Would You Seriously Date and/or Marry A "Pick Me?"

[*Angel*]

'Yall hoes just mad because your bullshyt is getting called out, and other women are waking up and choosing to no along go with, and cosign the fukkery. Yet yall are the least married, least desired; with the most kids out of wedlock, and have some of the most STD's.

A hit dog will holler won't it?! You emotional tantrum typing cry baby. Cry me river.

Are you even Black? No Black man should be spewing that last part bc its a direct reflection of him. I'm a Black woman. You Others aren't desirable to me anyways so fk your feelings.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

'Yall hoes just mad because your bullshyt is getting called out, and other women are waking up and choosing to no along go with, and cosign the fukkery. Yet yall are the least married, least desired; with the most kids out of wedlock, and have some of the most STD's.

I was with you on your other quote but let's not go into bs statistics that prioritize demonzing the black race. There was just a thread on here a week ago that proved white women have just as much STDs if not more than everyone else in the population but due to private insurance it isn't documented.

Also, trying to tell black women we are least desired is some white shyt. I wouldn't care if Juan, Conner, Muhammad don't like me no way. They're opinion don't make me shyt. But when a suppose "black man" throws out that rhetoric you are no better than a white supremacist.

Least married is debatable and on shaky ground.

Point is you looking real funny in the light.

 

[*Angel*]

Also, just to be clear, my original post is my opinion on the topic not the video. The girl in the video made valid points. I don't see her as a pick me bc she's living with a Black man who is the what she's speaking against. I should have mentioned that initially.

 

[Blackout]

Female c00ns call any black woman that prefer black men a "pick me"

 

[TheBlackSun]

A hit dog will holler won't it?! You emotional tantrum typing cry baby. Cry me river.

Are you even Black? No Black man should be spewing that last part bc its a direct reflection of him. I'm a Black woman. You Others aren't desirable to me anyways so fk your feelings.

If there's anyone here who's emotional is you; given your inability to even want to acknowledge the hard FACTS, by throwing up the black card/ we're all one bullshyt when you've been called out. You and others like you always want to kick dirt onto the black man, but then when called on your shyt, you want to throw up how "WE'RE BOTH OPPRESSED! WE'RE IN THIS TOGETHER!" as a way to deflect the argument when first- you whores were the one's that originally created this situation of ain't shyt men in the community that we've had for the last two generations by choosing welfare of the black family, kicking men out of the home, and having babies by dudes who wasn't worth of a fukk. Second- Me being black ain't got shyt to do with what I originally addressed in your statement. You can take all that bullshyt back to LSA where all you hoes can be miserable together. You black women only get away with this shyt because these simps will pander to your bullshyt and not call it out.

Notice how not once did you even attempt to address the stats in my argument? Because you can't.

Also you know, your icon is quite fitting, and ironic in many ways

 

[satam55]

@xoxodede and @Koco

Lets be real. The very origins of the term "Pick Me" came from 3rd Wave Feminist and Black Feminist on Twitter. I don't usually go on the typical Coli "I hate feminists" rant, but in this case you gotta know the origin of the term, and you gotta know how MOST women determine who is and isnt a Pick Me. And a LARGE enough segment of women don't have a clearly defined definition of what a "Pick Me" is as you do. ALOT of them really label any woman who deviates at least a tad bit from the feminist ideology, as a "Pick Me". I'm sure there are women with waaaaay less extreme views as the woman you posted, who have been labled a "Pick Me". No seriously, a BW could say "All Black men aren't bad" and that'll be considered treading "Pick Me" waters in alot of these women's eyes. It's either "Black Men Are Trash" or else you're just another "Pick Me". It's their term. They made it up. They (feminist) ultimately get to dictate who is and isn't a Pick Me. You don't determine that....

Be reality OP. Im sure you're on Twitter...

I don't do social media. Just not into it.

But, thanks for the lesson. I first heard it online - I don't remember where - but I liked it. It fit so well for some people I knew. So, I adapted it into my vocab.

I don't agree with your assessment. Because, I often have to take up for BM - or shut comments down if I see something I know is false and not representative of the Black men I KNOW, date, around and raised me. I am not a "pick me" - and even those who use the word wouldn't call me that.

So, I guess it's subjective and based on who uses it.

But, like a few posters said "generalizations" is causing disarray in our community.

See this is why the OP shouldn't be taken serious. She admits she doesn't even use social media & is trying to push her made-up definition of a "Pick Me", despite the fact it's an established Shea Butter Twitter term.

 

[TheBlackSun]

I was with you on your other quote but let's not go into bs statistics that prioritize demonzing the black race. There was just a thread on here a week ago that proved white women have just as much STDs if not more than everyone else in the population but due to private insurance it isn't documented.

Also, trying to tell black women we are least desired is some white shyt. I wouldn't care if Juan, Conner, Muhammad don't like me no way. They're opinion don't make me shyt. But when a suppose "black man" throws out that rhetoric you are no better than a white supremacist.

Least married is debatable and on shaky ground.

Point is you looking real funny in the light.

Once again, black folks want to find an excuse and deflection from the issues by a false equivalency. White people having more STD than anyone else in the population would make sense given that they are the majority still here in this country. Blacks are only 13% of the population, yet our women make up 45% of women infected with genital herpes, and new HIV infections. And where are your documents and the threat supporting the private insurance that isn't documented?

Telling black women the truth about where they fall on the scale and how their perceived by the world isn't some "white shyt." Black women have some of the worst denial, and always want to be shielded from criticism while your choices continue to be your own detriment. The thing that ya'll don't realize is that black men are ALL YOU HAVE in regards to dating desirability. (This is not directed to the married black couples) And outside of a few minority of non black men who date black women, nobody is lining up to court black women, the way other races of women are lining up to date black men. There are NUMEROUS studies to even prove this. Stop letting these simps gas your heads up. Are these same simps putting rings on your fingers?

"They're opinion don't make me shyt"- This IDGAF attitude is exactly why black women are in the current condition that their in.


"But when a suppose "black man" throws out that rhetoric you are no better than a white supremacist."- what is rhetoric when it's supported by facts.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Once again, black folks want to find an excuse and deflection from the issues by a false equivalency. White people having more STD than anyone else in the population would make sense given that they are the majority still here in this country. Blacks are only 13% of the population, yet our women make up 45% of women infected with genital herpes, and new HIV infections. And where are your documents and the threat supporting the private insurance that isn't documented?

Telling black women the truth about where they fall on the scale and how their perceived by the world isn't some "white shyt." Black women have some of the worst denial, and always want to be shielded from criticism while your choices continue to be your own detriment. The thing that ya'll don't realize is that black men is ALL YOU HAVE in regards to dating desirability. (This is not directed to the married black couples) And outside of a few minority of non black men who date black women, nobody is lining up to court black women, the way other races of women are lining up to date black men. There are NUMEROUS studies to even prove this. Stop letting these simps gas your heads up. Are these same simps putting rings on their fingers.

"They're opinion don't make me shyt"- This IDGAF attitude is exactly why black women are in the current condition that their in.


"But when a suppose "black man" throws out that rhetoric you are no better than a white supremacist."- what is rhetoric when it's supported by facts.

You are full of shyt and you know it.

I have no problems calling out bad behaviors in our (mine) community whatsoever. Including my own.

But to act as if the black race isn't under a miscroscope is bullshyt. Anything we do will be dramatized 10x more and ostracized. If you can't see that something is wrong with you.

I don't have time nor am I willing to put up stastics and "show" you what it is. If you don't understand simple shyt about how we are demonized as a people then we have nothing furthermore to discuss.

Seems like you're taking personal pride into telling other black women that they aren't desirable by "other" men. Men like you are suspect asf.

 

[TheBlackSun]

You are full of shyt and you know it.

I have no problems calling out bad behaviors in our (mine) community whatsoever. Including my own.

But to act if the black race isn't under a miscroscope is bullshyt. Anything we do will be dramatized 10x more and ostracized. If you can see that something is wrong with you.

I don't have time nor am I willing to put up stastics and "show" you what it is. If you don't understand simple shyt about how we are demonized as a people than we have nothing furthermore to discuss.

Seems like you're taking personal pride into telling other black women that they aren't desirable by "other" men. Men like you are suspect asf.

LOL I asked you to provide sources and yo ass obviously can't. It's settled. My arguments been validated! Now you're pulling the gay car because I refuse to fall for the bullshyt, and stand my ground. Typical black woman shyt. So you don't have "time" to pull up them sources, but you have time to try and argue, and count some bullshyt sources and statistics, and documentation that you can't even prove exist. Us being demonized ain't got shyt with me asking you to pull up some sources. Seriously though, grow up and learn how to argue like an adult.

As for the STD's, we're not talking about white people, we are talking about specifically black women, and the conditions inside OUR community.

"Seems like you're taking personal pride into telling other black women that they aren't desirable by "other" men. Men like you are suspect asf"- LMAO personal strides? Would you like me to pull up the many sources to show you what I mean?

 

[LoStranger]

Male feminist don't have a look.....its all in the words.

And I've seen women get labeled "pick me" simply for the attention they receive or for simply being rational in their perspective even if it doesn't pander to the male ego.

"Pick me" do exist though.

Bingo! Poitier does it again! or am I pandering here....

In all seriousness some of those women do have low self esteem (you can see it) but many of them can be very rational and desirable because they aren't at your throat, challenging you 24/7.....

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

LOL I asked you to provide sources and yo ass obviously can't. It's settled. My arguments been validated! Now you're pulling the gay car because I refuse to fall for the bullshyt, and stand my ground. Typical black woman shyt. So you don't have "time" to pull up them sources, but you have time to try and argue, and count some bullshyt sources and statistics, and documentation that you can't even prove exist. Us being demonized ain't got shyt with me asking you to pull up some sources. Seriously though, grow up and learn how to argue like an adult.

As for the STD's, we're not talking about white people, we are talking about specifically black women, and the conditions inside OUR community.

"Seems like you're taking personal pride into telling other black women that they aren't desirable by "other" men. Men like you are suspect asf"- LMAO personal strides? Would you like me to pull up the many sources to show you what I mean?

I only read first few sentences.

You are being dramatic no one pulled the gay card out. Don't try to throw that narrative on me.

You the one have something to prove, I don't.

I'm simply disagreeing with you.

And again in case you lack comprehension didn't read the rest of your bullshyt.

 

[TheBlackSun]

I only read first few sentences.

You are being dramatic no one pulled the gay card out. Don't try to throw that narrative on me.

You the one have something to prove, I don't.

I'm simply disagreeing with you.

And again in case you lack comprehension didn't read the rest of your bullshyt.

But you said you had sources and a thread to help prove your argument correct? You didn't pull the gay card up, but called me suspect? I have something to prove, yet you replied to my post to argue my statistics? The burden of proof here is one you- look it up)

You didn't read the rest of my bullshyt, but replied to my post twice to argue and get emotional and petty over certain statements I made?

Cognitive dissonance much?

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Nothin said in the op was wrong tho. bytches who talk about nikkaz ain't shyt usually is bums that no man that's worth anything will take serious.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

I didn't say "she" didn't look good - but definitely! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. He better find her attractive.

She is pandering and repeating generalizations about BW. I live in Atlanta and my city maybe full of them - but I wouldn't know - that isn't my circle, it isn't what I surround myself around or anyone I know. It's Internet life. So, I am not cool with another woman saying that like it is.

I have never seen the "slanging meme" - but do you feel it's ok for her to go on Facebook and make the comments and generalizations about Black women don't do this or that. Based off a few responses or her Facebook feed. Nah - I can't get behind that either.

We will have to agree to disagree - IMO and my personal definition - she would be one - but I understand if you don't see her as one.

She said the women she see posting that shyt. Not all women. Any women that post that meme is a bum. Facts only.

Just because you don't think she looks good doesn't mean her HUSBAND feels the same way?

I don't see why this particular woman will have to pander to her husband hon.

The meme where it said black men only slang dikk not date is such a disgusting meme and I don't think she said anything wrong.

The same women that have 100 items for a man brings absolutely shyt to the table and usually are bum bytches. My city full of women she described.

I see nothing in your OP that would make this woman your definition of a pick me. And I agree with her 1,000% and from my post history nikkas already know I don't pander to they asses.

I love u sis. U stay on point

 

[LoStranger]

I only ever see the term "pick me" being used when black men are being dragged through the mud on social media by these fullback built feminist wenches and a pretty (usually lightish skin) girl defends us.

I've definitely noticed that, especially the light skin part.....

'Yall hoes just mad because your bullshyt is getting called out, and other women are waking up and choosing to not along go with, and cosign the fukkery. Yet yall are the least married, least desired; with the most kids out of wedlock, and have some of the most STD's.

Exactly....