"Why women don't want to cook or clean for men anymore?"

[Heafcliffe]

Breh in the glasses is a clown. Try-hard for content, wannabe Kevin Sam, ass nkka.

Agreed

 

[Da_Eggman]

They both wack

 

[calixprynce]

It’s those little things that make all the difference. Even now, I got off earlier than my girl and there’s no way I’m going to sit here and starve until she gets home to cook

nobody care about yo ugly ass white bytch . bytch smell like wet cardboard . she out gettin fucced on , lame ass whiteboy

 

[dr. pill biden]

we believe in God in this house so even though we both work we know what we’re responsible for. at the end of the day the wife’s domain is taking care of the home so even if the husband helps around the crib thats just extra out of the kindness of his heart but its not “his job”. same goes for paying the bills, doing the budgeting, financial planning, maintenance, and ultimately the welfare and direction of the home is the responsibility of the man. and the wife won’t have to answer for that

we just did this last week. he did all the shopping meal planning and cooking for the whole week and i tried doing the budget and credit card and making appointmenrs and shyt. let’s just say we both gained an appreciation for what each person does because thats some bullshyt neither one of us want to do


but at the end of the day most people lack defined roles and understanding of their purpose. and they don’t knowthe difference between a roommate and a spouse. just confusion and darkness all around

 

[Contrefaire]

Also just to keep it real, most of the women i’ve dated the past 5-6 years haven’t had any issues with cooking. There are black women out in the world who still take pride in culinary arts. Like I literally CANNOT think of a time where a woman I was involved with had an issue cooking meals for us. I’ve always thought that a great compromise is if she cooks then i’ll clean up. Make it a TEAM effort. No man is going to lose his “authority” in the household by cleaning up the goddamn house. Some of ya’ll nikkas are draconian as all hell

Black women will still happily do all those things for men they love tbh. It's only when entitled, ungrateful or SpLiT dA rENt head ass lames start making DEMANDS that they fall back.

It's like the backlash that one nikka got for making a video calling for the return of women who pack their man's lunches and give back rubs.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Most women don't cook now because they fukking can't. Ya'll can sit around crying over roles and shyt, but the fact of the matter is unless you banging out enough money for your wife to comfortably sit at home there's going to be some overlap. That means that some days you're going to cook. Some days you're going to do laundry. Etc, etc...It becomes less about fulfilling some societal framework, and more about making sure your ship stays on course. Here you have some dude who isn't married, telling some dude that's been married for 20 years that he's wrong. If it's working for him and his family, and they're happy, fukk what society thinks.

 

[Tha_Mac]

I HATE when dudes get their little bullshyt fantasy of what “marriage” is supposed to be shattered and then can’t back up their opinions.

The dude that was married explained EXACTLY how his marriage worked for HIM and the other dude was blubbering and blabbering like an idiot. Couldn’t come up with any counterarguments or logical reasoning for why the other guy should feel “wrong” in how his own household is run.

That's the thing, too many people nowadays wanna police other people lives and how they should live it.

The dude with the glasses who was asking questions is probably single (that's what I thought after a while) trying to dictate to a man who's been married 20 years how his marriage should be defined. fukk outta here with that lame shyt.

 

[Spectre]

Most women don't cook now because they fukking can't. Ya'll can sit around crying over roles and shyt, but the fact of the matter is unless you banging out enough money for your wife to comfortably sit at home there's going to be some overlap. That means that some days you're going to cook. Some days you're going to do laundry. Etc, etc...It becomes less about fulfilling some societal framework, and more about making sure your ship stays on course. Here you have some dude who isn't married, telling some dude that's been married for 20 years that he's wrong. If it's working for him and his family, and they're happy, fukk what society thinks.

This

How can a single guy tell a longtime married man how marriage works?
That's like a guy with an entry job telling a career professional how the job industry works

I'm realizing a bunch of these relationship discussions are being had by young single people in situation-ships.
just babbling on and on about dating with little successful experience. there's no guidance, it's the wild west and almost anything goes

 

[Tha_Mac]

And for the record I'm okay with taking turns to cook and clean. But to be honest I would want my woman to do more of both and help her out when I can.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

This

How can a single guy tell a longtime married man how marriage works?
That's like a guy with an entry job telling a career professional how the job industry works

I'm realizing a bunch of these relationship discussions are being had by young single people in situation-ships.
just babbling on and on about dating with little successful experience. there's no guidance, it's the wild west and almost anything goes

Because there are a bunch of selfish sociopaths running around. All these shows and podcasts follow the same format, and they're EATING

"What do you bring to the table?"...

" I cook, clean and take care of the home."

"Well I can do that myself"

Wait a minute....I thought that's what you wanted. And it's all a bunch of forever singles broadcasting to the world why they aren't worth more than a quick fukk. They have no duty. No sense of responsibility, and no idea of what true intimacy is.

 

[Spectre]

And for the record I'm okay with taking turns to cook and clean. But to be honest I would want my woman to do more of both and help her out when I can.

That's fair

 

[Ol’Otis]

I don’t mind doing my own cooking and cleaning. shyt doesn’t bother me really

This

 

[Shadow King]

Technically yes every couple needs their own set up but realistically the macro level discussion will influence the individual couple.

The real issue is as, as @Remote stated, women treat cooking and cleaning as imprisonment. Men are still expected to come in as the breadwinner or grow into one, however.

 

[Bompton313]

Im so tired of topics likes this because imo it shows how behind we are as a community. This week is "roles" then next week its gonna be dinner with jayz or 100000. Or some genius saying how they would take 800 credit score over a million. I never see whites debating this dumb shyt.

Nikka with glasses is some unmarried kevin samuels dikksucker telling a married man with a 20yr long marriage, how his marriage should be. I just dont understand why its so hard for us to say, DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU AND YOUR HOUSEHOLD!

 

[Jazzy B.]

Because they can’t as they don’t know how to in the first place

Anyone who has been in a relationship with a woman who actually knows how to cook knows they ALWAYS want you to try their damn cooking