Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

People try me all day...let me correct that...men try me all day.

We have extra positions at work that we sometimes use. We call these people "helpers." I have a strict policy on helpers based on volume. I have had the same policy for YEARS. My boss hits me up and asked me what my plan for helpers because we are running 3 helpers every day?



Monday to Friday I had a total of 3 helpers. On Saturday (when he supervises) he had 3 in one day. I'm like we don't have 3 helpers during the week. YOU are the only one running 3 helpers. Then he's like...oh okay that's perfect.



I wanted to ask him "So what's your plan?"

My work ex husband's boss tried me yesterday too. A piece of our equipment accident grazed the drivers side mirror of one of their vehicles. It literally barely bumped it and mind you, this vehicle is raggedy as fukk and this sort of thing happens all the time.

This man starts trying to yell at me. nikka I do not work for you...let me remind you. My boss is annoying but he would never dare yell at me. We don't do that shyt period.

This man is literally twice my size but Idc. I walk straight past him and the rest of his team and look him dead in the eyes and tell him there is no damage to his van but if he feels so sort away about he can talk to the owner of the company (my boss).

Then I walk right back up to the vehicle take pictures of the mirror and the plates and look at him and say "In case you wanna lie" and walked away.

He was flabbergasted. It's funny how quick men are to disrespect women but act shocked when they get that same energy back. I'm sure he's going to snitch to my work husband and tell him to come talk to me. I will let him know his boss needs to watch his mumble mouth and he will be the same energy back every time.

Mind you this same company has a PHOTOCOPY of a license plate on one of their vehicles.



I would never.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I am reading through my posts in here over the last week.



I'm so fukking theatrically dramatic. My posts have so much energy. I talk just like that too. Hilarious. I am hilarious.

 

[Selena]

Just got back from Maui and them Hawaiian men
I was with bae but if I ever become single again I know where I'm going first

Anyways it was so beautiful & relaxing - just what I needed. Woke up every morning seeing the ocean straight from my bed

Also I love us. Of course there were only a few of us I saw the entire time especially at my hotel, but anytime we saw another black couple we'd stop and talk with them. They was happy as hell to see more black people/couple too

I'd highly recommend Maui. Can't wait to go again (might go solo next time) and also want to eventually check out O'ahu (Honolulu) & the Big Island.

 

[Selena]

I am reading through my posts in here over the last week.



I'm so fukking theatrically dramatic. My posts have so much energy. I talk just like that too. Hilarious. I am hilarious.

I've been cracking up reading them just now

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I've been cracking up reading them just now

These people are wild and I'm right in there with them.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

My work husband never said anything to me about his boss or vehicle. Good thing because I was ready.

I have a new plot that's been getting my energy so I haven't spent much time in the office. Haven't seen him too much. Trying to be easy on hanging around each other. I don't want people to think anything is actually going on with him.

BUT I got wind of a roamer that this other company I am very familiar with and that he use to work for is coming to our building. I'm nosy and have a lot of free time so I ask him about it.

We're professionally shooting the shyt and he randomly changes the subject:

WH: A good looking dude will always have a woman's coach to lay on.

Me:

WH: But a man can't let a woman take care of him like that. He'll be abused and emasculated all day.

Me: (Now I see he's still not over that KS conversation...okay I'm up for some trolling. Let's do this. I still haven't said anything. I'm letting him say his little speech.)

WH: She'll have you washing dishes and in the kitchen baking cookies with an apron on. That will never be me. Lol

Me: I mean...if he'll laying in the house all day he should have his ass in the kitchen

WH: See that's what I'm talking about!

Me: What’s wrong with men cooking? I love men who cook.

WH: Women only want men who can cook when they can't cook!

Me: GUILTY

WH: Well if I gotta cook then you gotta do the yard work and take out the trash. (Are we negotiating? I'm confused. Lol)

Me: I can pay someone do that. I pay someone to do that now.

WH:

Me: I mean you can pay for the food too. I'm not picky about it.

WH:

_____________________

Gonna have to do better than that buddy. Go back to the sexist drawing board and try again. Lol

Dude is trying to plan our life together and I am being uncooperative. Lol

We have the same job my nikka, and I be giving YOU tips. There is no logical reason that I'm going to do all that and then come home and bust my ass in the kitchen...da faq? I eat out every day and pay someone to do yard work NOW. Why would I give myself more labor b/c you're around. He just moved into a new apartment. He doesn't even have a yard.

These nikkas just be saying anything.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You knows what's funny? I've had women (around 5) ask me, directly and indirectly, why do men like me like that? How do you get certain type of men? etc. All while looking confused as hell.



I don't even get offended by it. I understand the question and where it comes from. The friend who I posted about a few weeks ago is one of those people. She scanned me up and down like the Terminator on some "Why do they like your silly ass?" and just asked me directly.

Most try to make it a looks thing. It's part of it (you can't be ugly) but I'm not overly beautiful or anything.

Here's the formula:

Men who are successful, desirable, driven, whatever etc. like a challenge

A common theme I encounter when dating is:

"I like you. I like the way you look. I like your personality. I like the way you make me feel...however I need you to sit your ass down and do what I tell you to do."



Just like my work husband is trying to get me to do. Story of my dating life.

It's about the challenge. Most women will drop everything for a chance to be with a decent dude.

I'll tell a man quick "Nah I'm not with that but I can hook you up with my homegirl though."

That shyt sends them through the roof.

"How dare you not want me!!! All the bytches want me!!" LOL

Had a guy ask me once why I wasn't pregnant yet because every woman he ever deals with wants his baby. Da faq? I told him I have NO desire to be pregnant by him.

Had a model dude tell me I was crazy for not wanting him. He then proceeded to come to my house and pose for me. He said "Look at me! You don't see this?"



He did look good as hell though but I still sent his ass back to the runway.

These men just wanna tame the lion so they can put her in a cage and show her off to the world like "Look what I did."

It's some scum bag shyt.

That shyt is not cute to me and I really don't understand why women run towards men who feel that way.

So it's just about tamimg the beast...I have yet to be domesticated though.

The moral to the story is, if you want better men or better treatment from men or more acknowledgement from the men/man you want, stop being an easy kill.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

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