nikkas love to act like "cuffing" is bestowing some grand honor

the way deciding to make a commitment is talked about on here is ridiculous
Hmm...
After a certain point in life, a man shouldn't "cuff" a woman unless he is serious about her and is dating with the goal of marriage. I'd say that is at least a compliment.
If you are cuffing with the same level of commitment as a 17 year boyfriend/girlfriend set up, then yeah it doesn't mean much. But in order for me to "cuff", I'd literally have to think there was a chance of marriage.
Of course, I wouldn't know for sure, and we would have find out in the process if it could work, but the fact that I see the potential in her and us as a couple, I think has some value.