Am I dealing with a Bisexual? I need some advice

[O³ (O cubed)]

We have never ever had sex before. If I would have smashed already, then it makes that conversation easier. That's what makes our relationship so dope, it's not sex driven

Now it makes sense. Breh, I was coming from a place where I thought you'd already been intimate and you were catching feelings.

If she's as nice as you think she is and you both can have deep conversations then you approach the subject with ease.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Tell me about it...when I was younger, I was in a relationship with a bisexual Woman and it was one of the worst relationships I ever had and I told myself I'd never go into a serious relationship with another bisexual Woman again bc it's so much shyt you have to deal with.

Now some dudes don't care bc it's easier to get 3somes that way , but for my Main Girl, I don't want her Bi....for my lil skeezers, I don't care

Appreciate the insight...that makes sense

Bro I’m going thru something similar. Chick is cool; our vibe is decent for real. But the difference is she actually told me she was Bi.

When she told me, she noticed my demeanor changed. I was actually thinking of being serious with her but I guess she’ll have to remain a smash piece.

She asked if it’ll be an issue if she ever kissed a girl if me and her ever got into a relationship since it was apparent we were moving in that direction.

My response was “would it be an issue if I did”

She started juelzin’ and that told me all I needed to know. I just told her I don’t want to suppress her sexuality and wouldn’t be cool with her messing around with other women so it’s best if we just keep it cool. She was like but if we got into a relationship, I’d be all she needed.

 

[pickles]

Her friend is someone she can rely on.

She knows she can't rely on you.

She is treating you as a friend.

If she knows that you have hoes on the side, I doubt she is interested in you.

 

[King Karim]

Bro I’m going thru something similar. Chick is cool; our vibe is decent for real. But the difference is she actually told me she was Bi.

When she told me, she noticed my demeanor changed. I was actually thinking of being serious with her but I guess she’ll have to remain a smash piece.

She asked if it’ll be an issue if she ever kissed a girl if me and her ever got into a relationship since it was apparent we were moving in that direction.

My response was “would it be an issue if I did”

She started juelzin’ and that told me all I needed to know. I just told her I don’t want to suppress her sexuality and wouldn’t be cool with her messing around with other women so it’s best if we just keep it cool. She was like but if we got into a relationship, I’d be all she needed.

Fam....it's a lot to deal with when dating a bisexual Woman.. It's not for every Man

 

[King Karim]

Now it makes sense. Breh, I was coming from a place where I thought you'd already been intimate and you were catching feelings.

If she's as nice as you think she is and you both can have deep conversations then you approach the subject with ease.

Right.....bc I wouldn't want the conversation to end our friendship.

Appreciate the insight

 

[JoseLuisGotcha]

Don’t think i can be with someone that doesn’t drink even a little

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Bro I’m going thru something similar. Chick is cool; our vibe is decent for real. But the difference is she actually told me she was Bi.

When she told me, she noticed my demeanor changed. I was actually thinking of being serious with her but I guess she’ll have to remain a smash piece.

She asked if it’ll be an issue if she ever kissed a girl if me and her ever got into a relationship since it was apparent we were moving in that direction.

My response was “would it be an issue if I did”

She started juelzin’ and that told me all I needed to know. I just told her I don’t want to suppress her sexuality and wouldn’t be cool with her messing around with other women so it’s best if we just keep it cool. She was like but if we got into a relationship, I’d be all she needed.

Fam....it's a lot to deal with when dating a bisexual Woman.. It's not for every Man

Hmm, what have you had to deal with?

Before getting into a relationship with my current boyfriend, i remember getting into a conversation about this and he point blank said he’d never get into a relationship with a girl who was bisexual. And then I spoke up and told him straight up that I was bi. I was cool with him choosing not proceed any further, that’s why I was honest about it. He was caught off guard but then changed his tune (obviously for him to decide to pursue a relationship with me).

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

If it's a woman then shes bi

 

[King Karim]

Hmm, what have you had to deal with?

Before getting into a relationship with my current boyfriend, i remember getting into a conversation about this and he point blank said he’d never get into a relationship with a girl who was bisexual. And then I spoke up and told him straight up that I was bi. I was cool with him choosing not proceed any further, that’s why I was honest about it. He was caught off guard but then changed his tune (obviously for him to decide to pursue a relationship with me).

Speaking from my own experience...it's challenging mentally.... Social media and TV will lead you to believe that's a dream situation for every Man, until your feelings get involved and your insecurities start playing mind games with you.

It's already one thing to have a stable relationship with anyone regardless of their sexuality, with someone who's bisexual, too much can turn into mental gymnastics.... something as simple as her saying "Bae, I'm going to the mall and some other spots to shop with my friend/homegirl"

Or " Bae...we planning on doing a Ladies trip to Jamaica in a few months"

Your mind and insecurities can tear you apart mentally.

 

[CrushedGroove]

You need to run OP. She may want to be a stud on a random day and try to dikk you down

 

[Sonny Bonds]

I have known this girl for about 6 or 7 years. We hang out sometimes and we have incredible chemistry. I mean incredible chemistry. We joke with each other, like similar things, and can almost finish each other sentences.

You’ve been friends with her for a long time. If you think you’ve got a shot then why don’t you just make a move when it’s appropriate?

 

[King Karim]

You’ve been friends with her for a long time. If you think you’ve got a shot then why don’t you just make a move when it’s appropriate?

not trying to come off as arrogant, but I know she is ready to take the next step and have a committed relationship. Most Women will tell you without telling you that they are ready to go to the next level, and she's done that a few times already.

 

[Edub]

Based on said info a threesome has taken place and these girls are “closer than close “……….. but she ain’t gay

 

[Sonny Bonds]

not trying to come off as arrogant, but I know she is ready to take the next step and have a committed relationship. Most Women will tell you without telling you that they are ready to go to the next level, and she's done that a few times already.

So are you going to shoot your shot?

 

[Renegade47]

so you could potentially fukk 2 bytches at once and this is a problem how?