Black Engineer advice to young men: Don't date seriously until you're 30

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This is wrong advice, especially for black men. Love only exists prior to 30. After that you're marrying a business partner. Black men need the motivation of true love in order to begin to tap into their potential...
 

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This is wrong advice, especially for black men. Love only exists prior to 30. After that you're marrying a business partner. Black men need the motivation of true love in order to begin to tap into their potential...
WHAT?

ANYTIME you get married it's for business, only recently has it been about love. Plus, love is something that happens from just being around someone all the time, and experience good times with them. All the old couples people constantly talk about got married out of need, and end up loving each other.
 

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nikkas better be careful with this....find yourself mid-30s and all the dope women wifed up.:francis:
Trust me, the revolving door of women never stops. As men we just tend to think like women when we're young, but if you don't get content with having a dad body, not being highly sexual, and just being boring, you don't have to hurry up and find your lady in your 20's. If you take care of yourself, know how to manage money, knowledgeable on different topics and know how to fukk, these chicks are always coming in!

I used to think the older i get, my choices would dwindle, but I have young chicks trying to holla, and that is me just being regular. Once I get fly, its a wrap! Because a lot of young guys don't take pride in the things I mentioned, its easy to take their chicks, at least the ones who want to learn. A smart nikka will always eat, just know when to shut up because if you are too smart, a lot of chicks feel intimidated. I just talk about music or reality shows to stop that.
 
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I remember one older engineer breh told some of us......get you a women who an engineer or in college studying engineering too. Yall can piggy back off each other help get each other on jobs.

Them asians do this shyt all the fukking time.

Plus you both will make good money and you can pool your money together and do more with it.

Basically don't marry down. :ehh:
 

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I remember one older engineer breh told some of us......get you a women who an engineer or in college studying engineering too. Yall can piggy back off each other help get each other on jobs.

Them asians do this shyt all the fukking time.

Plus you both will make good money and you can pool your money together and do more with it.
not that easy breh
 
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Trust me, the revolving door of women never stops. As men we just tend to think like women when we're young, but if you don't get content with having a dad body, not being highly sexual, and just being boring, you don't have to hurry up and find your lady in your 20's. If you take care of yourself, know how to manage money, knowledgeable on different topics and know how to fukk, these chicks are always coming in!

I used to think the older i get, my choices would dwindle, but I have young chicks trying to holla, and that is me just being regular. Once I get fly, its a wrap! Because a lot of young guys don't take pride in the things I mentioned, its easy to take their chicks, at least the ones who want to learn. A smart nikka will always eat, just know when to shut up because if you are too smart, a lot of chicks feel intimidated. I just talk about music or reality shows to stop that.

Getting laid gets easier. Finding a quality, wifeable woman does not.
 

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Very dumb advice, quality women get snatched up early.

By 30 it's nothing but single mothers, females who been ran through, women with emotional baggage.

Few guys pass up on quality women, so the older you get the less quality women are available
I keep telling brehs

Quality women are not:

On tinder
Posting on online forums (thecoli)
Social media whores (thousands of followers, vanity and narcissism through excessive selfies etc)
At Clubs

Living somewhere like LA makes shyt even worse (@Serious)


They are few and far between, quality chicks get snatched the fukk up EARLY. I’m 27 and I’m giving myself till 30 to find a quality chick. It’s a wrap after that and I’m GMB till death.
 

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Very dumb advice, quality women get snatched up early.

By 30 it's nothing but single mothers, females who been ran through, women with emotional baggage.

Few guys pass up on quality women, so the older you get the less quality women are available
I think a lot of yall don't realize how your thinking is just like women's

Please don't take it as me trying to dis you, but that thinking is not necessarily true for men. It can be, but it doesn't have to be, it's really your choice. Even if you get a chick who is 30, you know how many chicks don't have kids at that age? IDK where yall get this notion chicks fall off at 30. If anything they get better. I don't like chicks under 25 because they haven't proven themselves yet. By 30, most women have some sort of foundation, and as a man you have a good idea who you are dealing with. You won't know her 100%, but if she has her life together by then(even if she has a child) you know you won't have to go through a lot of bullshyt young chicks will bring to you, they still are living fantasy at the young ages, they haven't done anything yet. They also tend to have bullshyt people around them which makes the situation worse, older women tend to keep most of those people away(if she is about something)

It's the same for women, I know I love older women as well, but the difference is if I get a young chick, put my game down, there is a good chance she wants to be with me, and have a family, or at least be serious for a minute. How many young men are willing to do the same? Not many
 
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Getting laid gets easier. Finding a quality, wifeable woman does not.
But if you think finding a wife in your 20's is better, that is wrong. Most young chicks don't deal with the reality of their situations, and this is why they tend to make dumb decisions.

If anything, young chicks are for sex, and older for marriage
 
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