Black Women React To True Forced Loneliness

[Dameon Farrow]

I don't trust any of these Alphabet Movements. I think they are all a part of the Gay Agenda honestly. All a ploy to make women look like a hopeless case and make being a homosexual appealing.

But read into it what you will....

To answer the thread more directly, I will expound on what many in here have already said....improve yourself...improve yourself and improve yourself some more. Even if it doesn't net you more females you'll feel better about yourself I promise you. It's a win win situation. Hard to argue against that. Hit the gym. Eat better. Eat at home more. And I don't mean warming chicken nuggets. Buy some food and cook that shyt to your liking. shyt is therapeutic as hell and it tastes better. Find some shyt you like doing alone. Has to be something. Depression and stressing will kill you. Ever wonder why humans never evolved beyond having to worry about heart attacks? Stressing will kill your ass. We are designed to worry very little. I think about shyt like that.

 

[DarkHorse23]

The topic is about black women but your statement can be said about all races of women.

It doesn't matter. We're discussing BLACK women. Why do y'all insist on deflecting and changing the subject.

 

[DarkHorse23]

This post shows that your perspective is obviously skewed. You claim to make other people miserable, but the truth is you come off as one of the most miserable souls on this board.

Who's life have you "destroyed" on this board. You don't shyt but mope around here sounding bitter and depressed, nikkas pitty you here, nobody is the least bit concerned about you "destroying their life. These are just the facts.

I beg to differ. If I was so irrelevant ppl would just ignore me but instead they dedicate threads towards me and talk shyt about me every chance they get. Hey what can I say....I must strike a lot of nerves

 

[DrX]

i think TFL is real...not just for men, but for women also....I think it has something to do with in depth thinkers....because this society is so shallow and indoctrinated, the people that arent will be forever lonely....sad but it is what it is

 

[DarkHorse23]

I don't trust any of these Alphabet Movements. I think they are all a part of the Gay Agenda honestly. All a ploy to make women look like a hopeless case and make being a homosexual appealing.

But read into it what you will....

To answer the thread more directly, I will expound on what many in here have already said....improve yourself...improve yourself and improve yourself some more. Even if it doesn't net you more females you'll feel better about yourself I promise you. It's a win win situation. Hard to argue against that. Hit the gym. Eat better. Eat at home more. And I don't mean warming chicken nuggets. Buy some food and cook that shyt to your liking. shyt is therapeutic as hell and it tastes better. Find some shyt you like doing alone. Has to be something. Depression and stressing will kill you. Ever wonder why humans never evolved beyond having to worry about heart attacks? Stressing will kill your ass. We are designed to worry very little. I think about shyt like that.

That sounds good in theory, but the reality is human beings are social beings. A man without a woman or always by himself is not going feel connected to his community. Some of the greatest men accomplished things with a supportive woman behind them. Many men don't experience that and never will. I know for me personally being alone for YEARS(especially around holiday times) is depressing. It took a toil on me especially my last two years of college. I lost a lot of motivation, and internally felt like "what's the point, women ain't going give me a chance anyway". That shyt doesn't get better as you get older too. Once again for men who have always gotten women, or women to tell you to not sweat about it is like telling a starving person not to worry about eating. You're right depression can kill you. And being without a companion will lead to depression, and there's no amount of hobbies, food, religion, friends or family that can prevent that or fill that void.

 

[ivailoivailoto]

@winb83 said this at the gems dealing with woman thread in 2012 and it applies to these dudes.


Alot of these TFL dudes are not in a good situation. If you have self esteem issue for example you fat other broke fix those things cuz it will erode your confidence. If you short hit the gym befriend with a dude who is good with woman cuz his greatness will brush off you once you hang out. As Rafe from Money and Violence said "The only hands holding you back is your own."

Bro going out with other dudes who r good at pulling will make you look even worse in comparison,TRUST me on this one.

 

[eastsideTT]

You guys don't know the half ...this shyt is a lot deeper than your or anyone thinks. I can't wait till 2017. I got a lot of explaining to do

what do you mean bro?

 

[Krazy K]

That sounds good in theory, but the reality is human beings are social beings. A man without a woman or always by himself is not going feel connected to his community. Some of the greatest men accomplished things with a supportive woman behind them. Many men don't experience that and never will. I know for me personally being alone for YEARS(especially around holiday times) is depressing. It took a toil on me especially my last two years of college. I lost a lot of motivation, and internally felt like "what's the point, women ain't going give me a chance anyway". That shyt doesn't get better as you get older too. Once again for men who have always gotten women, or women to tell you to not sweat about it is like telling a starving person not to worry about eating. You're right depression can kill you. And being without a companion will lead to depression, and there's no amount of hobbies, food, religion, friends or family that can prevent that or fill that void.

You right about humans needing connection. That part I agree with but theres is always someone willing to feed a starving person and a person who is really starving doesn't turn down food. It's not like people are saying starve anyway. nikkas are actually trying to tell you how to eat. If you wont take the food you can get and refuse to learn how to get the food you want then nothing else needs to be said.

 

[DarkHorse23]

You right about humans needing connection. That part I agree with but theres is always someone willing to feed a starving person and a person who is really starving doesn't turn down food. It's not like people are saying starve anyway. nikkas are actually trying to tell you how to eat. If you wont take the food you can get and refuse to learn how to get the food you want then nothing else needs to be said.

Essentially what many of you suggest is the average man settle for an ugly unattractive woman, while that man's female equal is free to go after the men she wants(and In most cases out of her league) and try to shame him into wanting her. It's equivalent to giving two customer with the same amount of money two different meals, but hey whatever. Many of you women get your reality check eventually. Good looking men with money/status no matter how much you try to shame them will only date/marry women on their physical level,you other ladies will be a booty call at best.

 

[010101]

if you ugly go fukk an ugly broad or find a prostitute quit crying*

 

[Athenna]

Coming from a frustrated 5'3 nikka

 

[DarkHorse23]

Rude & Hurtful. Walk in my shoes.....

 

[Athenna]

Rude & Hurtful. Walk in my shoes.....

Try walking in the shoes of a fat whore.

 

[PartyHeart]

Essentially what many of you suggest is the average man settle for an ugly unattractive woman, while that man's female equal is free to go after the men she wants(and In most cases out of her league) and try to shame him into wanting her. It's equivalent to giving two customer with the same amount of money two different meals, but hey whatever. Many of you women get your reality check eventually. Good looking men with money/status no matter how much you try to shame them will only date/marry women on their physical level,you other ladies will be a booty call at best.

Most people actually seem to be giving you different versions of the advice to improve yourself and try to have more of the qualities women desire. Instead of wallowing in the fact that women find you undesirable as is.

Also, even though I'm sure this will make you flip out angrily as you usually do, you need to stop repeating this lie that everyone tells men to settle while not telling women that. It might be time to consider that you are indeed not average but below, and the male equivalent of the ugly unattractive woman you feel better than. The way the dating game is set up in general men must do the majority of the initiation. That means in 90% of situations, the interaction, whether it results in approval or rejection for the man, is initially happening based off of the his attraction alone. It is very likely that you are doing more ignoring of your equivalent (and don't even realize it) than the women are rejecting their equivalent. Its possible their equivalent is never even approaching them for them to turn down or accept.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Try walking in the shoes of a fat whore.

I can't