Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

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    Thought he was going to do a couple of more episodes on class, but given the downside risks of potentially alienating his audience I guess he didn't really want to go in.

    Further clarifying class dynamics would help a lot of dudes understand what their ceilings are in regards to marriage and lifestyle.

    There are two types of comments that show there is still some level of confusion for folks etched in class, a) comments about Black women wanting thugs b) when people beef with Kevin's numbers regarding the price of an upper-middle-class lifestyle.

    In regards to a) Too many dudes resent that the women they are attracted to are not attracted to them, and then they chalk it up to chicks not wanting a square. Certain women have an attraction to their class aesthetics, and they don't place value on a man being of a higher class than they are. Nor or they going to value you primarily for being organized aka "having your shyt together"--whether or not they should is irrelevant to my point--you have to acknowledge that part of the game and move on.

    In regards to b) this forum is filled with folks who consistently conflate working class vs upper-middle-class lifestyles/expenses because the catchall term "middle class" is so overused it essentially lost its meaning. I see this with my NYC relatives who think they can easily enter upper-middle-class institutions and social circles because they have government jobs that pay 85k. Social class does not work that way, and you will not gain access just because you make more than the "average".
     
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    I believe it was touched on, bm and bw that never been in a relationships before, having no social skills. You can really see it on dude's show, the awkwardness, the drifting off from the subject. Stick to the question. Face your demons

    Relationship skills are not there. 4-6 months is usually the breaking point when asked how long these women been in relationships, those that stay longer, "why are you not married to the guy" then it's a bunch of silence. It's like what are we doing.
     
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    It's funny this dude literally says the same talking points and same thing everyday and people still tune in en mass.

    I guess he gets new fans every week for every fan he loses or becomes disinterested
     
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    It's either they get a HVM or they will eventually settle and that man that they will settle for them will have a hard time getting respect from her.

    Will she respect that bm that she's married/kicking with that's making 42k, vs the one that's making 75k or better? Will both men get the same respect from her?
     
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    A Black man should not utter the words "she only fu*k with thugs" or any variation of that concept, it projects weakness on several levels.
     
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    Pretty Privilege, funny that he spoke on these women attracting bm but not being able to keep them or get the ring.

    No home skills contribute to this, once upon a time, pretty or ugly, a woman had to know how to maintain a house, bake, cook, etc.

    Now, most think all they need to do is look cute and put together outfits
     
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    That would be no problem (except for the massive depopulation and economic drop) if women didn't also ask for nikkas they they don't want to help them out.

    The reason the whole thing is literal Hoe babble is that for millions of years chicks where happy enough to literally marry the guy that their Dad picked for them. That's the reason why they were virgins how would a chick know what bad sex was if she didn't have anything to judge it against.

    Again fukk Black people for a minute I rewatched The Sopranos and Dr. Melfi married, & divorced her dude dated other people and ended up back with her ex. I remember the dream sequence after she was raped and although it had nothing to do with the scene she didn't seem wowed by her former husband's sexual performance.

    In short she settled How that became a bad word I don't know but I can tell you if you're boo'ed up a lot of random people that you see seem like a better deal at least just looking at them.
     
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    yeah if that’s what’s happening that’s unfortunate.
    No. That’s why I said it’s better for those women to just remain single. It’s of no benefit for the man who makes 42k and the woman who truly doesn’t want him, to get together. She will not respect him or desire him sexually the way she will that man who looks better or has more resources.
     
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    The chick who went Viral (and I think the Coli did that) Stephco went on a live with a Married Black couple and said She don't cook or clean


    Literally don't know how she expects to get a ring. I mean God Damn you'd expect a homely School Marm to actually have home skills.

    She's right she ain't getting married.
     
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    Unfortunately with bold I quoted there is no such thing. People will always dislike you for one reason or another. It might not be for race obviously but it will be something else and will still affect you even in a majority black place.

    I also think you've been online too long if you truly think what you're saying regarding what black men/women say regarding dating isn't just a vocal minority mainly online. This isn't a real issue my man. This is something folks talk about online because it gets the people going but in real life nobody really speaks on this foolishness.
     
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    I'm in my longest relationship now, and it's been almost 7 months.

    Getting married after 6-7 months is not a good idea. You still don't even know the person 100%, you haven't seen all their moods, you haven't seen them thru the entire course of a year.

    If you propose, it's only going to mask things further bc the woman is going to be focusing on the wedding and being super happy/lovey dovey, on her best behavior from the mental high women get from wedding planning, trying on dressea, cakes etc.

    Then after the marriage the come down from that high kicks in that's why often times people get married and divorced super quick.

    I'm no expert tho. This is jusy my opinion.
     
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    What chick?

    Can't cook? There's plenty of ways to access ways to learn how to cook, Youtube, family members etc. Cookbooks. That just plain being lazy and lazy women will cause a man to lose money and focus.

    Do bw wanna fall in love?

    The family is one of the ways that we will get black people to getting shyt done in this country, us being divided like this does not help our cause.

    Civil Rights, Voting Rights, Wall Street, thriving cities, we talk about it, but one thing we don't really mention is, that in these times, the black family was existing and booming

    80%
     
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    I agree, I was mainly speaking on women that's been with dudes for 2 years, 3 years, done had kids for him and still haven't gotten the ring.

    I agree, vet the person as much and long as you can.
     
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    I mean clearly they’re just using the men they don’t want, getting what they can get out of them. Which is honestly very easy because a lot of men do put p*ssy/women on a pedestal.

    A lot of people nowadays don’t want to necessarily settle. They’re too aware of other options. Sex is important. Attraction. Compatibility. Respect. I can’t fault people for not wanting to be with people that don’t suit whatever it is they’re looking for. But on the same token, if they can’t get who they want, then look, it just is what it is.

    I think nature will work this all out—ultimately I a lot of people will just be single if they can’t compete and aren’t trying to. And that’s probably for the best.
     
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    I get what you're saying and you're taking me too literally in regards to the Go Back to Africa thing (even though I did go Back to Africa personally)

    In regards to the This is just the internet Women have been complaining about being Incels since I was a child. I remember reading about the first Black NYPD officer and they said he was being sweated heavily Because their wasn't enough Black Men in 1903 Manhattan . Is the women lying too?

    There's supposedly 2 million "missing" Black Men yet there's Black male incels. Are they all lying?
     

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