Why is it harder for women to let go of the past from bad relationships?

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I'm a married 42 old man

Women are more primal than men
You sound stupid buckling down you age don’t matter 42?years is a drop in the bucket compare to he length of human existence.

Just say in your experience.
 

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You sound stupid buckling down you age don’t matter 42?years is a drop in the bucket compare to he length of human existence.

Just say in your experience.

I'm stating facts

Women are primal. They look for men to reproduce with
It always goes back to physicality for them
 

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women get over good dikk everyday b

all women dont care about that and it's not gonna keep her for long

Good sex is subjective and as it has being studied a lot more is needed for women to enjoy sex. The act on its own is not sufficient, there has to be an emotional connection.

This site stays trying to make men a different species than women yet men and women share a lot in common its just that we generally manifest it a bit differently.
 

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I'm stating facts

Women are primal. They look for men to reproduce with
It always goes back to physicality for them

I can speak for myself and several women that I know it isn’t true. Humans are much evolved than simply animalistic instincts. Even animals have more complex sentiments than that.
 

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yeah thats the problem. any one who jumps from relationship to relationship usually did not assess the problems and hurt they dealt with in the last one and they bring that negativity to the new one. i dont think men are more prone to move on from the bad quickly.

is it sitting around in gloom or is it being responsible and and figuring yourself out? depends on who you ask. i dont think women or men or any better at this.


True,but the best way to get over someone is to replace them with someone else. If a woman gets with the right man he will assess the problem for her.Women should truly ask men,"Whats my problem?" soon aftet entering a new relationship. If a man cant tell you within 2 weeks to a month,that is not the man to tie yourself too.This is a message for all the women and little girls watching:respect:
 

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I can speak for myself and several women that I know it isn’t true. Humans are much evolved than simply animalistic instincts. Even animals have more complex sentiments than that.

Nature always win with women. Always. It's primal
 
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I swear man threads like these let me know how so many coli brehs are inexperienced with women
:comeon: I'm a married man tho...I KNOW ABOUT WOMEN, I made this thread because on average from what I've seen is that women (of course not every one of them) struggle with letting the bitterness die, who do you think writes all these articles "going off" on men after breakups instead of just letting shyt go.

Just saying :manny:.
 
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I wouldn’t say men are “better” I just think men are more capable of suppressing emotion, which can either be or a good OR bad thing depending on the mindstate of the man.

a man who thinks logically can say “Damn. I was really feeling her, but it didn’t work out so she must not be the one for me. Oh well plenty of fish in the sea” and then start the rat race again. He may ACTUALLY be feeling pretty upset about the situation but, as alot of men are physically creatures, we find another attractive woman who has the traits we desire and we’re “back in the game again”

i will say to your point, that a man who is TRULY in love very VERRYYYYY rarely thinks rationally. I’ve seen strong men, some of my best friends, fall apart when a woman they truly loved broke their hearts. I’m talking about brothers going for days not eating, depressed, fukking heartsick. Stalking the exes social media, obsessing over which new nikka who liked her pics is blowing her back out. Sad stuff.


So in conclusion, really the only advantage men have over women when it comes to breakups is the POTENTIAL for emotional suppression. And thats a slippery slope depending on the man


I see your reasoning but truth be told...that suppression isn't an advantage, not in the long term. The ability to put aside emotional stuff and get things done is very much a (necessary!~) short term skill set to develop. Long term suppression brings problems all their own.

Just because many women take their feelings and craft treadmills to run on doesn't make their hurt worse, or make it harder for them to "get over" anything. It's just a different, albeit equally unhealthy, approach to the same issues.
 
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