35 year old Black woman wonders why she and her desirable friends are still single.
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a nikka like me don't even care anymore
I just take a flight over to Colombia when I'm bored
Kevin Samuels was these brehettes forewarning, they didn't take heed to the reality of the facts he was spitting, they gonna suffer the consequences now.
Older BW don't share the mistakes they made with the younger brehettes like older women of other races do. That’s why KS was such a big shock. Granted his delivery was often harsh. But other races of women are hip to a lot of what he was saying by their teens or early 20s from their mothers lacing them with game as far as dating and relationships.
This is a big one they not in church or college as much as they used to they not even attending family gatherings where they can meet like their cousins friend or something people are becoming more and more shut in from one another
I agree with most of ehat she is saying but she is a single mother. They need to date single fathers cause they would have a much easier time if they looked into that pool.
i promise most childless men do not want to play father figure to anotha guy child. Single mothers are only good for being fukk buddies to most men, and even then that still comes with problems.
So she either lower her standards for men without kids or try to find a single father
i promise most childless men do not want to play father figure to anotha guy child. Single mothers are only good for being fukk buddies to most men, and even then that still comes with problems.
So she either lower her standards for men without kids or try to find a single father
jwonder
Superstar
These broads are retarded. Most black American women do the MOST to turn a guy off.
Plus Kevin Samuels told them what their problem was and they still didn't listen. Smh
Plus Kevin Samuels told them what their problem was and they still didn't listen. Smh
sayyestothis
Free the guys
Yeah no chance I would be blending families or raising a kid in my 30s if it wasn't mine...50s sure but not my 30s.
Who verified they were awesome?
bytches be thinking they shyt don’t stink
bytches be thinking they shyt don’t stink
She has emotional problems. I can tell.
The type who is:
-quick to cry
-insecure and needs constant validation
-not confident about everything so you have to keep filling their cup
It’s not about her having a kid or anything else. She would just be very difficult to date long term because she would eat up all your time too. Also, she gives vibes like she’s bad in bed. Too anxious to really get it in.
The type who is:
-quick to cry
-insecure and needs constant validation
-not confident about everything so you have to keep filling their cup
It’s not about her having a kid or anything else. She would just be very difficult to date long term because she would eat up all your time too. Also, she gives vibes like she’s bad in bed. Too anxious to really get it in.
This was funn. Hold repYall are getting vague as hell with these threads.
Are brehs supppsed toand laugh at her misery or suspect that she's a tether shyttin on us?
Either way, what happens next?
Being in my 40s and married now
What I have noticed on a lot of black women 35,40,50 years old they still holding onto that fantasy of the perfect man… 6’6, Tupac attitude, Obama Smarts, a Boxers Body, Elon car and house and a man every woman will go after… BASICALLY A TYLER PERRY SCRIPT..
Many of these women are not even close to angela bassett 60 years old looks and many are washed themselves but the money and careers they have they believe they are top notch
The problem with Gen X women and early millennials women they was never taught or learned what a man wants or what a man desires
Oprah and the rest of the black media stressed fukk these men get your degree and career and when u get that then look for a man
sorry to say.. but for 80% of sisters today over 35 and usually they have a kid or kids by a bum , it’s over … the ones without a kid you still have a slight chance but you need to reevaluate your game plan, because the tyler perry story lines isn’t working
What I have noticed on a lot of black women 35,40,50 years old they still holding onto that fantasy of the perfect man… 6’6, Tupac attitude, Obama Smarts, a Boxers Body, Elon car and house and a man every woman will go after… BASICALLY A TYLER PERRY SCRIPT..
Many of these women are not even close to angela bassett 60 years old looks and many are washed themselves but the money and careers they have they believe they are top notch
The problem with Gen X women and early millennials women they was never taught or learned what a man wants or what a man desires
Oprah and the rest of the black media stressed fukk these men get your degree and career and when u get that then look for a man
sorry to say.. but for 80% of sisters today over 35 and usually they have a kid or kids by a bum , it’s over … the ones without a kid you still have a slight chance but you need to reevaluate your game plan, because the tyler perry story lines isn’t working
It’s a tail as old as time for these birds, once you’re in your 30s guys aren’t gonna find you as desirable 
As well what makes these women desirable?
They will tell you stuff men don't care about..well I have a master's degree and work for a big 4 , have a car and my own place
Are you submissive? Do you talk to your ex? Are you humble? How's your attitude? Kids? What's your relationship with your parents?
As I said for me when I met my wife yeah she was beautiful but I've cavorted with many beautiful women in my life. I got deathly sick she barely knew me and nursed me back and didn't even ask for anything.
They will tell you stuff men don't care about..well I have a master's degree and work for a big 4 , have a car and my own place
Are you submissive? Do you talk to your ex? Are you humble? How's your attitude? Kids? What's your relationship with your parents?
As I said for me when I met my wife yeah she was beautiful but I've cavorted with many beautiful women in my life. I got deathly sick she barely knew me and nursed me back and didn't even ask for anything.
SheWantTheD
Veteran
Bet you she sexing somebody though.