35 year old Black woman wonders why she and her desirable friends are still single.

[BeeCityRoller]

It's always odd to me how millennial content creators who claim to be intentional about dating and marriage, live in some of the largest metros in the country can't find a single person they're on the same page with. The men are using it as an excuse to catch and release, play the field. The women are using it as excuse to find the perfect 1% match.

You go to her page and its the same bland content creator aestetic every other woman trying to cosplay as a soft girl uses. Same Tiktoks about boundaries, self-love, cutoff culture, "I don't chase I attract" Men 35-45 doing well in NJ/NYC have alot of options, especially as this economy is getting worse, and she does not stand out. As a matter of fact, everything she does/says blends in, and can quickly be replaced as a 35 year old single mother.

 

[Gizmo_Duck]

She has baggage, which is fine. We all do after a certain point. But be honest.

 

[Tetris v2.0]

Make sure you're as pretty as you are picky, otherwise it might end this way

 

[JNew]

A man of worth there age or older are either going to go younger or overseas.

 

[JNew]

I met a girl a week before Valentine’s Day then asked to come out that weekend, got hit with “who goes on a first date on valentines weekend?” These hoes weird AF

Glad it’s not just me picking up on these hoes acting weird, mainly the young ones.

 

[AAKing23]

It is an epidemic


I know too many women with careers who will never have offspring and have convinced themselves that dogs are "fur babies".

She's also correct on social media being to blame. However, that's where my disconnect begins

Social media has allowed women who have chased away any legitimate prospects due to their behaviors and bad attitudes, to turn into relationship gurus

They all give each other absolutely horrible advice, and they double down on the ignorance thanks to their sissy boy lacheys who will do anything and say anything if it makes them one of the girls

Women who have not been in a loving relationship spanning at least a decade should not be giving advice on men

Gay men can not give advice on how to operate around straight men, they themselves are incapable of operating around straight men, what kind of twisted advice is a fakkit gonna give? The advice that's gonna keep the female single so the "gay" man can call her late night after drinking and grab some easy p*ssy

Now we living in a world where women say they'd rather be alone in a forest with a blood thirsty bear instead of a potential mate. Meanwhile, they have a baby daddy that kills people and their parties they demand to go to are full of sex offenders. I'm the threat cause I got a shopping cart full of groceries walking to my car in the grocery store parking lot

High value men tend not to advertise, trust me i know. If I meet u late night when I'm shining your gonna be just another hoe I fukked. If I meet u when I'm volunteering in my community picking up trash at 9am with a bucket and a picker, said lady just won the lotto. I've never had a woman be nice to me when I'm out volunteering unless she's volunteering too.


It's not time yet, but in a couple of years these young men who've been scorned are gonna be old enough to get involved with politics, and a discussion will be had


What is the point of pushing young women to go to college and get careers if the end result is them refusing to compromise on any standards and the majority of us end up 40 and single, with immigration being shoved to the front because the population is declining. We need future mothers, we should be having discussions on how many books u should read to a baby when it's still in the womb, instead the biggest topic in America is 50/50 and fur babies.

If women's liberation results in them being afraid of every man walking down the street, maybe they should stay inside where it's safe and let the men deal with the horrors outside. America should be ashamed of how it's women are developing the bodies of plumbers with the hearts of cowardly lions




But what do I know. I don't wear thousand dollar jeans or drive a 100,000 car, I own a house and I can't wear it, so let me shut my broke ass the fukk up

This is gonna sound sexist but women making more money does nothing to progress or advance a society. That’s because they don’t share their money and since they’re hypergamous by nature the pool of men they will entertain becomes super thin.

All it does is create an army of older single women who won’t want to settle who will complain that men ain’t on their level.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Kevin Samuels was these brehettes forewarning, they didn't take heed to the reality of the facts he was spitting, they gonna suffer the consequences now.

A lot of men were given forewarning… apparently a lot listened too.

 

[Adeptus Astartes]

Most women have no idea what’s desirable to men.

Preach

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Because she's a pickme...it's too easy...they wanna woman they can break babes

 

[Kornball The Conqueror]

It's always odd to me how millennial content creators who claim to be intentional about dating and marriage, live in some of the largest metros in the country can't find a single person they're on the same page with. The men are using it as an excuse to catch and release, play the field. The women are using it as excuse to find the perfect 1% match.

You go to her page and its the same bland content creator aestetic every other woman trying to cosplay as a soft girl uses. Same Tiktoks about boundaries, self-love, cutoff culture, "I don't chase I attract" Men 35-45 doing well in NJ/NYC have alot of options, especially as this economy is getting worse, and she does not stand out. As a matter of fact, everything she does/says blends in, and can quickly be replaced as a 35 year old single mother.

women are using it to get free shyt, women prefer the dating market since it requires them to do nothing but show up

 

[Vodun]

This is gonna sound sexist but women making more money does nothing to progress or advance a society. That’s because they don’t share their money and since they’re hypergamous by nature the pool of men they will entertain becomes super thin.

All it does is create an army of older single women who won’t want to settle who will complain that men ain’t on their level.

what's crazy they all fall into that trap!. its like they don't listen and get into some hive mind type stuff

 

[FreshFromATL]

Y'all nikkas really hate women, damn, lol. Ol' girl beautiful and prolly got her own paper. Sometimes marriages, relationships, etc. just don't work out. nikkas in here doing victory laps, lol.

 

[Yinny]

Wow yall don’t get tired of these topics

 

[Jazzy B.]

If she was childless her standards being higher now than previously, while still scrutinized, wouldn't carry as heavy of a penalty as carrying the kid does. While I won't call the child a problem, a kid does deduct points in the water her style of woman want to swim in. I mean even in this thread you can see a subtle vibe shift once knowledge of a kid came into play.

Her standards before her child were LOWER.

They are higher now because she wants a CLEAN UP MAN.

She is 35 and clearly leads with “I’m looking for a CLEAN UP MAN” which causes either her to ignore men who she believes can’t meet this or the men she doesn’t to run.

Most brehs will overlook the child and fukk around with an attractive single mother as long as she ain’t leading with that. All she then gotta do is let the breh impregnate her.

 

[KFBF]

Won't find what she looking for on TikTok, unless what shes looking for is validation/attention and not a partner.