got what they wanted...

I'm not on either side of the argument, really.

 

[Beck.er.]

After sex I become like the Venom symbiote and try to bond with my partner like a parasite.

Either way Imma give the object of my affections love, attention, and cancer.


I'm ok with that.

...

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

It's not. They should be giving it up as quick as possible.

With reason of course

And I thought you were one of the level headed ones.

I'll go there; just because you"waited" 6 months doesn't mean u "know" anyone...especially before they got what they wanted...

I'm not on either side of the argument, really.

Who said I was only waiting six months?

 

[The ADD]

And Celibate