Dressing like a ho...

[agnosticlady]

I don't consider my butt to be all that big, but I hate wearing shirts too. They always ride up.



Now, I'm not trying to be rude, but didn't you say you were 200lbs, and like 5'5?


Anyways, I need to know what is considered 'revealing' and 'hoe-like'.
I wear tight clothes, but that's because loose fitting clothing doesn't look right on me; it makes me look like a young girl trying to wear her older sisters clothing. I hate loose fitting clothes actually.

I think this is revealing

I think you may have meant fitted clothes. Basically clothes that fit you without making you look like your clothes are eating you whole. I am barely 5'2" (5'1" 3/4) and I weigh 145. I wouldn't call myself thick but instead athletic/curvy so wearing bigger clothes make me look like a dwarf.

 

[LadySimone]

I always had a feeling some women were uncomfortable wearing revealing shyt. But I understand when it's hot you have to make due.



Why is that?

You can wear sexy stuff without the dealing with the consequences ie dusty dudes bothering you

 

[LadySimone]

Now, I'm not trying to be rude, but didn't you say you were 200lbs, and like 5'5?

Actually I said I was 5'2 and 220lbs but that was me trolling. These dumb nikkas in here ate it up to. Without fulfilling their stereotypes of black women they wouldn't have shyt to say. I think given other things I've said about myself it should have been easy to deduce that I was lying about something.

 

[LadySimone]

I think this is revealing

I think you may have meant fitted clothes. Basically clothes that fit you without making you look like your clothes are eating you whole. I am barely 5'2" (5'1" 3/4) and I weigh 145. I wouldn't call myself thick but instead athletic/curvy so wearing bigger clothes make me look like a dwarf.

What draya is wearing is just plain ol nudity.

 

[Blackout]

You can wear sexy stuff without the dealing with the consequences ie dusty dudes bothering you

How is that possible?

 

[LadySimone]

How is that possible?

Typically if youre with a man, other men will mind their own.

 

[wet landscapes]

Although a rapist will rape a woman regardless of what she is wearing, because he is more interested in harm and control wearing revealing clothes brings in the wrong type of attraction. A lot of men will approach you with the thought that you are stupid and only value your body. There are men that will approach you thinking that all you want is sex and that you are willing to put out because you are willing to expose your body. Women should dress according to their shape and size. I live in a major city and see how women who dress in revealing clothes get approached compared to women who dress in stylish less revealing clothes.

Women should just have fun with their wardrobe lol
wear less revealing clothes because that's what your taste is
Not to avoid big bad scary men lol

 

[agnosticlady]

Women should just have fun with their wardrobe lol
wear less revealing clothes because that's what your taste is
Not to avoid big bad scary men lol

Women can have tons of fun with their wardrobe and dress how they want. Just don't complain when you get the wrong attention.

 

[Paradise]

I don't feel comfortable wearing revealing clothing. Even in my twenties I didn't even really do revealing. Showing cleavage is just something that happens with me. It has always happened because I have what I like to call "speciality bra store" breast.

Society has warped what the real perception of beauty, sexuality, and sensuality is. I have to garner all of this unwanted attention with my ass,breast or stomach hanging out in order to feel sexy or be sexy by societies standards.

Sites like Instagram have made it hard for a real woman with a "real body" (meaning she is not wearing a waist trainer all day crushing her organs) to be noticed without being halfed dress. I understand that men are visual... But would you want your girlfriend or wife leaving the house dressed like a lady of the evening. I think not.

I would rather tease you with a little cleavage than be dressed like a tramp any day!

 

[wet landscapes]

Women can have tons of fun with their wardrobe and dress how they want. Just don't complain when you get the wrong attention.

you the complaint police or something

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I think this is revealing

I think you may have meant fitted clothes. Basically clothes that fit you without making you look like your clothes are eating you whole. I am barely 5'2" (5'1" 3/4) and I weigh 145. I wouldn't call myself thick but instead athletic/curvy so wearing bigger clothes make me look like a dwarf.

Okay, I'm in the clear.
I'll wear maxi dresses that are low, but not like Draya's. Low, but not low enough to see the 'gore' on my bra.
I actually had a skirt that was short like in that picture, but I never wore it. Where was I going to wear it to? It was literally 10 or 12 inches from top to bottom.

 

[agnosticlady]

you the complaint police or something

No not at all. I just see women CHOOSE to dress in skimpy attire and then turn around saying, "OMG don't look at me. Stop gawking at me!". Well stop wearing skimp hoish clothes.

 

[wet landscapes]

No not at all. I just see women CHOOSE to dress in skimpy attire and then turn around saying, "OMG don't look at me. Stop gawking at me!". Well stop wearing skimp hoish clothes.

people staring at you like that makes you uncomfortable in general tho
my sister has a really voluptuous body and there are dresses that she likes (that aren't even especially revealing at all) that she does out wearing feeling like she's very fashionable and fem and comes home agitated/sad because of how her body attracts that kind of attention
anything that isn't baggy looks "revealing" on her because her waist is so small compared to everything else
if it fits her waist, it gives her the typical jessica rabbit look
and it's recently making her want a completely different body type (which is nuts, I would kill for her body type )
even with baggy stuff, you can still see pretty much everything
because of that, I really understand how other women feel about male gaze and clothes
going out feeling like wife material in a modern fitted dress and get a bunch of sexual comments and looks about your T&A from people

 

[Darts]

Actually I said I was 5'2 and 220lbs but that was me trolling. These dumb nikkas in here ate it up to. Without fulfilling their stereotypes of black women they wouldn't have shyt to say. I think given other things I've said about myself it should have been easy to deduce that I was lying about something.

If you admit to telling lies...how would one ever know when you're not telling lies?

 

[Swirv]

You can wear sexy stuff without the dealing with the consequences ie dusty dudes bothering you

So when is it ok to approach you?While you are wearing a full length winter coat and ski mask during a blizzard?

Best believe a man on a mission will find a way to holla even if you're walking with your male protection.