Get married brehs...seriously

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:wow: Thecoli has been a goldmine in info on how woman change from teens to young adults

I understand what you mean OP, that's what I've seen the thecoli and sohh early on, find one when you are young and a young breh did right

Got a good one by my side, she grew up in a peaceful house so she sees no reason to be tripping or formulating drama randomly

Been sick for a minute and she's traveling from new york to new jersey to make sure I'm good, knows she doesn't have to but does

No bitterness from past exes who she decided to treat right and now will hold it against everybody else, none of that bullshyt

Mine will have the longest days or the most stressful weeks and still try to cater her ability and best foot forward for me without the conscious decision to ask what is she getting in return, how she is benefiting more than I am in this situation. None of that breh. Her main focus is to do what's best for us at all times. She trust my ability, doesn't question my judgment, appreciates the small things

Even agrees that we should create our own marriage rules in the possible chance of divorce to protect not only me has a man which she's seen her uncle go through but our possible future children. Last thing our kids need are 2 parents at odds if they aren't together, you need to firm with what you want out of woman and what you'll tolerate or not. Any woman who respects you know this system is flawed against us man, if she isn't willing to work it out on paper about y'all union, dodge that bullet breh

I agree with a lot of the guys in here. A lot of woman are fronting and actions - behaviors do not mimic the likes of someone getting married. Marriage sucks especially for modern day woman sold fairy tales and lies about how it looks easy or don't have a guideline on how to handle relationship/marriage problems. They don't really want the responsibility of taking care of another adult or not having the fun they were brought upon at younger ages.

We has man are truly not hard to deal with, that let's me know nikkas in here hitting points that woman don't wanna hear

They look at the shyt like it's another wave of a relationship instead of a real union between the 2 of you. They want all the glits and glamour of marriage but not true responsibility of it.

When a woman really loves you and holds you down, man, nothing compares breh :wow:

You got to really sit down with yourself and understand what you want in a life time partner and why continuously do not seem to find those people.. our people, society needs to stop winging the shyt so much



I can't fault them either too. :wow: This country is poisoness not only for a man's mind but especially woman. Go to any store or mall, the core marketed customer woman. Go to any school, college - the core audience woman. One minute the spotlight is all on them and they are free to do anything without repercussions like man have had for centuries but what they didn't realize is the backlash of all that freedom. Hypersexualization does not lead to a good household, hyper materialism and social media glamouring of what life is suppose to be has a lot of woman out here living backwards even if they are making all the right moves out here.

So many of them are so damaged by so many different experiences or images they've seen or worshiped their entire lives but will never find proper recourse to self-heal. A lot man especially in America expecting woman who grow up finding it hard to love themselves due to society pressure to love someone else and that's the fatal flaw of it all. This shyt wasn't designed to work breh, they (corporations) use woman to destroy man resources because they are easier to train to act accord and not fight the system at hand.

let me stop rambling
 

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Alot of women learn how to present themselves as more "eligible" as they get older because they are trying to get wifed.The more they open up and the more their so called friends reveal though:francis:?

Its much better to be a teacher to a woman who hasn't had many teachers. You need to put alot of energy into finding a good woman you can help mold and build with while you are young. Not only does the pool of hurt,undamaged women get smaller as you age,but you as well as the woman only become more skeptical of the opposite sex which causes problems and constant doubt. The background check just gets longer,and possiblities increase that their will be something on there you won't like.

Don't think about the ones you let get away acting stupid in your youth though breh. May have to acknowledge you were a fukk up and be forgiving of these womens past too,at least cut slack where you can:francis:

This so much. Yeah they seem decent at first, then the more you learn about them the more they reveal how truly damaged they are. :francis:


And you're right about being a teacher to someone who hasn't had many teachers. They're much easier to mold and command respect from. :ehh:
 

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nikkas cant tell you one single benefit

"She sucks dikk more frequently"

"The meals taste better"

"She gets sexier"

"You get more sex"

"She becomes more submissive"

"She gives you back rubs"

nikkas didnt even bring out the obvious "second income means more money"

5 pages in and the only benefits I see are "shes down for you"

:dead:


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I feel where OP is coming from but I don't think you need to get married. You find the right one, just spend the rest of your life with her, marriage isn't necessary.

Thank you breh

fukk a ring.... Ima do like Michael Blackson and get my bytch a Rolex and tell her "you already know what time it is" :mjgrin:
 

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You getting info on how to move interpersonally from this site is not a good look at all
Biggest bullshyt ever. It's good to hear other man's or woman's experience and what you can learn from it. No man growing up even my father (because he hasn't experienced this) will tell me that when it comes to woman you gotta realize it's either a hit or miss

She either fukks with you or doesn't, and if she doesn't but tags along you are only doing yourself a disservices.

Not to take woman actions and movement personal, realize they stuck in their own shyt and you has a man have no place of comfort to think your shyt matters when it comes to how society views your pain or problems.

There a target on your back has a black man and you have to move in the best interest of you and those around you.

Go out and get it, work consistent, do things that amplify a better you - woman come running.

I was a young breh at 18-19 couldn't get a sister to look me in my eye. Now I'm the one having to break eye contact dealing with other woman in public breh

Too many young nikkas out here moving dumb, trying to save woman who truly do not want you to be the answer to their problems. That's shyt they have to figure out on their own, you aren't the one that caused it

nikkas cant tell you one single benefit

"She sucks dikk more frequently"

"The meals taste better"

"She gets sexier"

"You get more sex"

"She becomes more submissive"

"She gives you back rubs"

nikkas didnt even bring out the obvious "second income means more money"

5 pages in and the only benefits I see are "shes down for you"

:dead:


:shaq2:
nikka all of that included. Wifing a non working chick or woman who sees her money only has her own. That nikka dealing with her lost regardless

I'm so stern about the shyt, I stopped fukking with woman who didn't have real high levels of education - tech related

-----

If you cannot get your girl to understand why you need a pre-nup in 2018, I got nothing to say to those man dealing with woman who cannot hold their own in 2018.

There has to be a median of how to do this right, for the my future, hers and possibility future children. I'm in agreement with everyone on here that I'm not signing my life paper away to someone who can potential leave and that person should understand that
 
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:wow: Thecoli has been a goldmine in info on how woman change from teens to young adults

I understand what you mean OP, that's what I've seen the thecoli and sohh early on, find one when you are young and a young breh did right

Got a good one by my side, she grew up in a peaceful house so she sees no reason to be tripping or formulating drama randomly

Been sick for a minute and she's traveling from new york to new jersey to make sure I'm good, knows she doesn't have to but does

No bitterness from past exes who she decided to treat right and now will hold it against everybody else, none of that bullshyt

Mine will have the longest days or the most stressful weeks and still try to cater her ability and best foot forward for me without the conscious decision to ask what is she getting in return, how she is benefiting more than I am in this situation. None of that breh. Her main focus is to do what's best for us at all times. She trust my ability, doesn't question my judgment, appreciates the small things

Even agrees that we should create our own marriage rules in the possible chance of divorce to protect not only me has a man which she's seen her uncle go through but our possible future children. Last thing our kids need are 2 parents at odds if they aren't together, you need to firm with what you want out of woman and what you'll tolerate or not. Any woman who respects you know this system is flawed against us man, if she isn't willing to work it out on paper about y'all union, dodge that bullet breh

I agree with a lot of the guys in here. A lot of woman are fronting and actions - behaviors do not mimic the likes of someone getting married. Marriage sucks especially for modern day woman sold fairy tales and lies about how it looks easy or don't have a guideline on how to handle relationship/marriage problems. They don't really want the responsibility of taking care of another adult or not having the fun they were brought upon at younger ages.

We has man are truly not hard to deal with, that let's me know nikkas in here hitting points that woman don't wanna hear

They look at the shyt like it's another wave of a relationship instead of a real union between the 2 of you. They want all the glits and glamour of marriage but not true responsibility of it.

When a woman really loves you and holds you down, man, nothing compares breh :wow:

You got to really sit down with yourself and understand what you want in a life time partner and why continuously do not seem to find those people.. our people, society needs to stop winging the shyt so much



I can't fault them either too. :wow: This country is poisoness not only for a man's mind but especially woman. Go to any store or mall, the core marketed customer woman. Go to any school, college - the core audience woman. One minute the spotlight is all on them and they are free to do anything without repercussions like man have had for centuries but what they didn't realize is the backlash of all that freedom. Hypersexualization does not lead to a good household, hyper materialism and social media glamouring of what life is suppose to be has a lot of woman out here living backwards even if they are making all the right moves out here.

So many of them are so damaged by so many different experiences or images they've seen or worshiped their entire lives but will never find proper recourse to self-heal. A lot man especially in America expecting woman who grow up finding it hard to love themselves due to society pressure to love someone else and that's the fatal flaw of it all. This shyt wasn't designed to work breh, they (corporations) use woman to destroy man resources because they are easier to train to act accord and not fight the system at hand.

let me stop rambling

This man get is. :wow:

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nikkas cant tell you one single benefit

"She sucks dikk more frequently"

"The meals taste better"

"She gets sexier"

"You get more sex"

"She becomes more submissive"

"She gives you back rubs"

nikkas didnt even bring out the obvious "second income means more money"

5 pages in and the only benefits I see are "shes down for you"

:dead:


:shaq2:
There is literally 1 benefit of marriage take it from me who's never been married

The only thing that ever made me regret not getting married is setting an example for my daughters.

I just don't know what kind of impression I'm leaving on them that they know their parents were never together like that.

They might think that's cool? I don't want them getting pregnant at 16 because they think it's no big deal to have kids with a guy you don't intend on building a life with

I made a mistake there. Other than that there's literally 0 benefit to marriage.
 

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Nah, I'm from the other side of the state...
There's nothing on the other side of the state breh. Montgomery is in central Alabama, Birmingham, Huntsville, and Madison are North. Mobile is down South. Phoenix city and Auburn are east.... You live in the backwoods of Alabama or something man:lolbron:.
 

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That's too much. 40 i can maybe see. Because you've had over 20 years since you turned 18 to find somebody and get your life situated. 30? Too young.There's too much opportunity for growth in your 20s to make that kind of judgment. A responsible person isn't going to get married until they are ready anyways. They could have spent it on 1 long term relationship. That's like those hood bytches who expect every nikka to have kids.

Then again I'm probably talking to people who aren't even close to that age to begin with

Women get approached daily by adult men if they are attractive, starting as early as their teenage years. :sitdown: Sick, but it’s true.

So, for them to have not sniffed marriage by their mid-30s either means they aren’t interested in marriage or they are simply not marriage material.

We’re talking about attractive women, not ugly women.

Ugly women can easily make it to their mid-30s without ever getting close to being married.
 
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