I think marriage is only beneficial to marriage minded people. That goes for men OR women. If u don't care about building a future or a community or family stability and a legacy attached to your name, you probably shouldn't be bothered with the institution. Not everybody is cut out for marriage or even NEEDS to be married. If u see any type of relationship as a trap or resent or view them with anxiety or suspicion, why would you hurt urself trying to do something that obviously ain't for you.
I agree with this. If you're marrying because you're wife is a dimepiece, marriage ain't for you. If you're marrying only because your husband has money, marriage ain't for you. If you want to build a family legacy and are both mentally prepared to do so, I think this type of marriage would endure.