Women and Cold Approaching

[Weaver31]

No I'm not in shape, I'm obese. Looks wise I'm averagegang, could look a lot better if I lost weight.

Focus on ur weight first. Ur in ur 30s so being obese can help lead to health issues especially with how hard blacks and black men have it. I may have to be on blood pressure meds because its heredity and my job is stressful and family got tons of issues. That extra weight ur carrying is too much and some people gonna view it as unattractive and lazy.

No offense, but work on that and maybe u will feel more confidence and less awkwardness once the weight comes off. I lost weight myself and feel better and sexier. I hope things work out for u.

 

[Nagarjuna]

Not to be rude, but man you're 35 and a virgin. You ain't got the verbal dexterity to talk a woman out her panties and you need to get that damn monkey off your back. Pay for escorts and fukk some hoes bruh. Hell even talk to them while your at it

This will show you you don't need to put women on a pedestal and they're human with the same wants and needs as men. Then hit the gym

fukking and working out should boost your confidence some. Then you should probably get a starter bytch. Maybe a fat white girl from POF lol

 

[FukyourFort]

its dope that yall are actually giving homie advice

 

[semicko82]

OP you ain’t gonna do shyt. You’ve made this thread before and the year before and the year before. Said you was gonna lose weight but didn’t. Said you was gonna try to talk to girls but didn’t


Stop making the same thread every year fakkit. Not trying to be rude. You ain’t gonna do a damn thing. Next thing you know you will be 45 making this same thread


Edit: someone just replied two posts above me saying the same thing

I literally thought this was an old thread until I saw the date

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Don’t talk to women until you get your money right

 

[CopiousX]

I A few people online recommended cold approaching women at stores, walmart, etc, etc. Are women receptive to being cold approached in stores, grocery stores, etc?

If so, I want to start approaching women at Wal-Mart and grocery stores.

If you Clean yourself up, you should be fine.


By clean, I mean getting proper clothing, proper haircut, cologne/scent, proper posture, proper tonality, etc. Women will respond to these things before you ever open your mouth.


As for what you should say , this will be difficult if it's your first time trying this stuff out and don't have someone to guide you in person. I recommend straight up getting a script your first dozen times until you get comfortable enough to speak your heart.


And please, Dave. For the love of God, please ignore anybody and everybody telling you to "be yourself" or just "be natural". That ain't the lick when you are out here for the first time.




Good luck out there tho, this is progress!

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I am 35 years old and a virgin. I have social anxiety and am socially awkward/inept. To get comfortable with women and get to a point where I can sleep with them. A few people online recommended cold approaching women at stores, walmart, etc, etc. Are women receptive to being cold approached in stores, grocery stores, etc?

If so, I want to start approaching women at Wal-Mart and grocery stores.


EDIT: I want to get an escort/s in the future but currently don't have the money and still live with my mother.



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Honestly breh your best bet is being around women. I really don't have a Mouthpiece at all and cold approaching is something I wish I could do and I plan on doing so.

Find some dancing classes or get on meetup.com. They might have groups in your city. Thats what I plan on doing this summer. My goal is to have fun and get comfortable with women, then move from there.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Practice by talking to female workers at stores. Asking for help but really you don’t need it. Don’t come off creepy. Just talk about the product y’all are looking at.

Yeah this would be good practice.

 

[ElMorenoFeo809]

No I'm not in shape, I'm obese. Looks wise I'm averagegang, could look a lot better if I lost weight.

hit the gym if you can. Slim down and be dedicated to working out. Also try to stay at the same gym where women can notice you and your progress on losing weight and getting fit. They will see that and maybe 1 will want to be your workout buddy where things could possibly start from there, breh.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

All jokes aside tho OP I suggest therapy before you do anything else

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

No I'm not in shape, I'm obese. Looks wise I'm averagegang, could look a lot better if I lost weight.

losing weight and getting in shape will solve 75 percent of ur issues
take 9 months off for fitness
step fashion game up...and get ur money up

start july 1st 2021...till march 22 2022
fitness+fashion+finance

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

stay away from these online dating/coaches/vultures/redpill
delete all that content

 

[WheresWallace]

Before you start cold approaching you have to have a good foundation.

General People Skills.
-You have to read a persons body language so that you are not inappropriate.
Confidence
-Basically, having certainty in who you are and what you bring to the table. (Even if you are a book worm, OWN IT.)

Work on that before you cold approach women. Have conversations with cashiers, people in public places. Next, focus on having platonic relationships with females so that you can understand their nature and how to communicate with them. They may even give you advice. After that you can start cold approaching women.

 

[Uno Venova]

Just pay for an escort bro, trust me. The fact that you're a virgin in your 30's means you ain't in the top or middle tier ranking of desirable men (sorry if that sounds harsh but it it what it is better you accept it and move accordingly). Detach yourself from wanting female validation completely, look into MGTOW.

As I said, if you want some cheeks, go pay for it and get it over with. From what you've told us of your situation women are either going to use you or you're going to have to jump through a million and one hoops to even get a kiss.

I want you to win bro

This only feels good for the moment and does nothing to increase your social skills tho

 

[Wink Beaufield]

No I'm not in shape, I'm obese. Looks wise I'm averagegang, could look a lot better if I lost weight.

I'm fat too.But I'm an extrovert. I met a joint through a local bike riding club riding my recumbent trike. (lost 75lbs so far doing long distance rides) The big thing at your age is getting into group activities. If you into science fiction/comics/anime/gaming, I always suggest hitting up conventions and mingle with people as you already have something in common at a con. Others have made the point to fix up your dress style. Go to a decent big and tall clothing store and get properly fitted.