You knows what's funny? I've had women (around 5) ask me, directly and indirectly, why do men like me like that? How do you get certain type of men? etc. All while looking confused as hell.
I don't even get offended by it. I understand the question and where it comes from. The friend who I posted about a few weeks ago is one of those people. She scanned me up and down like the Terminator on some "Why do they like your silly ass?" and just asked me directly.
Most try to make it a looks thing. It's part of it (you can't be ugly) but I'm not overly beautiful or anything.
Here's the formula:
Men who are successful, desirable, driven, whatever etc. like a challenge
A common theme I encounter when dating is:
"I like you. I like the way you look. I like your personality. I like the way you make me feel...however I need you to sit your ass down and do what I tell you to do."
Just like my work husband is trying to get me to do. Story of my dating life.
It's about the challenge. Most women will drop everything for a chance to be with a decent dude.
I'll tell a man quick "Nah I'm not with that but I can hook you up with my homegirl though."
That shyt sends them through the roof.
"How dare you not want me!!! All the bytches want me!!" LOL
Had a guy ask me once why I wasn't pregnant yet because every woman he ever deals with wants his baby. Da faq? I told him I have NO desire to be pregnant by him.
Had a model dude tell me I was crazy for not wanting him. He then proceeded to come to my house and pose for me. He said "Look at me! You don't see this?"
He did look good as hell though but I still sent his ass back to the runway.
These men just wanna tame the lion so they can put her in a cage and show her off to the world like "Look what I did."
It's some scum bag shyt.
That shyt is not cute to me and I really don't understand why women run towards men who feel that way.
So it's just about tamimg the beast...I have yet to be domesticated though.
The moral to the story is, if you want better men or better treatment from men or more acknowledgement from the men/man you want, stop being an easy kill.
(Now I see he's still not over that KS conversation...okay I'm up for some trolling. Let's do this. I still haven't said anything. I'm letting him say his little speech.)
