Just got child support taken out my check

[JAY?]

Damn broski..make 35k a year and get whacked for a stack a month, brehs...

I told my wife and she said that's ridiculous, then I told her to get her ass in the kitchen and make breakfast

Is there room on the table for 1 more?

 

[benjamin]

Is there room on the table for 1 more?

Yea, shack up wit my babymoms..bytch been driving me crazy this past week

 

[360dagod]

im appalled BY YOUR AGGRESSIVE IGNORANCE

taking care of your own goddamn kids and EXPLOITATION of a man's salary is two different damn things

don't let your HATRED OF MEN blind you to the reality that Child Support is being exploited by SOME greedy vengeful babymamas and a shallow biased court system

i feel for the OP....

I was there for my son from the beginning signed the birth certificate right there at the hospital...had my girl living with me

took on a extra job as a contractor to pay off my debts to get a bigger place and support my family

because i happened to have subcontracted alot of work for the city...i was able to get a hookup on some government housing

helped get her a nice section 8 apartment in the suburbs where all she had to pay was 85 bucks a month for rent....


the plan was for it to be TEMPORARY....the following year i had plan to marry her with money i saved for us to move OUT OF SECTION 8 into a OUR OWN HOME.... so much for that plan

im sending her money for her place ....while im on the road busting my azz to work..

she didnt work always had an excuse....and when she eventually decided to go to school she wound up on academic probation (failure)

so i guess somebody taught her the "game" ...and when i arrived home from working out of town, she decides to start these crazy off the wall arguments and shyt .....just giving me hell.....not to mention she was stepping out on me

so finally she says she want's to breakup..i was like cool...we wasnt getting along ..and it wasn't healty for us or the baby

come to find out this was a GAME!!!.....the byatch NEVER had her own place prior to me....

so that place she got and the bread she was getting from me was a comeup

so now that we broke up ....not less than a week later I GET SERVED WITH CHILD SUPPORT PAPERS....

i go to pick up my son now..and she still ain't working .....balling out at at the mall and done moved a new boyfriend in the aparment i hooked her up with ....

yet SHE COULDN'T AFFORD THE COPAY AT THE DOCTOR'S VISIT FOR MY SON

and the utilities!!!...all she had to pay was 85 bucks for rent...yet my azz had to pay the electricity bill cause god knows what she did with her child support money

meanwhile my black azz.....struggling to pay 645 dollars for one child (live in georgia and have a kid with a woman on assistance breh)...ONE DAMN CHILD YALL!

had to leave my apartment......work 7 days a week.....and move into a fukking rooming house....living off raman noodles and value meals from fast food restaurants..

fearing that if i didn't make a payment I COULD HAVE MY LICENSE SUSPENDED OR FIND MYSELF IN JAIL..

ASK YOURSELF IS THAT FAIR??


so DON'T YOU DARE STEROTYPE EVERY MAN AS SOME "DEADBEAT" HAVING DADDY...I DID AND CONTINUE TO DO FOR MY SON

THAT BYATCH JUST TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SYSTEM...WITH NO REGARDS FOR ME OR MY SON..

BUT HEY YOU KNOW THE STORY...HATE THE GAME NOT THE PLAYER

SO IF ANYTHING I BLAME THE SYSTEM...MORE THAN THE SORRY BABYMAMS

.damn...

 

[A1aaa]

after a pregnancy scare a few years ago, i personally have educational and financial restrictions on any woman i'm dating now. it's not foolproof, but it has largely spared me from the fukkery my brehs are currently entangled in.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

after a pregnancy scare a few years ago, i personally have educational and financial restrictions on any woman i'm dating now. it's not foolproof, but it has largely spared me from the fukkery my brehs are currently entangled in.

YOU HAVE TO!!!...any working class man MUST HAVE EDUCATIONAL AND FINANCIAL STANDARDS in place for the woman he plans on getting involved with...

this ain't the 90's or 80's...back in the day..where a man could afford to have a "housewife" or nonworking woman...

this economy forces BOTH PARTNERS to be able to contribute...

my homeboy says im wrong for demanding that a woman has at least 35k for me to even entertain the thought of a relationship with a woman

but shyt we both grown adults and i have a son...i ain't got time to be taken care of no broad....

if we wanna have shyt and it's suppose to be 50 50..then she gotta PUT IN WORK TOO!

that's why this ole "I NEED A BAD BYATCH" mentality is fukking alot of cats up....

cause in reality....

if she has NO CAR...NO PLACE TO STAY..NO JOB...

SHE IS NOT A BAD BYATCH...SHE JUST A BYATCH DOING BAD



an OG once told me....if you CHOOSE BETTER..you will DO BETTER..

 

[Man On Fire]

fukk my life
I thought there was an error
Then I seen -$487 child support
I got to pay this every 2 weeks
I support my kids as much as I can
They don't need nothing
This shyt is rediculous
I won't be able to pay my rent
Or phone bill
Or eat
Or pay my car insurance
Or health insurance
I would basically have to work like 80 hours a week just to live check to check

This ain't living brehs
Strap up

Sorry to hear your pain breh

But I thought child support was a once every month thing


Why not apply for joint custody

 

[JAY?]

Sorry to hear your pain breh

But I thought child support was a once every month thing

Every 2 weeks which ends up being like 13 months in the year

 

[aqualung]

I was making 9.00 an hour with 300.00 a month car payment, 300.00 a month rent, 80.00 a month combined utilities (water, electricity, phone), 70.00 every 6 months for car insurance...

People who earn $9/hour in the USA cannot afford children. Zero children can they afford.

In her position, I would neither have conceived your child nor carried it to term.

 

[Man On Fire]

Every 2 weeks which ends up being like 13 months in the year

Did you apply for joint custody?

 

[desjardins]

$900 for two kids is a good deal all things considered. That's $450 a kid per month, I'm not sure how anyone can argue that's too much CS for a kid living in an expensive city like NYC.
Anyway seems like the baby mom is a bum bytch if she has two kids and still live with her mom. Seems like the judge made you reasonable for the majority of the kids needs since the mom is so poor. It is what it is , most ppl here are under 40 yr old we all knew child support could fukk you up before we started fukking



And all the people in here saying it's unfair since dude makes x amount per year....child support is calculated IN THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD . It's not about what you can "afford" , which is subjective anyway. If the mom on welfare and you make 35k then you gonna pay more than you think is fair...cause well your kids gotta survive. It's y'all responsibility to supply a certain standard of living for your kids, stop having kids with bytches who don't have nothing going for themselves beyond good p*ssy.

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

You sound stupid. This guy makes 50k a year, he wouldn't spend 1k on his kids every month if he had full custody. It's too much of a strain on his income.

Nobody asked about your living arrangement, but since you went there.. it seems like your man works like a dog just to make ends meet... What do you do?

Im not an elitist so I wont do too much on this thread but based on your comment all I can tell you is to do better in life.

Mofos like you always worry about the wrong shyt. My post should have had you asking questions about the hustle not laughing at it. But stay broke and thinking 500/child in NY is doing something. Also my man wakes up to money in his account and he started this legal hustle after we became pregnant for the sole purpose of providing more for his child.

 

[360dagod]

Im not an elitist so I wont do too much on this thread but based on your comment all I can tell you is to do better in life.

Mofos like you always worry about the wrong shyt. My post should have had you asking questions about the hustle not laughing at it. But stay broke and thinking 500/child in NY is doing something. Also my man wakes up to money in his account and he started this legal hustle after we became pregnant for the sole purpose of providing more for his child.

So what do you do for a living?

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

So what do you do for a living?

I raise my daughter like my man asked me to.

 

[360dagod]

I raise my daughter like my man asked me to.

Congrats to you being a stay at home mom...

How u paying 1500 in rent though if your not employed

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

Congrats to you being a stay at home mom...

How u paying 1500 in rent though if your not employed

Husband pays it.