Men Of The Coli: How Soon Do You Start Talking Sexual To A Chick?

[Tunez]

I text her a picture of me and Banks, she lets me smash an hour later

 

[Vandelay]

I start off with compliments, you have a nice smile, pretty eyes, dress fly...just to let them know I'm looking.

Then I bust out some innuendos and see how she responds.

Then I flat out just start talking about what I like to do to her.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

AFTER I PRESS PLAY IN THE BROWSER.

 

[FSP]

I start off with compliments, you have a nice smile, pretty eyes, dress fly...just to let them know I'm looking.

Then I bust out some innuendos and see how she responds.

Then I flat out just start talking about what I like to do to her.

What's the time stamp between when you meet her and when you start talking sexual...days? hours? minutes?

 

[Collateral]

Whats crazy is, I usually never have to bring up anything sexual because they're the once to mention it first, i'd say between 2 days to a week of knowing each other. They'll ask me questions and stuff and it goes from there. That just makes shyt easier for me.

 

[Giselle]

And does it change depending on if you view her as a jumpoff vs relationship material?

Ladies, when do you feel comfortable with a man talking dirty to you?

Told a chick last week that I wanted to do some nasty shyt to her body (something along the lines of that).

Stop stealing my thread titles. Come up with your own.

 

[Shadow King]

It really depends...

I'm kinda flirtatous even when just joking around...so semi sexual shyt ain't really that rare in my convos. Simple shyt like "damn them titties on point" or a compliment on her ass ain't that big a deal to me.

If I'm trying to go THERE, its usually very direct. As in "damn I need to play with that booty" or some goofy shyt like that. But that's after knowing them for a while. This all assuming I'm in the green. If not, I go ghost and on to the next.

What is "a while" though?

 

[JAY?]

You should try to smash ASAP tbh.

Like before the first date.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

You a goof troop my nikka just ask that bytch for head

 

[AyBrehHam Linkin]

Asap but with good reason

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

Never. I would prefer if guys didn't talk dirty to me, ever. It makes me uncomfortable.

Most of the guys I've dated could sense that I wasn't comfortable with that kind of talk.

it's fine if my husband does it though. :/

Lol u really married?

 

[Bay Area]

Ignore the nikka that said to compliment her. Females get complimented all day, you gotta show interest but not be over the top with it. Act like shes lucky to have the chance to fukk YOU.

 

[The Burger King]

Too soon imo, unless you're at a party or something.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

It really depends...

I'm kinda flirtatous even when just joking around...so semi sexual shyt ain't really that rare in my convos. Simple shyt like "damn them titties on point" or a compliment on her ass ain't that big a deal to me.

If I'm trying to go THERE, its usually very direct. As in "damn I need to play with that booty" or some goofy shyt like that. But that's after knowing them for a while. This all assuming I'm in the green. If not, I go ghost and on to the next.

"Them titties on point"


Listen To this man.

 

[Vandelay]

What's the time stamp between when you meet her and when you start talking sexual...days? hours? minutes?

Every chick that digs you or potentially digs you is different, and they will be different about how quickly or not they respond to you talking like that. What they say about women is true, they know within the first five minutes if they will fukk you...but don't blow your chances because in minute six because you indicated you want to bend her ass over and give her backshots. You have to feel that out with her.

My game is actually slow...like a boa constrictor...but it probably works on 75% of the women that are feeling me if the timing is right.