How do you choose the right one when youve got options?

[The Mad Titan]

If you have multiple people interested in you or your interested in them you have options. Why are people making this out a big deal, most women are going to have options until they weed out the bad ones from the good ones.

Men can have options too but it shouldn't be as much as women because we are generally the "hunters" every now and then there might be situations where you have 2 or 3 women you really are feeling but that should be few and far in between.


Take your time getting to know them, if an ex is a option get rid of that option. Let the people your interested in know your interested in them even if you aren't trying to date them right away.

 

[The 2020 New Member]

Date around until your feelings are undebiable. Unless ur just looking for something casual.

Or pick the one with the most money.

 

[Action Mike]

I believe if you have options, you really don't have a choice...

Those options are just placeholders. So then it's up to you if you want to settle or not.

Options are options. Whether your their number one is a different story.

I'd just say I'd view a woman more seriously if I was.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Easy. @CinnaSlim you bring your ass to Chicago and get this ringWhy are you running from the inevitable?

Do you understand the definition of kismet? Tired of you playing. Bring a boom and lets jump over that shyt, fam.

Easy. @CinnaSlim you bring your ass to Chicago and get this ringWhy are you running from the inevitable?

Do you understand the definition of kismet? Tired of you playing. Bring a boom and lets jump over that shyt, fam.

I'm running from curved dikks and cold winters lol.

 

[Action Mike]

Who do you like the most?

@CinnaSlim making it more complicated than it is.

Chose who vibe best with and knows where they are going in life. Simple.

Fellas, don't mess with women with nothing to lose and your good.

 

[Neuromancer]

Do you have a dart board?

 

[At30wecashout]

I'm running from curved dikks and cold winters lol.

:rocky:Whats wrong with the curve? And I got solutions to your problems. A straight stroke and warm hugs. Now get yo ass here right NAH.

I'm trying to make an honest woman, and pincushion, outta you.

:justlikejazzy:

 

[Silkk]

Not one lie told
edit - "Below a 4 crazy, above an 8 hot, you're probably talking to a dude"

White boy straight jacked the Hot/Crazy Scale

 

[1thouwow]

you got 2 QBs that means you got none

 

[CinnaSlim]

Go with your fickle emotions and be blinded by love then ultimately betrayed.

Or go with the seemingly safe option who ends up boring or worse controlling/abusive.

It's a gamble, just have pick one.

 

[Action Mike]

Men can have options too but it shouldn't be as much as women because we are generally the "hunters" every now and then there might be situations where you have 2 or 3 women you really are feeling but that should be few and far in between.

Nope don't agree.

Go with your fickle emotions and be blinded by love then ultimately betrayed.

Or go with the seemingly safe option who ends up boring or worse controlling/abusive.

It's a gamble, just have pick one.

Is it really one or the other out here?

Too black and white.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

If you have multiple people interested in you are you interested in them you have options. Why are people making this out a big deal, most women are going to have options until they weed out the bad ones from the good ones.

Men can have options too but it shouldn't be as much as women because we are generally the "hunters" every now and then there might be situations where you have 2 or 3 women you really are feeling but that should be few and far in between.


Take your time getting to know them, if an ex is a option get rid of that option. Let the people your interested in know your interested in them even if you aren't trying to date them right away.

Exactly; if you're a half-way decent person, it's possible that more than one half-way decent person will be interested in you.... at the same damn time, no less. People treating it like Highlander and shyt

When it came to dating, I made my intentions clear to any mutually-interested suitors. Even though I know all relationships are different, I had plenty of positive, long-term relationship examples to gain insight from (and plenty of bad ones too so I knew what NOT to do) and I went from there.

I'm a pretty decisive person, so I quickly knew what would and wouldn't work for me in a relationship, and it made sorting the wheat from the chaff easier. Once I met my now husband, everything just clicked... after an initial period of me hating his guts LOL

 

[marcuz]

Go with your fickle emotions and be blinded by love then ultimately betrayed.

Or go with the seemingly safe option who ends up boring or worse controlling/abusive.

It's a gamble, just have pick one.

are you responding to yourself? did you think this was your alias account?

edit: i noticed when it comes to "the safe option", y'all gotta make him some how oppressive.

 

[1thouwow]

Go with your fickle emotions and be blinded by love then ultimately betrayed.

Or go with the seemingly safe option who ends up boring or worse controlling/abusive.

It's a gamble, just have pick one.

whats wrong with a curve

 

[hoodheronova]

at all the women that think they have options. Ya'll only got a bag of bullshyt