35 year old Black woman wonders why she and her desirable friends are still single.

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Another thing

These 35 plus year old sisters previous hook ups and relationships throughout their teens and 20s have been with losers, dope boys, thugs, nick and dime hustles, nikkas living in grandma basements..

Now after returning to college and getting a degree, they salary booming, a career, house and car , all of a sudden they skip over the regular 45,50,60 k a brother a year and now it’s he need to make 100k a year or more

and u as a 50,60k brother like:dahell::jbhmm: wait so let me get this straight.. you been out here before your turn around fukking broke weed dealers and ex cons who borrowed your car and ate on your couch , but a man making the average salary for men of 50 to 60k isnt good enough…

Thats why u get overlooked and other regular 9-5 sisters get chosen
 

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Another thing

These 35 plus year old sisters previous hook ups and relationships throughout their teens and 20s have been with losers, dope boys, thugs, nick and dime hustles, nikkas living in grandma basements..

Now after returning to college and getting a degree, they salary booming, a career, house and car , all of a sudden they skip over the regular 45,50,60 k a brother a year and now it’s he need to make 100k a year or more

and u as a 50,60k brother like:dahell::jbhmm: wait so let me get this straight.. you been out here before your turn around fukking broke weed dealers and ex cons who borrowed your car and ate on your couch , but a man making the average salary for men of 50 to 60k isnt good enough…

Thats why u get overlooked and other regular 9-5 sisters get chosen
If she’s making over 100K that’s a big gap to navigate in a relationship. That’s regardless of gender.
 
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I just went out with a woman recently and I thought it went well, she said she had fun and appreciated the time, when I followed up and tried to set up another outing I got left on read:gucci:

Probably there was no sexual tension and she went home knowing that you didn't give her any valid reason to let you smash or have another date. Did you even try to build any sexual tension?


Now I am happy with my girl but back when I was dating around, if the girl was cute and smart, I would always hint that I wanted to smash, right on our first date. But of course, without acting like I am thirst and desperate. No pressure, just building sexual tension. It didn't always work but it worked most of the times for me. And even if it didn't happen on the first date, it eventually happened and with them reaching back to me first...
 

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I understand where she is coming from. Folks used to use to go out and party. Somewhere along the line that changed. Seems like damn near all the roller skating rinks I knew are also gone. Living in NYC gave me the opportunity to casually meet women in a variety of places. As well I had plenty of clubs to go to. Unfortunately that cock sucker Micheal Bloomberg dealt bars and clubs a death blow with his smoking ban. What killed the club scene in your town? Or is the club scene thriving in your area?
 

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If she’s making over 100K that’s a big gap to navigate in a relationship. That’s regardless of gender.

But this gap been like this for years and a lot relationships still strives

I’ve known married couples where a woman makes 40,50k more than her husband and they been happy for decades….

This isn’t a case where u have for example a lawyer wife making $120,000 a year and her boyfriend/husband isn’t working and not even contributing to pay a electric bill

I see no problem with a woman making $120,000 a year and her husband making $60,000 a year and he still contributes to the household

Social media and a lot of people online don’t know the meaning of love and working as one together
 

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But this gap been like this for years and a lot relationships still strives

I’ve known married couples where a woman makes 40,50k more than her husband and they been happy for decades….

This isn’t a case where u have for example a lawyer wife making $120,000 a year and her boyfriend/husband isn’t working and not even contributing to pay a electric bill

I see no problem with a woman making $120,000 a year and her husband making $60,000 a year and he still contributes to the household

Social media and a lot of people online don’t know the meaning of love and working as one together
Some do and some don’t. There is also scale, in those scenarios is the wife making 100K plus and the husband making 40K?

You can say you see no problem with it but that isn’t the couples reality. At certain scales a person with 120K salary has certain financial freedoms the other person doesn’t. It doesn’t make the 60K person a bad person but we all know many divorces are because of financials.

Point being it’s to say a 60K gap is no big deal but until you actually work through combing households it’s easier said than done when you aren’t talking couples that have been together from their 20’s onward.
 
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Child aside, she's pretty and doesn't sound like a handful. That said, idk her. I know a lot of ya'll got an one child and that's a strikeout rule but for those who don't, she isn't a bad reach if that's the route you wanted to go in if you are a single man.
 

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Bet you she sexing somebody though.
They all do

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Another thing

These 35 plus year old sisters previous hook ups and relationships throughout their teens and 20s have been with losers, dope boys, thugs, nick and dime hustles, nikkas living in grandma basements..

Now after returning to college and getting a degree, they salary booming, a career, house and car , all of a sudden they skip over the regular 45,50,60 k a brother a year and now it’s he need to make 100k a year or more

and u as a 50,60k brother like:dahell::jbhmm: wait so let me get this straight.. you been out here before your turn around fukking broke weed dealers and ex cons who borrowed your car and ate on your couch , but a man making the average salary for men of 50 to 60k isnt good enough…

Thats why u get overlooked and other regular 9-5 sisters get chosen


That old everyone is walking out of Walmart with a tv for free but when it's your turn they stop you at the door saying you look like a nice guy please pay 500.

:dahell:
 
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