I would also add there is some confusion amongst half africans and american born africans.
I know alot of 1st generation africans who are single because they didn't date off the boat africans, or black american men, hated white men.(not to mention physical preferences)
Ex. Some of these nigerian-american women are literally looking for other nigerian-american men to marry(from their ethnic group) but imo there's no incentive unless your families know each other.
I know a nigerian american chick who didn't date nigerians from nigeria in her younger days "he's too african" "accent too strong" only likes americanized nigerian-ghanaian-Sierra leonean-americans.
now she 30+ traveling to nigeria. bytch going to church now, fasting and praying for a off the boat nikka to wife her.
But most decent african born men over 30 are married. So she in a fukked up position.
Like sis - thought it was cute to diss off the boat africans, when she was younger now she's smelling pepper.
Edit. Her choices now are basically
1. american born 1 and 2 generation nikkas like me who don't really care about marriage, career is more important
2. black american men who don't care about marriage, career more important
3. white men who are perverts and don't care about marriage. Even when they get married it be on some weirdo shyt.
4. Off the boat african nikkas who marrying for citizenship.
Cause decent 30+ nikkas are in serious relationships and not looking.