Need assistance diciphering this text

[satireprod]

Yea, I just got off the phone with her. She said she has no appetite, she drank only coffee and no water smh. And here I'm thinking its me

Nah man it'll have you walking around like a zombie, just all spaced out on everything else in life.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

kill her

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

the backstory on this is my girl studying for a bar exam, I'm been basically living with her for the past 3 months. It just so happen I got some business to handle this past weekend at my own house so it worked out well that had that going on and I won't be disturbing her. Now we both ate dinner and left dishes in her sink ( a dinner I cooked the night before) and left to go home for the weekend and now she is pissed about me not washing the dishes. She sends me this text


Saturday morning 8:37 AM

Her: Its cool. At the end of the day I have to realize its my place and nobody has to do anything if they don't want to. And I'm not being fresh about it. That's just truth

Me: (No reply)

Saturday morning @ 9:20 AM ...

Her: Im about to go offline until late tonight. Then going offline again until Monday. Just wanted to encourage to you to xxxxx xxxx. Have a good day.

Me: (No reply)

Sunday morning@ 10:38 AM


Her: Good morning. Took a break from studying. Became overwhelmed.

Me: Hey. Good morning.

The next sequence of events were missed phone calls from her today @ 3:11PM, 3:52 PM, 3:53 PM and I called her back @ 4:26 PM to which we had an awkward conversation. She asked why I didn't call her and why didn't I pick up the phone. I told her I didn't call because she said she was going offline until Monday and was studying plus my phone was on the charger and I was not expecting her to call me. Now she tight and we ended the conversation. Did I do something wrong? I think her attitude is unnecessary, its not like I don't cleanup after myself or help out while over her place.








@agnosticlady

what happened to wifey?

 

[skeetsinternal]

what happened to wifey?

This is current wifey....or u mean the 24 yr old Jamaican woman, if so then we on in limbo (long story) in the interim I found my Oprah, another long story

 

[Tunez]

Just wash the dishes next time

 

[skeetsinternal]

Just wash the dishes next time

at the end of the day its her house tho like she said........my bad, the old me said that, you right, she been real good to me...you right

 

[DontDoIt]

she said she was going offline until Monday and was "studying"

You share that girl.

No studies of any kind require you to "go offline" for a weekend in a relationship.

 

[skeetsinternal]

You share that girl.

No studies of any kind require you to "go offline" for a weekend in a relationship.

I highly doubt that but its funny hearing you coli nikkas say it, I say it sometimes to dudes on here. She already knows I'm not that dude

 

[DontDoIt]

I highly doubt that but its funny hearing you coli nikkas say it, I say it sometimes to dudes on here. She already knows I'm not that dude

I hope she's not going to law school in Florida.

Pretty early for someone to be secluding themselves from the outside world for an exam months away.

 

[skeetsinternal]

I hope she's not going to law school in Florida.

Pretty early for someone to be secluding themselves from the outside world for an exam months away.

NY, for Feb 2016

 

[Bilz]

Girls don't really speak in direct language like guys do. Her complaint about the dishes probably had nothing to do with the dishes themselves. I am thinking she is feeling you're not paying attention to her and she just wanted something to complain about something so she could get an apology or some kind of acknowledgment. Ignoring her next two texts and then immediately responding to the third probably didn't help that.

 

[skeetsinternal]

Girls don't really speak in direct language like guys do. Her complaint about the dishes probably had nothing to do with the dishes themselves. I am thinking she is feeling you're not paying attention to her and she just wanted something to complain about something so she could get an apology or some kind of acknowledgment. Ignoring her next two texts and then immediately responding to the third probably didn't help that.

you might be on to something. I'm here texting her right now and this whole day's ordeal is morphing into something else right now ...she is real chatty via text only and I am chatty more than usual....now she telling me she lost some registration info and she feels sick...

 

[Bilz]

you might be on to something. I'm here texting her right now and this whole day's ordeal is morphing into something else right now ...she is real chatty via text only and I am chatty more than usual....now she telling me she lost some registration info and she feels sick...

Yeah I'd say she's just stressed and it's messing with her hormones. Talking to her will probably bring things back to normal.

 

[Turbulent]

She could often go offline to study

but often women use silence or announcements of their impending unavailability to elicit a certain response from a man. She wanted him to "act like he cared".

Yeah that was what I was thinking. I think it was her way of trying to start a conversation since the first text about her talking about dishes was unanswered. Then the next text about taking a break from studying was another way of trying to start another conversation. Something like an open ended question, but not a question.

this stuff is really giving me a headache.
in other words, her saying she is not available to talk is her way of starting a convo...

the funny thing is i used to be pretty good at maneuvering these codes. and while i'm still decent at understanding them, i don't know what happened to me but i lost all patience for this type of stuff. i feel like those are games being played. granted ignoring the first text about the dishes wasn't the coolest thing, i still feel like just because i understand what someone is trying to do, doesn't mean i should play along and enable her. i understand you most likely will both compromise at some point but this is something i feel less and less like compromising on (clear communications). i think i'd rather be single.