All my homies are wifing up single moms...

[Voice of Reason]

There are plenty of girls with degrees not even working in the field they went to school for its not black in white like you think.

Degrees/books smarts don't equal common sense
Degrees don't equal real world experience

I know girls with degrees working as retail store managers......Nothing wrong with that BUT you could of done that without a degree.

There is no garentee now days degrees don't mean as much.
I'll take a women with kid who makes good money without degree vs. A girl with a degree and no kids but potential good earner.

I'll take absolute over potential all day however their are exceptions.

 

[kingjones29]

It's damn near unavoidable these days

it is depending what type of woman or how old you are targeting

 

[O.T.I.S.]

it is depending what type of woman or how old you are targeting

I really wish it was

 

[kingjones29]

Single mothers are less picky when it comes to the superficial stuff. Most of them just want a good dude and are able to look past stuff like height/swag/status.

Dudes run across a cool cooperative 8, and they make that sacrifice to be with the type of chick they want instead of trying to compete in the rat race.

I've known several bad chicks with kids that ended up being wifed by a dude that probably had no shot before she had a kid. LIfe is about trade offs.

I've thought about it myself, but just never made it work.

they are less picky because they have more baggage that's the reason

 

[kingjones29]

I'm saying. These dudes have no idea there are hundreds of colleges filled with 10,000 girls each who are betw 18-23. Like where are these dudes looking

they still looking in the hood lol

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

I'm saying. These dudes have no idea there are hundreds of colleges filled with 10,000 girls each who are betw 18-23. Like where are these dudes looking

yet these are the bytches who get trains ran on them daily and still chase hood nikkas who live with their mothers and don't even own a car

 

[ultraflexed]

Get stuck tryna find a babysitter just to enjoy a night out with your new bride.




Try asking your mom to take care of another mans kids while u go party

There are plenty of girls with degrees not even working in the field they went to school for its not black in white like you think.

Degrees/books smarts don't equal common sense
Degrees don't equal real world experience

I know girls with degrees working as retail store managers......Nothing wrong with that BUT you could of done that without a degree.

There is no garentee now days degrees don't mean as much.
I'll take a women with kid who makes good money without degree vs. A girl with a degree and no kids but potential good earner.

I'll take absolute over potential all day however their are exceptions.

What

How this turn into a getting your degree discussion. Ironically I'm in school now and echo what you saying. I fukking hate school

But whether a girl has a degree vs not having it, I would always choose a girl with no kids over a girl with them

them Homies are HAPPY cause they getting that EBT CARD (food stamps) & Section 8
stimulus package

yet they fail to realize thier happiness is only TEMPORARY



being with these hoes is like signing to Birdman

there lives are OVER PLEIGHBOI

Wow at some of these misconception or I just got lucky no matter the case it can work.

1). I met my wife when I was 23 I had no kids, she was 27 and had a 8 year old.
2). She has never been on any public assistance
3). Her baby daddy was deported years before we met and has never been back in the states

Now that those things are out the way let me explain, we've been married 10 years, my wife makes over 100k a year with no degree, we have 3 little girls together, we're building a empire worth at least 500k right now, I never had to pay for babysitting my parents watch them when needed.
With that said, you could be missing out due to your misconceptions, not all are worthy but some are. Best discision I've made wouldn't trade it for the world...

 

[Rawtid]

i've got a coworker that married his current wife b/c he got her pregnant...that is literally the only reason.

man NONE of my friends or classmates married their baby mommas

That's admirable of him. Making an honest woman out of her. Is he black?

 

[Booker T Garvey]

That's admirable of him. Making an honest woman out of her. Is he black?

of course not.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Wow at some of these misconception or I just got lucky no matter the case it can work.

1). I met my wife when I was 23 I had no kids, she was 27 and had a 8 year old.
2). She has never been on any public assistance
3). Her baby daddy was deported years before we met and has never been back in the states

Now that those things are out the way let me explain, we've been married 10 years, my wife makes over 100k a year with no degree, we have 3 little girls together, we're building a empire worth at least 500k right now, I never had to pay for babysitting my parents watch them when needed.
With that said, you could be missing out due to your misconceptions, not all are worthy but some are. Best discision I've made wouldn't trade it for the world...

No one is saying that you are any less of a man for wifing a single mother. We are just saying that it isn't an ideal situation for most single childless young men.

 

[Rawtid]

of course not.

I didn't think so.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Wow at some of these misconception or I just got lucky no matter the case it can work.

1). I met my wife when I was 23 I had no kids, she was 27 and had a 8 year old.
2). She has never been on any public assistance
3). Her baby daddy was deported years before we met and has never been back in the states

Now that those things are out the way let me explain, we've been married 10 years, my wife makes over 100k a year with no degree, we have 3 little girls together, we're building a empire worth at least 500k right now, I never had to pay for babysitting my parents watch them when needed.
With that said, you could be missing out due to your misconceptions, not all are worthy but some are. Best discision I've made wouldn't trade it for the world...

I still wouldn't wife up a single mother but you have a beautiful family breh. Im happy it worked out for you.

 

[SunGod]

This is what I see

Before kids

After kids

How do you know that's not Tupac in a business suit?

 

[Youseenmywork]

@Nigmund Freud i wonder would the same women would even check out them dudes if she was childless and at the peak of her stock??

In my philosophy she dosent have to and shouldn't.

 

[Texasdymond]

Wow at some of these misconception or I just got lucky no matter the case it can work.

1). I met my wife when I was 23 I had no kids, she was 27 and had a 8 year old.
2). She has never been on any public assistance
3). Her baby daddy was deported years before we met and has never been back in the states

Now that those things are out the way let me explain, we've been married 10 years, my wife makes over 100k a year with no degree, we have 3 little girls together, we're building a empire worth at least 500k right now, I never had to pay for babysitting my parents watch them when needed.
With that said, you could be missing out due to your misconceptions, not all are worthy but some are. Best discision I've made wouldn't trade it for the world...

Great post.

You have a beautiful family.