35 year old Black woman wonders why she and her desirable friends are still single.

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Older BW don't share the mistakes they made with the younger brehettes like older women of other races do. That’s why KS was such a big shock. Granted his delivery was often harsh. But other races of women are hip to a lot of what he was saying by their teens or early 20s from their mothers lacing them with game as far as dating and relationships.
We try but are thwarted other older bw, the failures. In other races, failure know they're failures. In ours, I'm disregarded because I was successful with no hiccups. I made no everlasting mistakes. My sexual history was... spicy, but I led with that (and he gets the benefits, skill set A1, star player in my league). They'd be more open to my advice if I had an oow kid or was fat/ugly.

As I said for me when I met my wife yeah she was beautiful but I've cavorted with many beautiful women in my life. I got deathly sick she barely knew me and nursed me back and didn't even ask for anything.
I caught a case for mine.
 

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Real problem with Black women is they really believe they are better than their men. That’s why their standards are astronomical. An average Black woman a totally disgusted by average Black man. Dating an Average normal Black men is accepting that themselves are average or normal and that's the worst thing in the world to a extraordinary phenomenonal independent Black woman. So the rather complain and die alone than to "settle" for a man on their own level.

Even with that, our women dont really understand the value of a man. In the feminist fatherless society, most have never been under the cloak of a solid man. They want men to be their helpmate.

Other races of women want their men to be great so he can take care of them. Our women want to be the great ones.
 
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Real problem with Black women is they really believe they are better than their men. That’s why their standards are astronomical. An average Black woman a totally disgusted by average Black man. Dating an Average normal Black men is accepting that themselves are average or normal and that's the worst thing in the world to a extraordinary phenomenonal independent Black woman. So the rather complain and die alone than to "settle" for a man on their own level.

Even with that, our women dont really understand the value of a man. In the feminist fatherless society, most have never been under the cloak of a solid man. They want men to be their helpmate.

Other races of women want their men to be great so he can take care of them. Our women want to be the great ones.

Average black woman is the CEO of lashes and wig styler inc. and thinks of herself as a baddie
 

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I hate when women post shyt like this. There are plenty of men outchea that would be in a committed relationship with her but I can already tell she wants a man that every women wants looks, height, money and status all rolled in one.

Cat life or ain't shyt dude for her it is then :yeshrug:
 

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Another thing

These 35 plus year old sisters previous hook ups and relationships throughout their teens and 20s have been with losers, dope boys, thugs, nick and dime hustles, nikkas living in grandma basements..

Now after returning to college and getting a degree, they salary booming, a career, house and car , all of a sudden they skip over the regular 45,50,60 k a brother a year and now it’s he need to make 100k a year or more

and u as a 50,60k brother like:dahell::jbhmm: wait so let me get this straight.. you been out here before your turn around fukking broke weed dealers and ex cons who borrowed your car and ate on your couch , but a man making the average salary for men of 50 to 60k isnt good enough…

Thats why u get overlooked and other regular 9-5 sisters get chosen
The crazy thing is they don't even "want" those 100k+ men either. They just want the aesthetic and the lifestyle that they have in their head that comes with a man in that high tier so they can brag to their friends and shyt. :francis: It's very black pill when you look at it in the grander scheme of things
 

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Real problem with Black women is they really believe they are better than their men. That’s why their standards are astronomical. An average Black woman a totally disgusted by average Black man. Dating an Average normal Black men is accepting that themselves are average or normal and that's the worst thing in the world to a extraordinary phenomenonal independent Black woman. So the rather complain and die alone than to "settle" for a man on their own level.

Even with that, our women dont really understand the value of a man. In the feminist fatherless society, most have never been under the cloak of a solid man. They want men to be their helpmate.

Other races of women want their men to be great so he can take care of them. Our women want to be the great ones.
Repped for facts :wow:

It really makes sense too when you look at it. I bet brehs all have encountered black women in their life that by all means are below average who feel entitled to you as a man even though you are above average.

They think they qualify for you meanwhile on the inside you like :childplease::mjlol: bytch please

BW tend to think they are a level above what they really are :yeshrug:
 

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Being in my 40s and married now

What I have noticed on a lot of black women 35,40,50 years old they still holding onto that fantasy of the perfect man… 6’6, Tupac attitude, Obama Smarts, a Boxers Body, Elon car and house and a man every woman will go after… BASICALLY A TYLER PERRY SCRIPT..

Many of these women are not even close to angela bassett 60 years old looks and many are washed themselves but the money and careers they have they believe they are top notch

The problem with Gen X women and early millennials women they was never taught or learned what a man wants or what a man desires

Oprah and the rest of the black media stressed fukk these men get your degree and career and when u get that then look for a man

sorry to say.. but for 80% of sisters today over 35 and usually they have a kid or kids by a bum , it’s over … the ones without a kid you still have a slight chance but you need to reevaluate your game plan, because the tyler perry story lines isn’t working
That and they expect the man to be only committed to them when women are constantly throwing themselves at them.
 

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Real problem with Black women is they really believe they are better than their men. That’s why their standards are astronomical. An average Black woman a totally disgusted by average Black man. Dating an Average normal Black men is accepting that themselves are average or normal and that's the worst thing in the world to a extraordinary phenomenonal independent Black woman. So the rather complain and die alone than to "settle" for a man on their own level.

Even with that, our women dont really understand the value of a man. In the feminist fatherless society, most have never been under the cloak of a solid man. They want men to be their helpmate.

Other races of women want their men to be great so he can take care of them. Our women want to be the great ones.

Big facts. I thought I was only one noticing that.
 
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