Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[Token]

Wow. I just spent an hour typing up whatever thought popped into my head, and I've come to the conclusion that I'm a horrible person. Bitter as hell and ain't eem know it. Ehh, I feel less angry now tho. That's nice.

 

[ThiefyPoo]

@BonitaChelz

 

[swimmingpools]

I think I have an accent fetish or some kind of voice kink. when I hear someone with a nice voice I picture them saying all sorts of stuff that would make the filthiest rappers blush. My mind, man.. And dont let them be attractive. smh

 

[HarlemsOwn]

Wow. I just spent an hour typing up whatever thought popped into my head, and I've come to the conclusion that I'm a horrible person. Bitter as hell and ain't eem know it. Ehh, I feel less angry now tho. That's nice.

post it

 

[BellaVenus]

Made a separate tumblr for the coli ----> thoughtsbybella.tumblr.com

In other news, I think its time to update my avi since the site is newly renovated & all.

bytches still be hating though

 

[PutMeOn]

How do I get my man back?
We had a bad break up and got into a fight. He said he's done with me and it's over. I still love him and want to be with him. It's been 3 weeks no contact. Help

 

[PutMeOn]

How do I get my man back?
We had a bad break up and got into a fight. He said he's done with me and it's over. I still love him and want to be with him. It's been 3 weeks no contact. Help

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

Bad enough this MacBook makes me feel all kinds of retarded. Logging on to the newness of the site, I might need a speshol helmet.Edit: Where are the groups? Logged on to get some music and I can't find nada

 

[Seea]

Reach out. If there's still no response you should really just give him his space. If he's over the relationship there's no point in begging;

 

[PutMeOn]

Reach out. If there's still no response you should really just give him his space. If he's over the relationship there's no point in begging;

He answers but he limits our convos to under 5 mins. I really don't know what to say to him or how to get him to agree to meet with me. I know once we get face to face I can win him over. I don't want to beg him but even know he was wrong for cheating, I know I messed up too.

 

[Seea]

He answers but he limits our convos to under 5 mins. I really don't know what to say to him or how to get him to agree to meet with me. I know once we get face to face I can win him over. I don't want to beg him but even know he was wrong for cheating, I know I messed up too.

You can't get him to do anything. All you can do is ask. The rest is up to him, whether he acknowledges his wrongs or not. Just because you can see your errors doesn't mean he's interested in owning up to his. That's something you'll have to consider in the meantime.

 

[Token]

post it

Uhhhh I can't do that sir.

 

[PutMeOn]

You can't get him to do anything. All you can do is ask. The rest is up to him, whether he acknowledges his wrongs or not. Just because you can see your errors doesn't mean he's interested in owning up to his. That's something you'll have to consider in the meantime.

How much time is enough space? We've gone three weeks the most without talking, after finding out he cheated on me. It's been 3 weeks now and I hate being apart this long.

 

[Seea]

How much time is enough space? We've gone three weeks the most without talking, after finding out he cheated on me. It's been 3 weeks now and I hate being apart this long.

You're better off trying to focus on other things. If he wants to come around he will. But it really might be over. It's out of your control tbh.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

I wanna try that tresseme naturals conditioner. My hair is too kinky/curly for all this other bullshyt