Would You Seriously Date and/or Marry A "Pick Me?"

[(Lean Ambrose)]

Her saying Black women don't cook, don't do this or that.

We do. Sure - as with every gender, race, etc - you will have some that do this or that. But, in the age of SM - that generalization is hurting both sides - black men and black women.

Mainly, I don't like the premise of no dating. Not dating - and the Netflix and Chill culture is an issue out here. Dates can be free - dates are necessary - her saying - that women shouldn't expect it for whatever reason is stupid to me. Wouldn't she want her daughter, niece, etc to be with someone who takes her out to get to know them.

Black men do date. But some black men are not with that. And we need to get on the same page.

Right on...
BUT

Let's be real. Y'all hoes only call girls "pick me" if they ain't spouting the same bitter hatefulness towards males. It's your way of keeping all women in formation.

Not saying pandering women don't exist.

This...

 

[It is a mystery]

- typically overweight
- typically just cute
- typically low standards and lack of self-love/esteem.

The Coli's Definition of a "Pick Me:" A Black woman or woman who takes up or supports Black men.

The Real Definition or MY Definition of a "Pick Me:"
- a black woman or woman who wants a man so bad ; or is invested in keeping her man from stepping out - due to her "basic" homely status. A chosen "Pick Me" lives in fear that her man/husband and relationship can be taken away at any time - more so than the average woman.

- a trained mouthpiece for repeating the same ish she hears some Black men say about Black women.

- no matter what "A Pick Me" will side with a man even when other Black men don't agree with them. Her goal is male acknowledgment/validation, a compliment, her beloved "it's still good Black women out here" label --- and the BIG payoff -- that DM/Message leading to that late night call.

"A Pick Me" go-to tactic is called:

The Sleuthing Thirst Trap: she investigates the Black man, takes on/adapts his views on "females" and" "bytches" then she waits for her turn or hopes a BM will see "she's a great catch." Usually, a Black men likes her comments + viewpoints so he responds/reaches out -- she smiles ... then she makes her move.

Note: "A Pick Me" success rate is interestingly really low - because men are visual - so her personality may be what some men would like.... cause they feel like they are with their homie -- but when they see pictures or her in-person -- a friendship is the only thing entered into -- or a "inside only" Friends with Benefits situationship. She usually agrees - but she wants more - so the "Pick Me" is back on the prowl.

Write a thesis to shyt on black women brehettes
bubutbut misogynoir and toxic masculinity

 

[thewarrior05]

My dikk would turn ya dike ass into one of these "pick me's" you tryna shyt on.

Im fully capable of having discussion.
I just told you what's real.
I guess you aint like it..

lol bruh this was fun but lighten up bruh its not that serious

 

[Diondon]

OP Whatchu think of Derick Jaxn or whatever the fukk his name is?

 

[thewarrior05]

Negged, reported, dap-undap

u trolling dawg hahahahahahahah

 

[(Lean Ambrose)]

Y'all remember @agnosticlady (cute girl by the way) that got ran off here a couple years ago?...
She was a "Pick me" according to these broads...

 

[xoxodede]

OP Whatchu think of Derick Jaxn or whatever the fukk his name is?

Don't like him. Hides his hairline hate issues with his hats.

I don't take advice from YouTubers or relationship experts either.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Go swirl. This is for Black men who date and marry Black women sir.

Most of these black men are suburban black nerds who WISH to date black women. They get no play. I got plenty...
How come I know absolutely nothing about you, but you know who I'm fukking right now?
I got fans.

 

[xoxodede]

Y'all remember @agnosticlady (cute girl by the way) that got ran off here a couple years ago?...
She was a "Pick me" according to these broads...

Describe her. What did she do?

 

[xoxodede]

Most of these black men are suburban black nerds who WISH to date black women.
How come I know absolutely nothing about you, but you know who I'm fukking right now?
I got fans.

Cause you share. Feel free to go through my threads. I am open about myself - as you are.

I'm good.

You kicked off the disrespect. I returned it. Treat me nice - I will do the same.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Y'all remember @agnosticlady (cute girl by the way) that got ran off here a couple years ago?...
She was a "Pick me" according to these broads...

Now I understand. Yeah op is a cac troll. And like most "females" on here they hate anyone that doesn't shyt on black men

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Don't like him. Hides his hairline hate issues with his hats.

I don't take advice from YouTubers or relationship experts either.

You're very disingenuous.
What does a hat have to do with ideological alignment? What a sneaky troll answer.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I feel sorry for our generation in general because we play so many games with each other instead of just being brave and loving people and understanding each other on a human level

I'm so glad to be out of the dating game. What a nightmare

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I don't care for dikk sucking people that try very hard to be liked so no. There's too many women and men that do this.

I do like women that call women out and actually believe in having logical beliefs. They're far better than women that just have to be victims 24/7

 

[xoxodede]

You're very disingenuous.
What does a hat have to do with ideological alignment? What a sneaky troll answer.

No I'm not. But, I could care less what you think of me or any topic/subject.

Again, respect and kindness begats that shyt. Until then.. bye.