I Had A Fight With My Woman, Did I Over-React? Gimme Your Advice!!!

[Bigen King]

You have to remain stoic in all situations when it comes to women in 2024.

It's a learned character trait for most men but it's necessity in relationship. Cause women are always going to do certain things that

irk you and you have to be able to bush little things off and move on.

 

[Menna]

Okay so we went out to a speakeasy, that's like an underground bar for those that don't know.
We having fun, DJ playing jazzy music, it's all good.
We drinking whiskey cocktails, ordering all kinds of drinks. We are currently at the bar.
Then we move to a lounge area, so there's tables and places for people to sit.
There's groups of people all around us, each with their own table.

Kind of like the below, but with the tables much closer to each other, so every group was much closer to each other than this picture infers.

Then when we move to the table in the lounge area we chilling.
Then she hears another group of people next to us say something about somewhere. Something about travelling around DC.
I am not sure how it happened I was looking at my phone at the moment, but when I look up there's a conversation going on.

And one of the guys in other group tried to involve me in the conversation, and I was acting snobby I guess, because i'm like I don't know these people.
I'm sure they all knew I wasn't happy about it, I have no control over my body language. It always shows how I feel.
So after me and my girl we had an argument about it, because I didn't like it, i'm not down with my woman just entering a conversation with strangers like that.
The other group had equal men/women ratio, there were like 4 guys and 4 girls, all couples I think.

Of course if the other group had only women I would feel less a certain type of way, but you know what i'm saying?

But if we go out, and I want us to go out, i'm not down with interacting with people around us, I want it to be just about us.

Thoughts?
If some things didn't make sense i'm super drunk and high right now.
I slept by her that night.
After that argument me and her we went to her house, we was cuddly, we fukked when we got there, and around 4am, then back to sleep.
But then we woke up to go to work the next morning, we left together, and it was like she was mad at me and I was mad at her kinda vibe.
We haven't spoken since.

I feel like i'm never gonna like that about her, it will always be an issue for me and pretty much a deal breaker.
I prefer snobbier women I guess.

So am I over-reacting?

I think your expectations when you go out to a crowded social area should be different…

I thought I was gonna read a man touched her or she was talking to other men or some shyt…

What happened was light you just want control but your in a public social place by choice… kinda like saying where’s all the heathy food in the bakery.

Next time motion to one of the other mens women ask if she’s ever been to DC? Or say LA is where it’s at… get ur girl jealous then fukk her later

Now you just look like a controlling over protective none social person…what can strangers really say to you that would be so bad?!?!? Who cares … if there’s a violation that’s one thing but that didn’t occur

Are you an introvert that likes to go out?

 

[Menna]

I'm reading the replies
And i cant believe it, I can't believe that this many of ya'll would be okay with this

If I go out on a date, it will be identical to yours.
Say we out on a date, in the same setting with tables of couples around us.
If we all look around us, we will not see one person in all groups of tables, or even 20% of tables, that are talking to everyone around her.
With that fact in mind........ why ya'll posing?

Bro you said the man tried to include YOU in the convo and you shot it down…

This makes your girl look like she is with an anti social attitude guy so she not gonna like it either A try to be nice and answer for you or B check you in car or home…

This shyt is sooooo light brah a man that had a girl tried to bring you into the convo when you with your girl…

Social people put in energy to be personable with the guy so that the girls can talk and shyt. Then the convo ends and everyone goes about their life…if one of the guys gets disrespectful shut it down

God bless in the future brah I hope life doesn’t “test” your relationship you won’t be able to handle it

 

[Menna]

You sound insufferable. You're lucky she ain't break up with you yet

Insufferable is such a good word in general

If ya care about the relationship talk to your girl make up some shyt say you were upset about something else…take her out again in the meantime…

 

[Oldschooler]

Sounds like you're an introvert. You went to a lounge my guy. Humans are social creatures, there's nothing wrong with what happened. At least it was other couples your wife was interacting with and not a group of hungry wolves.

 

[Dont@Me]

I fukking hate people who act like OP. So insecure that everyone who even breathes in the vicinity of his girl is trying to take her from him

This nikka gonna end up on a true crime channel after she leaves his ass for a real nikka like me

 

[jwall123]

You sound like you have control issues and insecure.

We are social beings. We strike up conversations with random people in the randomest places for the randomest reasons.

The fact that YOU don't makes you socially abnormal.

If it goes against your introverted sensibilities, the most masculine thing you could do is to be gracious about it. And to give your girl grace in the areas that differs from you.

Gotdamn, who be raising y'all brehs?

This. Give some grace, even if it’s not what you want to do. Your girl was obviously having a good time before the issue you made

 

[Morethan1]

You scared to make friends?

 

[BuckFilly]

Were the other people black?

 

[Marlow Stanfield]

@Cat piss martini He should've called in rather than make a thread.

To the OP: You look like an anti-social weirdo and embarrassed your lady at the same time. Two L's in one sitting. You better tighten up and understand that interacting with other couples in social settings is a thing. Stop trying to control and learn to socialize. If not, don't be surprised when your woman dumps you.

 

[Tflasha]

Okay so we went out to a speakeasy, that's like an underground bar for those that don't know.
We having fun, DJ playing jazzy music, it's all good.
We drinking whiskey cocktails, ordering all kinds of drinks. We are currently at the bar.
Then we move to a lounge area, so there's tables and places for people to sit.
There's groups of people all around us, each with their own table.

Kind of like the below, but with the tables much closer to each other, so every group was much closer to each other than this picture infers.

Then when we move to the table in the lounge area we chilling.
Then she hears another group of people next to us say something about somewhere. Something about travelling around DC.
I am not sure how it happened I was looking at my phone at the moment, but when I look up there's a conversation going on.

And one of the guys in other group tried to involve me in the conversation, and I was acting snobby I guess, because i'm like I don't know these people.
I'm sure they all knew I wasn't happy about it, I have no control over my body language. It always shows how I feel.
So after me and my girl we had an argument about it, because I didn't like it, i'm not down with my woman just entering a conversation with strangers like that.
The other group had equal men/women ratio, there were like 4 guys and 4 girls, all couples I think.

Of course if the other group had only women I would feel less a certain type of way, but you know what i'm saying?

But if we go out, and I want us to go out, i'm not down with interacting with people around us, I want it to be just about us.

Thoughts?
If some things didn't make sense i'm super drunk and high right now.
I slept by her that night.
After that argument me and her we went to her house, we was cuddly, we fukked when we got there, and around 4am, then back to sleep.
But then we woke up to go to work the next morning, we left together, and it was like she was mad at me and I was mad at her kinda vibe.
We haven't spoken since.

I feel like i'm never gonna like that about her, it will always be an issue for me and pretty much a deal breaker.
I prefer snobbier women I guess.

So am I over-reacting?

Didn't read but





































You share that girl

 

[It's been real]

My coli brehs, this hindu canadian fakkit @Prince.Skeletor AKA BrownSkin Intellect used the word nikka frequently. Makes sense he's a social retard, all sanjeets are. Your wife left you for a good reason fakkit

He edited the posts, but I quoted them long before in this thread:

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/moi.860174/#post-42590201

EDIT: In case this fakkit edits more posts. He admits it here (my old un was Khajiit).

Arrogant street shytter

 

[4-Rin]

Sounds like his girl was talking to He-Man. Skeletor's not trying to chop it up with the ops

So yes you over reacted

 

[GreenGhxst]

You could be more secure about stuff like that even if you aren't a people person

The thing is, I understand that feeling, but you're wrong fam, the other guy even saw the situation/your body language and invited you in

Take it as a lesson and be open to socializing if you're in a social environment, also be secure in who you are and what you bring

Everybody isn't trying to snake you, the only thing you can control is you

 

[GreenGhxst]

You is RETARDED.

And yo girl hates ya dont worry. She daydreaming about being with a fly sociable nikka that doesn't embarrass her allll day just scopin nikkas while u writing to us

yall nikkas is the woat

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