All my homies are wifing up single moms...

[AlainLocke]

So if you had children and God forbid you and the mother broke up and she started dating again you'd be okay with the attitude of her future boyfriend's considering your children a liability?

Yes because it is the truth...

Children are a terrible investment, they are the worst kind of investment...

It is just money and time poured down the drain...

Hell...if the boyfriend of my ex-girlfriend, didn't think like that I would be worried...

Cause he gotta run that household and he gotta understand what he is getting into...

Having children isn't rational, taking care of children isn't rational...a child raised to the age of 18 cost a quarter of a million dollars...
This Is How Much It Costs To Raise A Child In The U.S. | The Huffington Post

Most people having kids, don't got that...

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

So they settle?

?

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

My limit is 1 kid only

If She got 2 or more

basically

seems like thats all thats interested in my lately

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

I'm sure as hell not about to consider my children a liability...

its not so much the children are a liability, its more you're tainted goods

like why have a woman with kids when you can have a woman with no kids.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

find you a nice bookworm/nerdy jawn and you wont EVER have this problem

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Man, I see why black women are ready to jump into the arms of Brad and Tyler. Still bedwenches for doing it, but now I see why they get so weak.

 

[2CT]

So basically... I need to accept the fact that ANY respectable man who finds it in his heart to date me will always see my children as a con?

 

[AlainLocke]

find you a nice bookworm/nerdy jawn and you wont EVER have this problem

Or get you a chick that is always busy and shyt....

Them bytches be having tubes tied and all that shyt...

IUDs and shyt...

Shots and shyt...

Be like damn bytch, your child aborts itself...

 

[wickedsm]

Yup. Dudes who date single mothers have no other options.

Cam newton aint got no other options.
Russell Wilson aint got no other options.
Future aint got no other options.
Common aint got no other options options.
Diddy aint got no other options.
Bun B aint got no other options.
Fabulous aint got no other options.
TI aint got no other options.
Juelz santana aint got no other options.



I wish y'all would just stop saying stupid shyt.

Don't want to date single mothers? Dont.
No need for all this other bullshyt.

 

[AlainLocke]

So basically... I need to accept the fact that ANY respectable man who finds it in his heart to date me will always see my children as a con?

I mean...I have a crushes on chicks with kids...but I ain't sticking around though...

Like we can hang out...chill...we don't even have to have sex or nothing...but like I ain't sticking around...


Chicks with kids need to get with dudes that are like way older and shyt..

It takes a certain type of young man to deal with a chick and her kid...

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

its not so much the children are a liability, its more you're tainted goods

like why have a woman with kids when you can have a woman with no kids.

Let's nip this in the bud since my show is on...

@Rarely-Wrong Liggins I hate to put you on the spot, Love however...as a childless handsome, sexy , man with plenty of options...

Do you consider me "tainted goods" or my children as a "con" or "liability"? The Coli seems to think so....

 

[Wargames]

Nothing wrong with it their are some good single moms out there
I did even with our ups and down 7 years overall
2 from previous I had
1 from previous she had
1 together and another together due in march
5 kids
Blended family that came up got our own house new car
Kids honor roll students
Can't ask for more

 

[MarcMan]

Honestly not sure why guys that are willing to take on the role of stepfather are looked at with such disdain. It's obviously not an ideal situation for most men but the men that do should be given utmost props imo. This from someone that would not date seriously date a single mother with the possible exception of widows. Let them be a happy family. I'd wager your family isn't perfect either.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Let's nip this in the bud since my show is on...

@Rarely-Wrong Liggins I hate to put you on the spot, Love however...as a childless handsome, sexy , man with plenty of options...

Do you consider me "tainted goods" or my children as a "con" or "liability"? The Coli seems to think so....

it doesn't matter what he thinks, if he thinks you're not that's probably because he doesn't aim higher.

 

[AlainLocke]

Yup. Dudes who date single mothers have no other options.

Cam newton aint got no other options.
Russell Wilson aint got no other options.
Future aint got no other options.
Common aint got no other options options.
Diddy aint got no other options.
Bun B aint got no other options.
Fabulous aint got no other options.
TI aint got no other options.
Juelz santana aint got no other options.



I wish y'all would just stop saying stupid shyt.

Don't want to date single mothers? Dont.
No need for all this other bullshyt.

Future, Common, Diddy, Fab, and TI

already had kids though...and all them dudes got money...like enough money to be set for life.

Young man with no kids...wifing young women with kids just looks all types of backwards...

Like...these dudes fukking their lives up..

Even when it is the reverse...a young woman with no kids...getting with a man with kids...

Why you wanna do that to yourself...

All my male friends with no kids...got with a chick...with kids and proceeded to have more kids with her...and these nikkas got no money...just starting out as adults...fukked their entire life up

You already a young Black man...it's hard already...now you a young Black man with babies and a wife you gotta take care of...at 23...

Why do that to yourself...