How Patient Are You With A Woman In The Beginning Stages...
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BaldingSoHard
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I'm pretty patient because I don't expect much from modern women. In the end, if they fukk up it's their loss so it's pretty easy for me not to get riled up over shyt. If she wants to fukk around and miss out on this lifestyle... I'm not gonna lose any sleep. 
DJ Paul's Arm
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Would check and call her out on her bullshyt at every turn. Wouldn’t concede an inch. And I can tell that shyt was making her even more attracted to me
Spoiled bytches like that need to be checked like you were her daddy for them to bend the knee.
Had this Australian bytch I bagged off tinder..I cut her off before I even fukked all because she blew up on me one morning for sending a good morning text she called it Boring and a waste of time..I never replied to that shyt then few days later she text like I’m sorry and all that other good stuff..I just said No worries it’s cool and never text again..I wanted to fukk but I feel that was a big red flag as the bytch would be a headache down the line if she already flipping out on a good morning text
DatLBCGuy562
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Definitely the right move my guy. That is a HUGE red flag. bytches who get angry or an attitude with little provocation is INSTANT bushes for me. Smh.
They get thrown in the bushes the moment they flake. They usually find you more attractive cause you aint a simp and try to get back in your good graces. I flip it on em and make em jump through hoops to get back under the wing. shyt works on women 28 and up. Young girls on the otherhand are just gon have the 4 other brehs they talkin to cap their heads up
Only thing I chase is money and vodka. Still, if a woman has her shyt together and can match or exceed me I have more tolerance for them but only to a point. My new lady literally is everything I need and no headaches or bullshyt at all plus she fine as fukk and is paid. Own her house etc like me so we really have no issues unless we introduce them ourselves or let other folk come between us.
A few bytches who thought they could try me got cut off quick because I’m like this now: if you not moving like me, looking like me or in the same place in life like me you can’t be my main lady. That’s the bottomline. Don’t mean I won’t fukk your uterus out though, just means you aren’t main lady material. You for play play
A few bytches who thought they could try me got cut off quick because I’m like this now: if you not moving like me, looking like me or in the same place in life like me you can’t be my main lady. That’s the bottomline. Don’t mean I won’t fukk your uterus out though, just means you aren’t main lady material. You for play play
BornStar
Marathon Continues
...of a relationship? I'll be 40 in 3 months
And I've noticed. Over the past 5 years, I don't put up with NONE of women's shyt test, not even playing it off like I used to do just to get the p*ssy. Now. One flake? Gone. Cop an attitude over something small? Number blocked and deleted. I feel hot and cold energy or inconsistent behavior? Instant bushes.
It's like the older I get, the less tolerable of bullshyt and women's games I become. How about you brehs? Ladies. Chime in as well. How much rope do you give a new prospective mate? Do you allow a little rope or iron fist from the get go?
As you get older you realize
There are too many options to be dealing with one woman's bullshyt. Especially when you build a rotating roster with women coming in and out every 2-9 months.
Would you be mad if you lost a penny?
you tell her, look...i need a good one and a plan. without that you have nothing.
cause once you're over 25, a nut is just a nut. bills is in effect.
and if you say to her about the plan and she asks whats the plan, bang the phone on her.
you could call her back and tell her i've got 800 plans. whats your plan ?
cause listen, at the end of the day...i'm tired of this..you been looking out for me, i been looking out for you.
when we going to make something ? whats the plan ?......her reply better be "Profit!"
cause once you're over 25, a nut is just a nut. bills is in effect.
and if you say to her about the plan and she asks whats the plan, bang the phone on her.
you could call her back and tell her i've got 800 plans. whats your plan ?
cause listen, at the end of the day...i'm tired of this..you been looking out for me, i been looking out for you.
when we going to make something ? whats the plan ?......her reply better be "Profit!"
O.T.I.S.
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Zero tolerance or care.
And if you bring me around your kids first date you’re instantly bushed now.
I tolerate some things my current chick does but its more like lil annoyance things (like I just had my first full day at a new job and she wants to go out to dinner when I’m dead ass tired from all this running around indoc bullshyt I just had to do. I was like “NO
“)
But yeah as i got older less i cared about dating now. Before my current I hadn’t dated for damn near 3 years.
And if you bring me around your kids first date you’re instantly bushed now.
I tolerate some things my current chick does but its more like lil annoyance things (like I just had my first full day at a new job and she wants to go out to dinner when I’m dead ass tired from all this running around indoc bullshyt I just had to do. I was like “NO
“)But yeah as i got older less i cared about dating now. Before my current I hadn’t dated for damn near 3 years.
It's not just women but people in general I have less tolerance for.
1. I don't drive during rush hour traffic
2. I don't go to malls or stores during peak times with slow ass people blocking all the aisles and using self checkout for the first time
3. I don't deal with terrible customer service and will leave a store if I sense it immediately
4. I take "street harassment" the same way women do and if anyone, man or woman, approaches me and I don't feel like talking to them I ignore them and keep it moving. Women really don't know what to do when you completely ignore what they say lol.
A few things like above save me a lot of time and headaches.
With women yeah, I've dated so much and met so many women now at my age I size them up quickly and filter through the BS. Any woman who is playing games I cut off and ignore their shyt. I avoid a lot of women my age if I sense they are in a rush to settle down and have a baby as soon as they find a suitable mate (you'll be surprised how many women are cool with a "oops baby" with a nikka she just met 4 months ago).
I'm on the casual sex/dating wave right now and will probably continue to do it until I get my business up and running for a couple of years. Most women are cool with that if you don't budge and let them trick you into a relationship. My mini situations usually last 4-6 months until the next one. I'm having a great time without the stress and time commitment of a serious relationship.
1. I don't drive during rush hour traffic
2. I don't go to malls or stores during peak times with slow ass people blocking all the aisles and using self checkout for the first time
3. I don't deal with terrible customer service and will leave a store if I sense it immediately
4. I take "street harassment" the same way women do and if anyone, man or woman, approaches me and I don't feel like talking to them I ignore them and keep it moving. Women really don't know what to do when you completely ignore what they say lol.
A few things like above save me a lot of time and headaches.
With women yeah, I've dated so much and met so many women now at my age I size them up quickly and filter through the BS. Any woman who is playing games I cut off and ignore their shyt. I avoid a lot of women my age if I sense they are in a rush to settle down and have a baby as soon as they find a suitable mate (you'll be surprised how many women are cool with a "oops baby" with a nikka she just met 4 months ago).
I'm on the casual sex/dating wave right now and will probably continue to do it until I get my business up and running for a couple of years. Most women are cool with that if you don't budge and let them trick you into a relationship. My mini situations usually last 4-6 months until the next one. I'm having a great time without the stress and time commitment of a serious relationship.
Mr Hate Coffee
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Bruh I feel you 100%. I’m 35 but I been on that low tolerance shyt since 30. I done bushed some very attractive girls for stuff that simps put up with.
To quote Dom Kennedy “and I know a lot of dimes, they a handful.”
I really despise simps sometimes. They’re the main reason I had to deal with children in grown women’s bodies.
To quote Dom Kennedy “and I know a lot of dimes, they a handful.”
I really despise simps sometimes. They’re the main reason I had to deal with children in grown women’s bodies.
I'm patient but I need to see equal effort on your part.
If you play any form of "hard to get" I move onto the next chick. We're fukking grown. If I show interest and you're interested, then show interest too. I'm not gonna just come up to you and ask your number. Not my style. I'll strike a conversation and try to develop a rapport. Once i feel we're comfortable then i'll ask for your number but if I even sense a bit of hesitation... I bounce. Even if you give it to me.
If you play any form of "hard to get" I move onto the next chick. We're fukking grown. If I show interest and you're interested, then show interest too. I'm not gonna just come up to you and ask your number. Not my style. I'll strike a conversation and try to develop a rapport. Once i feel we're comfortable then i'll ask for your number but if I even sense a bit of hesitation... I bounce. Even if you give it to me.
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