
I understand what you mean OP, that's what I've seen the thecoli and sohh early on, find one when you are young and a young breh did right
Got a good one by my side, she grew up in a peaceful house so she sees no reason to be tripping or formulating drama randomly
Been sick for a minute and she's traveling from new york to new jersey to make sure I'm good, knows she doesn't have to but does
No bitterness from past exes who she decided to treat right and now will hold it against everybody else, none of that bullshyt
Mine will have the longest days or the most stressful weeks and still try to cater her ability and best foot forward for me without the conscious decision to ask what is she getting in return, how she is benefiting more than I am in this situation. None of that breh. Her main focus is to do what's best for us at all times. She trust my ability, doesn't question my judgment, appreciates the small things
Even agrees that we should create our own marriage rules in the possible chance of divorce to protect not only me has a man which she's seen her uncle go through but our possible future children. Last thing our kids need are 2 parents at odds if they aren't together, you need to firm with what you want out of woman and what you'll tolerate or not. Any woman who respects you know this system is flawed against us man, if she isn't willing to work it out on paper about y'all union, dodge that bullet breh
I agree with a lot of the guys in here. A lot of woman are fronting and actions - behaviors do not mimic the likes of someone getting married. Marriage sucks especially for modern day woman sold fairy tales and lies about how it looks easy or don't have a guideline on how to handle relationship/marriage problems. They don't really want the responsibility of taking care of another adult or not having the fun they were brought upon at younger ages.
We has man are truly not hard to deal with, that let's me know nikkas in here hitting points that woman don't wanna hear
They look at the shyt like it's another wave of a relationship instead of a real union between the 2 of you. They want all the glits and glamour of marriage but not true responsibility of it.
When a woman really loves you and holds you down, man, nothing compares breh

You got to really sit down with yourself and understand what you want in a life time partner and why continuously do not seem to find those people.. our people, society needs to stop winging the shyt so much
I can't fault them either too.

So many of them are so damaged by so many different experiences or images they've seen or worshiped their entire lives but will never find proper recourse to self-heal. A lot man especially in America expecting woman who grow up finding it hard to love themselves due to society pressure to love someone else and that's the fatal flaw of it all. This shyt wasn't designed to work breh, they (corporations) use woman to destroy man resources because they are easier to train to act accord and not fight the system at hand.
let me stop rambling