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this is interesting. never really thought about it. i don't ever really approach men or try to lock down relationships so maybe that's the difference in my response. I need to be friends with a guy to be with them. so for me it's just about getting to know somebody as a person with no timelines or pressures just like i would do a friend.... we don't have to talk everyday, you don't have to answer my text right away.... of course, if you do these things i would take it as a sign of special interest. but if they don't do these things or if they have a bad moment, i'm not gonna throw a fit and cut them off :mjlol: we'll just see where it goes :yeshrug:
 

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I have a system, Yellow flags and red flags. Red are major and yellow are minor. If a girl tallys up 4 yellow flags, or one red along with any other flag then she is cut off.

For example something like Snapchat filter photos I count as a yellow flag
 

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this is interesting. never really thought about it. i don't ever really approach men or try to lock down relationships so maybe that's the difference in my response. I need to be friends with a guy to be with them. so for me it's just about getting to know somebody as a person with no timelines or pressures just like i would do a friend.... we don't have to talk everyday, you don't have to answer my text right away.... of course, if you do these things i would take it as a sign of special interest. but if they don't do these things or if they have a bad moment, i'm not gonna throw a fit and cut them off :mjlol: we'll just see where it goes :yeshrug:
Typical blame shifting. Nobody is talking about throwing a fit:camby:. But with years comes experience, and experience tells you that if a woman does certain things, it's going to get nowhere, so you might aswell cut her off.
 

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Had this Australian bytch I bagged off tinder..I cut her off before I even fukked all because she blew up on me one morning for sending a good morning text she called it Boring and a waste of time..I never replied to that shyt then few days later she text like I’m sorry and all that other good stuff..I just said No worries it’s cool and never text again..I wanted to fukk but I feel that was a big red flag as the bytch would be a headache down the line if she already flipping out on a good morning text

Bushing her was a good move.

...But she's supposed to be sending you the "good morning" text, not the other way around. :ufdup:

That's something females do.

(Otoh, you can "test" a chick by being a little too nice to her and seeing how she reacts to it. If you're looking for an actual gf, that's a way to discover a little about where her head is at with a swiftness.)

But nah -- "good morning" texts are for ladies to send, not receive.
 
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Typical blame shifting. Nobody is talking about throwing a fit:camby:. But with years comes experience, and experience tells you that if a woman does certain things, it's going to get nowhere, so you might as well cut her off.

nobody is blaming anybody (well maybe the guys in the thread are but i wasn't), we just having a conversation calm down lol
 

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I’m 32 and my mentality for the last couple years has been “give me a reason” when it comes to these women. I’ll delete your number and keep it pushing with no hesitation. Like others have said, I think it comes with age and experience. You can see the bullshyt coming a mile away and just don’t want to deal with it. I’ve been with my current girl since November and she sensed that about me from the beginning. We don’t have any real issues fortunately but she knows how I get down.
 

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I've finished my coffee and left due to tardiness.

It depends on what I see in their actions. If I get the impression that they're playing games or taking man fi ediat, I'm bouncing.
 
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