Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

Exactly. They had the Paro (unemployment) protests and Riots and Cali Colombia was pretty fukked up. At that time they were considering reinstating total lockdowns. They stopped the protests. Tomorrow is independence day and nobody is expecting the protests to turn out like the last ones did.

 

I had to ponder on this but y’all are right. Based on what I’ve seen, it seems like more bm find the bw in their lane attractive, compared to the reverse. I think it’s honestly for the best that those women just stay single if they aren’t willing to do the work to improve themselves to get the men that they actually want.

It’s really of no benefit for y’all to be with women that aren’t attracted/sexually desire you, as that contributes to her not wanting to have sex with you, cheating on you with the men she is attracted to, and not respecting you because you aren’t what she wants. Imo it’s best for men to be with women who sexually desire and respect them.

 

By George she's got it!!!!

That's really the essence of this at the end of the day Black people and ADOS especially has had their mind's colonized. They literally look at Black People the way white people look at Black People.

That's why a random redneck Man or woman is seen as "better" than the average Black person to Black People.

The reason why I say this is kinda of more represented in ADOS as opposed to non ADOS is that yes most Black People believe in white supremacy babble but the difference is at the end of the day outside of certain areas of the capital cites most Black People in Black countries rarely see non Black people thus you can't live in a house designed and built by Black Men and say Black Men don't build Or I dont date Black women.

You're also right if Black People really think that non Black ice cubes are colder then they need to fukk with non Black ice cubes and leave Black people alone.

 

Hmmm, well me and my girls and my sisters all make over 75k, and date men who do too. I don’t think these men are hard to get either—if your in those social circles you meet these men by default. When I think of high value I think of the men that make substantially more than that, and again as I mentioned before, most bw are not in those circles—they don’t have access and won’t get those men.

I think in our community we often make the mistake of believing that just because a man or woman went to college and has a good job that they are by default a good man or woman. A woman can go to college and have a good job but still have bad judgement/poor decision making when it comes to men and vice versus.

but like I admitted in another response I do think y’all are onto something when y’all say that there are bw who don’t want the men in their lane. I think it’s for the best that those women are single, it’s of no benefit to you to be with a woman who doesn’t truly want you.

But I also think that both bm and bw are not in the best positions they can be in, and that our community is highly dysfunctional and it’s not just bw contributing to the dysfunction. It’s both groups.

 

interesting—I have heard that from nonados people before too.

As for your last paragraph I agree. Look, I think bw and bm who feel like they have better experiences with nonblacks just need to be with nonblacks and call it a day. I personally don’t like white people enough(their ways or their looks) to fukk them, but if that’s who they think is better then that’s just who they need to be with.

 

That's fair.

Getting money and being in shape are parts of it but they don't address character and discipline

He impregnated and was in a relationship with a known whore. What he's paying is called a stupidity tax. He's a millionaire who clearly enjoys giving his money away. He has to look in the mirror every day knowing his child is being raised by a prostitute, that is his fault.

Also:
- Most men don't pay alimony
- Only 40% of black households own a home, so there isn't usually a home to give her

The average Black man doesn't make the money to pay alimony or buy a house so these stats don't apply to him.


If a man is using the law as a way to hold himself accountable he's already lost. Personal accountability is the only type that will help a man grow and forge him into someone worth following.

The law doesnt keep from someone from being a bum
The law doesn't keep a man in his Mommas house
The law doesn't make him directionless
The law isn't the reason he's following a Digital version of Phil Donahue for guidance
The law isn't the reason he has no mentors

He is the primary reason he isnt shxt in this world. Not bw, not his parents, not his community, not hateful dominant society. While they all play a role, he is the person is the most responsible for himself.

His lifestyle is a testimony to his decisions and thought process over time.

 

Well i don’t know many women who move that way tbh, so it’s hard for me to speak on that. I just really can’t think of one professional woman I know very well that is choosing thugs. I know it happens though, but I just don’t know those women. I can only say that like attracts like. If they’re choosing thugs, it’s for a reason.

im of the personal opinion that bw should strive to be fit anyway—it’s just good for your health to work out and eat right. Do most bm want thin women though? I was called the biggest hater on this site because I used to call out all those threads that put overweight and “plus size” women on a pedestal. I think slim and slim thick women look the best personally—I would love to see more bw in those ranges.

Of course I think there are barriers that make it difficult for bm. And those barriers aren’t going away on their own—we need to figure out a way to overthrow/take down that system. That’s the only way, or decades from now we’ll be saying the same thing. At some point black people are going to have to fight back, unless we accept and are okay with the system as it is, and many of us are not. It’s a conversation many want to avoid but at some point if we’re not talking about rising up against this system and fighting back, then we’re accepting defeat and remaining at the bottom.

 

exactly Black People need to find a way to separate themselves from people who don't like them. white cops specifically apply to Police agencies with high Black populations white teachers go out of their way to teach in the hood. Black People Men and women loudly tell Black why they don't measure up to other races in dating, Asians come thousands of miles to set up businesses in the hood then complain about their customers.

I really wish we could all Go Back to Africa if it meant getting the fukk away from people who do not like us.



Now speaking about Black women specifically I don't know what happened but back in the day a 50 year old 5'10" dude 50 pounds overweight making 50K a year would be a totally acceptable step daddy to a 40 year old 40 pounds overweight chick making 40K with 50K in student loan debt but now it suddenly ain't and you can't even suggest that she should link with the 50 year old


Her Grandmother literally jumped at such a guy the only thing I can see is that Intergration happened.

 

We're filtering out the nikkas who don't have homes are bums etc, because lets be honest you can't be broke and ugly and think you're getting anywhere with Black women, There's incels on this very board.


I will say I remember talking to a dude who got divorced and he didn't have to pay alimony (he was in the military) but I had a solider who was trying to divorce his wife and the wife wouldn't grant him the divorce because he was near his indepth date where she could get a piece of his retirement check.

One state was an amicable no fault divorce and the other state the person getting divorced from could appeal to try to reconcile before a divorce is granted.

The funny thing was the no fault case was in Maryland and the appeal case was in Virginia, I shouldn't put this out there but both worked for me at different times on the same base in Virginia at Fort Belvior so dudes were commuting but the laws are different in different states.

 

That’s a question. I think it’s a reflection of the times. Our society is more shallow than ever. These issues are always seen more in our community before they expand to others. I think women are putting more emphasis on looks now then they used to in the past. Sex is more important to women now—they don’t just want a Jan who makes good money, they want a man who they get wet enough for to cum.

I’m dead breh, I just busted out laughing at the bolded.

 

Salute to you to be in that 9% that make over 75k, many bw don't make that much, which may indicate why they are not in those circles. They won't get access or come close to getting them but that's not stopping these bw from wanting them. That's the push back, these bw who have a lot going on, think that they deserve one of these top earning bm.

It's out there, and bw have stated that they cannot be with the average bm who makes 42k, but yet their dad made that same amount or less. These bw did not come from 6 figure dads but want bm to have this coming out the gate. Ass backwards.

 

You made a great point here..

 

Looks like KS is getting a new whip soon, he’s earned it. M8 possibly

 

This is literally all that Kevin is saying. bytches that are Mid in either looks, money, education or simply weight call in and try to convince Kevin why they qualify for a high Value Man and get mad when he tells them they don't.

He's not saying that they're gonna die alone because no dude if gonna fukk with them he's saying If they insist on a High Value Man they will die alone.

The issue is that Black women put no value on Black Men that are not deemed (mainly by white people) as "high Value" which is why they're not seen as an option.

 

Yes the funny thing is if they're own mothers had the same opinion most of these women wouldn't exist.

Chicks who are High Value in Looks generally don't have these problems unless they have severe attitude problems.