Would You Seriously Date and/or Marry A "Pick Me?"

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

and are women really saying men are wrong for picking the female equal to the nice guy?

this just goes to show some womens mindsets is all fukked up.

maybe you women should stop being so superficial

Self identifying "nice guys" are just as fake as these "pick mes"

This woman is the female equivalent of a dirty mack......... people who are raised right don't have to shyt on other people to make themselves look better

Nobody wins when the family feuds

 

[The_Truth]

Pick Me:

A derogatory term made for black women by black women who allegedly defend black women because said black women do not hate black men like they do.

The origin of this term can be traced to black feminists/womanists/whatever the hell they're calling themselves.

 

[NotaPAWG]

Pick Me:

A derogatory term made for black women by black women who allegedly defend black women because said black women do not hate black men like they do.

The origin of this term can be traced to black feminists/womanists/whatever the hell they're calling themselves.

i first saw the term "pick me" used on twitter by white feminists aimed at other women who go against their hive mind

 

[Neuromancer]

Did you read my initial post? What you think? You are wasting your time.

what about me believing you're a lying about you intentions don't you get?

And as stated I think you're a liar.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

But you said you had sources and a thread to help prove your argument correct? You didn't pull the gay card up, but called me suspect? I have something to prove, yet you replied to my post to argue my statistics? The burden of proof here is one you- look it up)

You didn't read the rest of my bullshyt, but replied to my post twice to argue and get emotional and petty over certain statements I made?

Cognitive dissonance much?

nikka your POST is suspect not YOU.

Why tf would I go straight to calling you gay?

And yes, I didn't read the rest of your bullshyt.

 

[Poitier]

Also, what's so wrong about wanting a man to pick you? I mean...if you're single and looking, making yourself desirable to men if that's what you're into should be what you try to do. ..

Y'all seriously can't be this dumb

Also stop acting like "a ring" is a barometer of a ideal woman on a forum where #GMB is a hashtag.

Keep letting these hoes play to your ego til they get the baby, fancy wedding, alimony or green card they want.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Yo y'all really having fights with these hoes online? They some online hoes who cares what they think.

 

[Phoenix Rising]

Y'all seriously can't be this dumb

Also stop acting like "a ring" is a barometer of a ideal woman on a forum where #GMB is a hashtag.

Keep letting these hoes play to your ego til they get the baby, fancy wedding, alimony or green card they want.

Jaded much?

You'd much rather all women take the bash men approach? Ok cool.You're a masochist. Some dudes like to argue and be at odds, I get it, it's a turn on. To each thier own. Maybe you should hook up with the OP.

 

[Poitier]

Jaded much?

You'd much rather all women take the bash men approach? Ok cool.You're a masochist. Some dudes like to argue and be at odds, I get it, it's a turn on. To each thier own. Maybe you should hook up with the OP.

Miss me with this shyt lil non-thinking nikka

There is a whole grey area between "bashing" and "pandering" called being yourself

Women initiate 90% of divorces...keep telling these hoes to be "agreeable" til they use you up

 

[Phoenix Rising]

Miss me with this shyt lil non-thinking nikka

There is a whole grey area between "bashing" and "pandering" called being yourself

Women initiate 90% of divorces...keep telling these hoes to be "agreeable" til they use you up

How do you or the OP know she's not being herself?

What if she actually is agreeable?

 

[Poitier]

How do you or the OP know she's not being herself?

What if she actually is agreeable?

Wtf r u talking about? I have no opinion on the video in OP.

No one's default is "agreeable". Not even a baby. Give me cooperation and compromise not a "yes woman."

Dozens of dumb post itt telling women to be deceptive by pandering, being agreeable, making themselves more "desirable"...

 

[wickedsm]

Pick Me:

A derogatory term made for black women by black women who allegedly defend black women because said black women do not hate black men like they do.

The origin of this term can be traced to black feminists/womanists/whatever the hell they're calling themselves.

and @Meh explained it really well too

i've only ever seen the term used by angry broads on line who get pissed when a black woman doesnt want to ride the bash black men train with them. it cant be that someone disagrees with them, thinks they are 500% wrong, it has to be that said woman must be looking for a man [cause you know, men and dikk are really hard to find /s]

ie: twitter crazy woman-" omg! all BM are killers! they want all BW dead!!!!!"
non crazy twitter woman: "why would you type that crazy bullshyt? something is wrong with you. All BM are not killers and no they do not want all BW dead.I love my B husband father brothers uncles and sons! stop posting WS propaganda crazy lady!"
twitter crazy lady dont quote me again pickme! these BM dont care that youre on twitter trying to kiss their ass and pretend theyre not
murderers of BW! hope you get picked soon pick me!
* sicks angry horde of other crazies on "pick me" to also hatefully rant and call her a pickme


OP and other posters are using more of a definition of lying/pandering to try to win over the opposite sex. [usually in an overboard manner] I get people saying fukk those types-both male and female and agree with @Booksnrain that that shyt dont really ever work in the long run and very often doesnt work in the shortrun.

whenever i see pickme im thinking the twitter term.
fukk those crazy bytches.

 

[*Angel*]

Once again, black folks want to find an excuse and deflection from the issues by a false equivalency. White people having more STD than anyone else in the population would make sense given that they are the majority still here in this country. Blacks are only 13% of the population, yet our women make up 45% of women infected with genital herpes, and new HIV infections. And where are your documents and the threat supporting the private insurance that isn't documented?

Telling black women the truth about where they fall on the scale and how their perceived by the world isn't some "white shyt." Black women have some of the worst denial, and always want to be shielded from criticism while your choices continue to be your own detriment. The thing that ya'll don't realize is that black men are ALL YOU HAVE in regards to dating desirability. (This is not directed to the married black couples) And outside of a few minority of non black men who date black women, nobody is lining up to court black women, the way other races of women are lining up to date black men. There are NUMEROUS studies to even prove this. Stop letting these simps gas your heads up. Are these same simps putting rings on your fingers?

"They're opinion don't make me shyt"- This IDGAF attitude is exactly why black women are in the current condition that their in.


"But when a suppose "black man" throws out that rhetoric you are no better than a white supremacist."- what is rhetoric when it's supported by facts.

bytch please.

1) Your glue hued c00n ass can't tell BW anything about desirability. Your Cac brethren will fuk anything with or without legs, human or not, so it is NO HONOR to be desired by them or any race in alliance with their views and beliefs anyways.

2) BW have hella options we just don't always entertain them all. The fact that we prefer our own men shows our integrity. Fuk a race bias stat lets talk reality. My beautiful mother has had a white man trying to marry her for 20 years. Myself and the women in my family have been approached by others, some even have families with them. If the approaches and examples are so frequent in my environment, better believe they are plentiful in the real world.

You sound like a desperate fool relying on bias stats as evidence to defend your hate. You can tell yourself whatever you want and that will be your truth but it won't be Black women's reality. Deal bytch.

And I will not entertain this bullshyt further. Bye hater.

 

[How Sway?]

I've literally never heard of this phrase until now. There's too many terms out here to keep up man.

 

[*Angel*]

@xoxodede and @Koco

Lets be real. The very origins of the term "Pick Me" came from 3rd Wave Feminist and Black Feminist on Twitter. I don't usually go on the typical Coli "I hate feminists" rant, but in this case you gotta know the origin of the term, and you gotta know how MOST women determine who is and isnt a Pick Me. And a LARGE enough segment of women don't have a clearly defined definition of what a "Pick Me" is as you do. ALOT of them really label any woman who deviates at least a tad bit from the feminist ideology, as a "Pick Me". I'm sure there are women with waaaaay less extreme views as the woman you posted, who have been labled a "Pick Me". No seriously, a BW could say "All Black men aren't bad" and that'll be considered treading "Pick Me" waters in alot of these women's eyes. It's either "Black Men Are Trash" or else you're just another "Pick Me". It's their term. They made it up. They (feminist) ultimately get to dictate who is and isn't a Pick Me. You don't determine that....

Be reality OP. Im sure you're on Twitter...

I didn't see this initially.

If OP had used the other video of the cook and do laundry chick, then it would have went better with this thread. That video and the one in the OP are two women saying seperate things. I should have put that in my original post. I only heard of this pick me shyt yesterday in that other thread. I already said on here that I have no social media.

My point still remains for those types bc they do exist.