Ladies, Do Y'all Feel There Are A Growing Number Of F*ckboys And Time Wasters

[tater]

Nah the only ones wasting time is bytches. We be trying to tell yall the deal but you wanna be sold a fantasy so nikka be forced to lie to beat the p*ssy.

How do you tell the real deal and sell fantasy at the same time?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

There are plenty out there. And now a days a lot of men interpreted equality as trying to take advantage of women. So they want the best looking female even if he isn't the best looking male, to approach him b/c he doesn't "gas" women up, and court him b/c he tryin to be a player. For all that he probably wants the chick to eat HIS p*ssy too. There are plenty of those jokers out there just like there are chicks saving random dudes in their phone under "meal plan".

But I think as you grow up you learn to maneuver around time wasters. You don't have to be nasty about it. Just don't deal with them. If a man's actions don't line up with his words or ur putting in effort that isn't matched, just kindly move on to someone else.

Normal people aren't trying to play you. I'm talking to a guy now and we're growing closer and closer. We cook together, work out with one another, he's done stuff for me, I've helped him. Nobody is trying to get one over on somebody. It's refreshing and helps you put ur guard down. Like its s'pose to be. That's why it's better to take ur time and get to know people instead of pressuring them whether for sex or a relationship. When did we stop enjoying one another?

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Means there is a growing number of men adapting to the fact that most of dating is a loss for men.
Until you find a decent chick, its all you investing, planning, entertaining, etc.

I don't agree with it, but some men are doing what it takes to do the least and get the most

This. Dating is a joke in 2017. These bytches ain't shyt so that's the way to treat them

 

[Ol’Otis]

No, think lots women are just bad at choosing and instead of taking self responsibility we blame men.

 

[Ol’Otis]

he probably wants the chick to eat HIS p*ssy too.

 

[Hungerpain]

When did fukkboy become an exclusive term for bytches to use for nikkas that play them?
I see people throwing that word around all Willy nilly now like wtf?
shyt was reserved for real live bytch nikkas that get treated as such not some guy that fukked you and doesn't answer your texts.
Game allllll fukked up.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

When did fukkboy become an exclusive term for bytches to use for nikkas that play them?
I see people throwing that word around all Willy nilly now like wtf?
shyt was reserved for real live bytch nikkas that get treated as such not some guy that fukked you and doesn't answer your texts.
Game allllll fukked up.

Yup

 

[AtomicUse]

Being married.
Not having to deal with these bytches and thier bullshyt.

Get Married Breh's.

 

[DrX]

I think ppl like the experience of dating...it's a event for them...it's something to get dressed up and do and then they can have sex to top it off

Then after they want that over and over again

Social media and online dating destroyed humanity because we all know how boring and similar the avg person is

It ain't nobody unique anymore ... People have lost their allure

 

[Larry Lambo]

When did fukkboy become an exclusive term for bytches to use for nikkas that play them?
I see people throwing that word around all Willy nilly now like wtf?
shyt was reserved for real live bytch nikkas that get treated as such not some guy that fukked you and doesn't answer your texts.
Game allllll fukked up.

Women re-branded that sh*t around 2015, with LSA being a leading contributor.

Not only do they use it for men who "play" women (which I think is wrong, but too strong of a word), but they use it for men that don't do exactly what they want.

A guy could be straight up honest and respectful, and just tell them that they aren't looking for a relationship from the jump and just because she doesn't want that, he's a f**kboi.

Not saying men aren't similarly harsh when it comes to language, but two wrongs don't make a right.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Social media did fck up the game on many levels. Everyone has an very inflated sense of self worth.

The art of having simulating conversation is gone.

It was one thread where nikkas didn't want to by a $7 drink.

But then i remembered, new dudes don't know how to hold a conversation with substance.

You having a real conversation with a woman for 30 min at the club, buying a $7 drink is nothing.

 

[Larry Lambo]

But I think as you grow up you learn to maneuver around time wasters. You don't have to be nasty about it. Just don't deal with them. If a man's actions don't line up with his words or ur putting in effort that isn't matched, just kindly move on to someone else.

I would assume that's easier said than done. Some guys legit like the girl and don't mind putting in work. It's just going to be for a limited time. There's guys out there going to church with chicks and meeting the fam, that have zero intentions of being with her a year from now.

I mean this was how most folks dated in HS/college, but now guys are doing this even when the women explicitly states she's looking for hubby.

The guy that is just looking to pump and dump, should be fairly easy to spot. The guy that is gonna use you as a temporary girlfriend is much harder to recognize, because his actions may be the same as a man that wants to marry you.

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Out in the dating scene? Like you are talking to men, going out on dates, but there's no progression? Men aren't reciprocating the way you want, they don't want to put a title on what y'all got going on etc.

Do y'all feel like the majority of men you date are on this?

If I got a female in this situation...theres a purpose...she a SLIDE stop givin out game on the internet

 

[Weaver31]

Sorta.

But honestly dating is just terrible for everyone these days.

Everyone wants to play games but not get played lol.

I got a boo and I'm good with him. We know where we stand with each other. He's a friend before any of that other bs that comes along with dating.

THIS.

People don't want to be used and seen as a simp, trick, or sucka. That will be a huge blow to a man's ego. Then women be bragging to her girls saying she used him and he was a sucka. Then some simps will go to a club and buy women food, bottles and shyt and get her right just for the next niqqa she actually attracted to sexually and likes. This is why men are more ruthless and nonchalant about women nowadays and going with the Netflix and chill type shyt. He don't wanna court her the old fashioned way and she not appreciate it...let alone mistreat him, brag on him being a sucka and jokin his azz behind his back.

 

[Weaver31]

No, think lots women are just bad at choosing and instead of taking self responsibility we blame men. If you're constantly choosing men who lead you on, use you, waste your time etc chances are you need to take a step back, question what you may be doing that is partially responsible to how you're being treated instead of feeling bad for yourself and be more selective instead of doing the same shyt over and over and expecting different results.

This can apply to men to, as there's def a lot of men who complain about how women treat them.

ur right...both genders tend to make poor judgment and both have bad taste. Sometimes when people are younger and in their prime...their criteria doesn't include substantial long lasting shyt like being trustworthy and actually caring about the person and having their best interest.