Cold approaching women: the right mindset and some advice

[Balla]

One question bro, how would u describe yourself? And what kind of brands u rock?

U look like Snoop? Lol

Just tryna imagine the whole scenario when u put these field reports up.

So my plan on posting is now to do those field reports on monday, Wednesday and friday since thats probably the most helpful stuff to read up on, because it gives input, exact examples and if more people chime in it also creates a certain dynamic here.

I also got sonething planned where Ill give my opinion about the perception of women/mens attitude towards them. Think thats gonna drop thursday.

What y‘all think ?


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[1-8-7-Skillz]

One question bro, how would u describe yourself? And what kind of brands u rock?

U look like Snoop? Lol

Just tryna imagine the whole scenario when u put these field reports up.

If it helps you visualize it, then pretend I look like snoop if you want

No specific brands tbh, if it looks good, it looks good. More of classic style guy tho. Like to keep it plain & smooth.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Just spent my whole day working on my project except for grabbing something to eat from a store thats a few steps from home
Only saw one good looking girl there but her bf appeared before I approached her and started kissing there on some sloppy resident evil lurker shyt

Ill drop something more worthwhile tomorrow, any of y‘all had a more exciting day in that regard ?


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@Dreamzeedream
@GrindMode
@LiveFromLondon
@Rose Gold
@G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[Serious]

The only way to get started is to just approach. Thats the only way to get experience and step your game up.
Also dont focus on the outcome too much (especially at the beginning), the first few times will be a bit awkward & you may end up being a bit uncomfortable but that will soon go away.

Yep. Once you get used to rejection, you wont even sweat cold approaching anymore.

Rejection is just part of life.

 

[Serious]

U think there's an age limit to this shyt? I'm talking about day time approaching only.

I wish I started at 18 and now I feel so old and I'm worried that I'll be trying to make up for lost time when I should have been doing this since 18.

And I say old because I noticed a lot of women that I see single and alone most of the time are in malls, and they're mostly 18-21 if that.

I just feel like it's easier to do it when you're a young ass dude because if she's 18 and you're 18 or 22 it ain't that bad, but if you're mid 20s or older just feels weird.

Plus when you're that young you get away with much more.

Maybe I'm in my head too much ? If so let me know.

Depends on if that's who checking on you. I get a lot of looks from 21-23 year olds and I'm 27.....

 

[Balla]

I don't think 27 is old at all, but it's just being that seeing all these younger girls in their late teens and early 20s in abundance makes me feel weird.

And I'm trying to do this for a while because it's been a while since I wanted to do this.


Do u usually cold approach during the day?

Depends on if that's who checking on you. I get a lot of looks from 21-23 year olds and I'm 27.....

 

[hostsamurai]

Yep. Once you get used to rejection, you wont even sweat cold approaching anymore.

Rejection is just part of life.

Yeah, but the problem is getting too used to rejections and becoming a robot. shyt, it happened to me. For a long time I only felt excitement when I approached very attractive women. Still, it can happen for a lot of reasons. A lot of guys never know why they fukk up their approaches, or are too proud for adaptation.
You can only reach the apex by climbing a mountain of rejections.

 

[Balla]

Yeah u really gotta think on what you have done during your approach.

Not beat yourself up about it, but to think what u can change next time.

Do u still approach?

Yeah, but the problem is getting too used to rejections and becoming a robot. shyt, it happened to me. For a long time I only felt excitement when I approached very attractive women. Still, it can happen for a lot of reasons. A lot of guys never know why they fukk up their approaches, or are too proud for adaptation.
You can only reach the apex by climbing a mountain of rejections.

 

[hostsamurai]

Yeah u really gotta think on what you have done during your approach.

Not beat yourself up about it, but to think what u can change next time.

Do u still approach?

Yeah, but massively scaled down . Went from 3-4 nights weekly to maybe 10 approaches a week.

 

[Macallik86]

Yeah u really gotta think on what you have done during your approach.

Not beat yourself up about it, but to think what u can change next time.

Do u still approach?

Realest thing I've ever read on the site. I'm eating good but trying to segue to less clubbing and more "everyday life" approaches. That confidence you have when you are consistently scooping women for free with no alcohol is like God mode.

 

[Balla]

Where did u go 3-4 nights a week? Did u go dolo?

Where do u approach now?

I'm at the phase of doing 3-4 nights a week now because I've been too lazy to do it before, so I'm going hard now.

Yeah, but massively scaled down . Went from 3-4 nights weekly to maybe 10 approaches a week.

 

[Balla]

Why thank you



How often do you go out to approach a week and how many do you usually do for the week ?

Realest thing I've ever read on the site. I'm eating good but trying to segue to less clubbing and more "everyday life" approaches. That confidence you have when you are consistently scooping women for free with no alcohol is like God mode.

 

[BobbyBooshay]

Great thread, you should do some YouTube videos, it’s pretty popular.

Channels like BasedZeus get millions of views.

Lot of guys out there needing advice like this.


Def true what you said about online apps, feel that’s killed the game out here. Have 3s thinking they are 10s now but yeah my boy who gets a lot of women says what you say that when he cold approaches women its like they are shocked they are being spoken to.


I’ve been out the game for years, was in a long term relationship for over 6 years. So gonna implement tips, I work in the financial part London so I am seeing TONS of women daily.

Fine women in a business suit or attire


Heels over trainers



They are either going to and from work, waiting at train platforms, in and around work for lunch. Literally 100s of women, so no reason not to speak to ONE, just need that mindset of not caring of the outcome and ensuring I have options.

Keep up the good thread.

 

[Macallik86]

Why thank you



How often do you go out to approach a week and how many do you usually do for the week ?

For me cold approaches are everyday street approaches. I used to do them regularly but have been stuck in a routine and it has been non-existent as of late.
If cold approaches also includes bars/clubs/social events than I am averaging maybe 3 per night and +7 if I am feeling it.

I go out about 2-3x per week.