Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[The Electric Lady]

Girl I feel you on the black. Picked up some black Levi's with those reds. Never too much black in my house. Lets me embrace my inner punker chick.

 

[innocentdevil]

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TIyQnue8v7U]Miguel - How Many Drinks [Remix] feat. Kendrick Lamar - YouTube[/ame]

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[muse]

Miguel - How Many Drinks [Remix] feat. Kendrick Lamar - YouTube

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thank you for reminding me about this

 

[SouthernBelle]

A week and a half away from Miami

 

[Rawtid]

Happy Friday Wimmenz!! Jesus be a midol.

I never get period cramps but fatigue and sore breasts are always my number 1 symptoms. I could sleep for 32 hours ad still wake up tired. My already heavy breast feel like two bricks sitting 'pon my chest and it's raining *sigh*

-I hate to see men bytching about being lonely and not having a woman to cuddle with in the rain. Man up 300 times, my nikka.

-I'm going to a mall tomorrow...well it's like an outlet mall but it's huge. The new casino is also very close to this mall so it's always 50 billion people there. I don't want to go but my daughter needs clothes for warm weather and I'd rather go there where I have at least 10 children's clothing stores to choose from rather than having to travel from mall to mall to find what I want.

-I need an oil change

 

[CoolazzFemale]

Had plans to get up and do somethings.
Yet i have realized that i need to take advantage of rest.
Only have $1660 left on my car.
Wish i had some foodstamps.

 

[HoustonHeat]

My dude got a great paying contract job that he decided to accept, BUT it is all the way over in Norfolk, VA. He wants to live in Virginia Beach though. He moves in less than 2 weeks - right before my bday

Funemployment is about to be over and long distance relationship is about to start for about 12 months. Anything ya'll can tell me about visiting Virginia Beach/Norfolk? What would it be like for a middle class, 30 year old black man? What is the shopping like? I love DC and see that it is a 3 hour drive, but from the little I've googled, I'm not crazy about this southern part of Virginia.

 

[Darts]

My dude got a great paying contract job that he decided to accept, BUT it is all the way over in Norfolk, VA. He wants to live in Virginia Beach though. He moves in less than 2 weeks - right before my bday

Funemployment is about to be over and long distance relationship is about to start for about 12 months. Anything ya'll can tell me about visiting Virginia Beach/Norfolk? What would it be like for a middle class, 30 year old black man? What is the shopping like? I love DC and see that it is a 3 hour drive, but from the little I've googled, I'm not crazy about this southern part of Virginia.

there's no such thing as a 'successful' long distance relationship. Either come to terms with that L right now or move with dude.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

My dude got a great paying contract job that he decided to accept, BUT it is all the way over in Norfolk, VA. He wants to live in Virginia Beach though. He moves in less than 2 weeks - right before my bday

Funemployment is about to be over and long distance relationship is about to start for about 12 months. Anything ya'll can tell me about visiting Virginia Beach/Norfolk? What would it be like for a middle class, 30 year old black man? What is the shopping like? I love DC and see that it is a 3 hour drive, but from the little I've googled, I'm not crazy about this southern part of Virginia.

aye-
i know this the ladies thread n shyt

but i have a lil insight
i was stationed in Norfolk in a NATO unit

there are mad thirsty Navy and Air Force women
tell that nikka he cant go to no clubs

i lived in Chesapeake
VA Beach is overpriced and the traffic is horrible
aint too much to do but Clubs

there is also a military swinger's club and a Black Swinger group there

Military Circle mall got all the women and dykes in $200 jeans

if u go to Newport News stay away from the lower digit streets

you will get raped and or robbed in Portsmouth

 

[Rawtid]

there's no such thing as a 'successful' long term relationship. Either come to terms with that L right now or move with dude.

I give up on yall today.

 

[Darts]

I give up on yall today.

oops my bad. typo, I meant long distance :p:


and I stand by that.

 

[HoustonHeat]

there's no such thing as a 'successful' long term relationship. Either come to terms with that L right now or move with dude.

We are about to celebrate our 9 year anniversary this fall, we did long distance for 4 years before and I enjoyed it. I'm not moving for a temporary gig that has an expiration date, I have a good paying career here (more than him) and I have to take care of his fam here. He wants me to visit monthly though, and I need ideas for fun things to do up there besides driving to DC. The beach looks

aye-
i know this the ladies thread n shyt

but i have a lil insight
i was stationed in Norfolk in a NATO unit

there are mad thirsty Navy and Air Force women
tell that nikka he cant go to no clubs

i lived in Chesapeake
VA Beach is overpriced and the traffic is horrible
aint too much to do but Clubs

there is also a military swinger's club and a Black Swinger group there

Military Circle mall got all the women and dykes in $200 jeans

if u go to Newport News stay away from the lower digit streets

you will get raped and or robbed in Portsmouth

I appreciate the response. I feel like VA beach is overpriced too, and I read about the traffic. His friends told him that Norfolk (where the job is) crime rates are too high and he is worried about his car being broken into so he is looking in other areas. There's gotta be a better option he can stay within Norfolk, right?

 

[Rawtid]

oops my bad. typo, I meant long distance :p:


and I stand by that.

It wasn't the typo that I was talking about, it was the ridiculousness that NO long distance relationship can be successful. You can stand by whatever you want, but I'm still going to need you to have a seat thinking that.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

I've known a few people that have had successful long-distance relationships (the couples are all married now).

It all depends on the individuals involved; if they want to make it work, they will

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

We are about to celebrate our 9 year anniversary this fall, we did long distance for 4 years before and I enjoyed it. I'm not moving for a temporary gig that has an expiration date, I have a good paying career here (more than him) and I have to take care of his fam here. He wants me to visit monthly though, and I need ideas for fun things to do up there besides driving to DC. The beach looks



I appreciate the response. I feel like VA beach is overpriced too, and I read about the traffic. His friends told him that Norfolk (where the job is) crime rates are too high and he is worried about his car being broken into so he is looking in other areas. There's gotta be a better option he can stay within Norfolk, right?

yo please tell him to not even think of staying in Norfolk
my homeboy had an apt there and they broke into it 3 times

the 3rd time they even took his family portraits off the wall

I think Chesapeake is the best area- it is not that far away and you dont have to deal with the tunnel--- no crime- decent mall

Hampton is cool too but you have to cross the tunnel and the traffic at time is

VA Beach has some crime- alot of the gangs go there to do initiations(shooting out car windshields, slashing tires) but the traffic man shyt is not worth it

I had a huge 3bdr 2bathroom apt in Chesapeake for $1375