Men Of The Coli: How Soon Do You Start Talking Sexual To A Chick?

[SheWantTheD]

And does it change depending on if you view her as a jumpoff vs relationship material?

Ladies, when do you feel comfortable with a man talking dirty to you?

Told a chick last week that I wanted to do some nasty shyt to her body (something along the lines of that).

 

[The Burger King]

You should try to smash ASAP tbh.

Like after the first date.

 

[Critical Distance]

depends on the situation and the girl. no set rules.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

Depends on the guy and the chemistry...

You can't pop that shyt off immediately. I think MOST men know and can at least feel when a chick is that comfortable with him. At least I would hope so.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Depends on the guy and the chemistry...

You can't pop that shyt off immediately. I think MOST men know and can at least feel when a chick is that comfortable with him. At least I would hope so.

Why y'all be on some "oh my god, I can't believe you just said that!" tip

When you know you like it

 

[FSP]

I'm wondering this too. Especially when it comes to online game.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

Why y'all be on some "oh my god, I can't believe you just said that!" tip

When you know you like it

Well we have to play at least a LITTLE shy...

It's a part of the flirting process...

 

[PhonZhi]

Immediately let her know that you find her SEXUALLY attractive. Do this asap. Don't have to be disrespectful and thirsty but definitely compliment and flirt with her. This keeps you from the friend zone. Guys who end up in the friend zone are usually afraid to let it be known that they're feeling a girl past a "friendship".

If she doesn't respond to your advances, KIM. At least you shot your shot

 

[Ol’Otis]

just whip it out for her


it works for me

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Off the bat ..Just to let her know
And best way to avoid ther friendzone

 

[PhonZhi]

If you talking bout a chick that you see on the regular disregard my last post

Gotta take it a little slower in those cases

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

It really depends...

I'm kinda flirtatous even when just joking around...so semi sexual shyt ain't really that rare in my convos. Simple shyt like "damn them titties on point" or a compliment on her ass ain't that big a deal to me.

If I'm trying to go THERE, its usually very direct. As in "damn I need to play with that booty" or some goofy shyt like that. But that's after knowing them for a while. This all assuming I'm in the green. If not, I go ghost and on to the next.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Ladies, when do you feel comfortable with a man talking dirty to you?

Never. I would prefer if guys didn't talk dirty to me, ever. It makes me uncomfortable.

Most of the guys I've dated could sense that I wasn't comfortable with that kind of talk.

it's fine if my husband does it though. :/

 

[Wild self]

Depends on the guy and the chemistry...

You can't pop that shyt off immediately. I think MOST men know and can at least feel when a chick is that comfortable with him. At least I would hope so.

I can make the mood go right.

 

[Turlast]

You gotta assess the situation first. You can pretty tell when it's no holds barred with certain girls, but you also know that this would make other girls quickly go in the other direction. It all comes down to your ability to read the girl. Other than that, there's no set time for this type of thing.