Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

[BrokePhiBroke]

No. It's your daddy's fault that you haven't learned reading comprehension skills

What haven't I comprehended...

You are complaining about dating...

You also wrote that you were engaged SEVERAL times and you LET other muthafukkas like your co workers detour you from who you wanted and the lifestyle you wanted.

So yes it's YOUR FAULT nikka!!!!

 

[Rockstar Mom]

This isnt directed at you OP.

But same nikkas whos always taking about the Coli females, trying to shyt on our relationships, in there crying about being old and alone

Meanwhile, I got a nikka that loves the fukk out of me He deserves some head.





Tomorrow tho. I'm tired today.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Damn breh. Don't look it at it like that. Keep the faith. When you're pushing 40 like we are, it's harder than ever to find a gem in all of these lumps of coal. Smh. All most of these chicks got to offer is attitude, bitterness, lies, and another nikkaz kids. There are rare gems out there and there's someone for everyone. I truly believe that.

Bih you have a daughter.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Kind of.

If it happens it happens.
Life isn't a race.

 

[Shadow King]

I haven't necessarily "given up on love" but there's realities I now understand that go against the grain of happily ever after.

I'm 24 and right now I'm trying to do things for my own life that should've been accomplished 3/4 years ago, so being selfish with my time is necessary and at the moment I could only find space for sex and decent conversation.

The reality is, I am not the type aesthetically to spark females' baseline feeling of lust, unless I put on like 30 pounds of muscle and take advantage of women who sexually stereotype brolic nikkas with roughness. Unless I'm going to deal with women who are 4/5's facial and not in any kind of shape (and still deal with womanly BS), which defeats the purpose of self-improvement and building, most of my sexual encounters will be transactional, whether straight P4P, or, particularly when/if I achieve my goals, some "arrangement"/sugar daddy type of deal.

I don't have the mental energy to juggle females now so I can imagine in 10 years I'd want to "settle down" but I also have no desire to give that security a ring and legally documented marriage gives women so I'd be wasting their time. I may then still be too goal-oriented to compromise and do things for the best interest of us as a couple. I'm not a pro athlete but the way Darelle Revis gambles on himself every time he's a free agent and demands his money is how I'd like to be with my pursuits. But you can't do that with a wife nagging you about feeding the babies.

I can only hope one of my infrequent sex sessions doesn't result in a child.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Bih you have a daughter.

And the difference with me and the women I meet is that I'm not looking for someone to step in and play Mommy. My daughters mother is FULLY in the picture. Most of these single moms out here, at least the ones I've been meeting, have absentee, deadbeat fathers and expect you to be a surrogate father. THAT is the difference

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

What haven't I comprehended...

You are complaining about dating...

You also wrote that you were engaged SEVERAL times and you LET other muthafukkas like your co workers detour you from who you wanted and the lifestyle you wanted.

So yes it's YOUR FAULT nikka!!!!

You alright? You seem to have anger issues. If the thread is bothering you that much, feel free to leave. No one is forcing you to come here. I asked a question for people who can relate. If that's not you, feel free to click on one of the thousands of other threads on this board instead of trolling me bytch nikka. You're obviously a miserable, broke fakkit, hence your screen name. Either way, this little back and forth is over for me. Feel free to argue with yourself you miserable fukk. Ignore.

 

[SheWantTheD]

This is sad smh lol.

As a man you call the shots and tell her from jump what you will and will not tolerate.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Bih you have a daughter.

And never mind. I see you're a female. You must be one of those angry, bitter, antagonistic bytches I'm talking about in my OP. That explains it all. Either way, fukk you bytch. Sit on a coat hanger you future cat lady. NOW ignore.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Why not try dating different type of women, if you dating only black women. Try dating Asian/white/ Latina

I would love to settle down with a black woman but if Im getting more co-operation from a non-black woman, i will wifw quickly

This and also date women outside of your area.

 

[Lord_nikon]

At least you've had a relationship that has produced you a child. I'm going to be 32 in November and I finally just got hit on.....but it was by the most hideous man I have ever seen in my life


I quickly walked away after trying to be nice

N*gga was so ugly he made C-Murder look like Idris Elba


First thing that came to mind was the dude with the f*cked up grill at 0:32 but ten times worse








Whatever you do don't give up. Your wife is out there!!!

 

[SheWantTheD]

And one more thing I want to add to this thread is that don't feel like your less than a person because you're in a drought or can't find the right one. Everyone whos honest will admit to dealing with stress and sadness when it comes to dating. We crack jokes and laugh about it because on social media and the internet in general people all portray themselves in their best light but most will admit that this is a problem they faced sometime in their life. Some dudes come out of dating depression and stumble across the right one. I know this is a corny and cliche but there truly is "A light at the end of every tunnel" or "rainbows after every storm". Just requires patience and putting yourself in postions for these opurtunties to occur.

Breh you are only 20. Why are you limiting your scope of what's possible and having a positive relationship to one chick that already got a man?

How is stealing another man's woman a good look let alone the foundation for a strong, long-lasting relationship?

There are many great woman out here.

 

[Lord_nikon]

Yet another female got thrown into the bushes tonight. At this point I can almost predict the outcome with these women.

They all start off nice, sweet, and promising that they're "different" than the other women out there.

Then, like clockwork, their true selves emerge. When they get comfortable, upset, or tired of faking nice, they start showing how petty, argumentative, flaky, etc. they can truly be.

I'm 38 and getting. I'm becoming jaded and cynical when it comes to females. I'm sure there are good women out there, somewhere. But what are my chances of meeting them??

I think I'm gonna focus on my health and raising my daughter. This may be it for me brehs. I've had a good run

I thought I typed your post

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

You alright? You seem to have anger issues. If the thread is bothering you that much, feel free to leave. No one is forcing you to come here. I asked a question for people who can relate. If that's not you, feel free to click on one of the thousands of other threads on this board instead of trolling me bytch nikka. You're obviously a miserable, broke fakkit, hence your screen name. Either way, this little back and forth is over for me. Feel free to argue with yourself you miserable fukk. Ignore.

So instead of defending exactly what you wrote you are now trying to turn this around on my character typical Coli nikka.

I have no dog in this fight. YOU are the one complaining and I'm letting you know exactly why you're in the predicament you're in.

What's going to stop you from doing the same thing you've done to past fiancées to the next woman you decide to date?

Divorce will STILL be high..
SOME women will STILL be winning the house, kids, and dog...
And SOME married men will STILL be complaining about their wives or ex wives...

So tell me how is dating going to be different for you?

 

[Ronnie Macho]

Yea breh.

That face tho .

...you gon' regret that shyt...get ya money up and get a better lookin' broad...or upgrade your girl's face...but you and I know what she really looks like...

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