Men of The Coli, How Long Does It Take For A Man To Know That A Woman Is "TheOne" He Wants To Marry?

[Prynce]

If she keep sucking after I nut
And if she swallows

 

[M.O.N.E.Y.]

After a few dates. You just know. If the sex lives up then...

However, just cos you know, doesn't mean that you're not a fool and you still gonna try and have your cake and eat too

 

[ultraflexed]

Yeah, you're young and you are probably not with the person you are going to marry. How long have you been with her?




Thanks for answering. I think a year is enough time depending on the person's age. How old were you when it happened?



What did you have before your edit?

I think 2 years is long enough to know.
We got married almost 3 years later.

 

[Phitz]

We had definitely rushed into it. I like to say we dated on Monday and got married on Wednesday. But I knew I wanted to marry her so I did.
9 years later, we're still going strong.

** I don't advise anyone do this willingly. Marriage is too difficult to go into it on a whim, my situation worked out but I got that reality check real quick.

I agree with this, furthermore I dont' think any one can tell anyone else when is a good time for them to be married. To each their own and it's up to the individual and/or the people involved.

 

[agnosticlady]

If she keep sucking after I nut
And if she swallows

But what if every chick you're with does that?

 

[Prynce]

But what if every chick you're with does that?

Then I won

 

[Turbulent]

You have to date first before you can live together and start experiencing things.

I thought you were going to say like if you're dating someone and only go out with them twice in a month vs. spending time with them everyday of the month.

well there's that too. But even then, some people don't believe in living together before marriage. So you could spend two years with someone and be at each other's place all the time and it's still not the same as living together. You still feel like guests to eachother.

 

[Tunez]

When she shows me that she owns every Lloyd Banks album

 

[benjamin]

Been together 7 years, married for a year and a half of those. If a couple can live together for 5 years and at the end of those 5 years are still showing affection and making love regularly, marriage should be next...imo 2 years together is not enough time to judge a person's character because believe it or not, most people are still being fake with each other at 2 years...at the 3 year mark is when it gets real...a couple has to hit rock bottom with each other and build th selves back up together before you can be certain you can sustain a marriage.

 

[Giselle]

Some of you don't know how to read. Saying things like "If she does xyz"

I said HOW LONG not what does she have to do.

 

[onelastdeath]

Then I won

This made me

 

[Pier7]

Been together 7 years, married for a year and a half of those. If a couple can live together for 5 years and at the end of those 5 years are still showing affection and making love regularly, marriage should be next...imo 2 years together is not enough time to judge a person's character because believe it or not, most people are still being fake with each other at 2 years...at the 3 year mark is when it gets real...a couple has to hit rock bottom with each other and build th selves back up together before you can be certain you can sustain a marriage.

ding ding ding

In all my relationships its usually after year 3 where the gloves and the masks come off

 

[richaveli83]

6 months to a year. Not saying right at six months that marriage should happen but at the point I should know if this person is the one. Could be sooner than that. It can depend on a lot of factors. Her age, family background, morals, career, etc. I'm 32 so pretty much any woman that I enter into a relationship with I'm taking notes and watching for signs.