Fashion Nova is so disrespectful.
Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)
Less than 2 weeks to go.
I feel so much better today. It's like a weight lifted off my shoulders.
I was contemplating female leadership today.
As a woman in a leadership position, I can say that I think where most women go wrong is they try to emulate men or their idea of men.
I find that acknowledging the fact that you're a woman actually is a better management strategy. Men follow women pretty well as long as you stay respectful, are fair and consistent and make yourself relatable; just not sexually available. Your energy shouldn't be too available either.
Women go wrong trying to be aggressive. Most men are not aggressive like that so idk why women do that. It's annoying. And most men will respond to aggression with aggression.
My team is mostly men and currently pushing over a hundred people.
My leadership rating has been over 95% for 3 years straight.
I don't pretend to be one of the guys. I position myself more as an advocate, or a mom like figure than a boss. That seems to be very effective.
Many have started calling me "Boss Lady." It's cute. I like it.
Back to highlighting the differences, I will do things like ask them to lift things for me or directly tell them that they are physically more capable than I am. Now I don't even ask, they just help me with any little task they can.
I also cover up or over look their BS if it suits me.
yolo
As a woman in a leadership position, I can say that I think where most women go wrong is they try to emulate men or their idea of men.
I find that acknowledging the fact that you're a woman actually is a better management strategy. Men follow women pretty well as long as you stay respectful, are fair and consistent and make yourself relatable; just not sexually available. Your energy shouldn't be too available either.
Women go wrong trying to be aggressive. Most men are not aggressive like that so idk why women do that. It's annoying. And most men will respond to aggression with aggression.
My team is mostly men and currently pushing over a hundred people.
My leadership rating has been over 95% for 3 years straight.
I don't pretend to be one of the guys. I position myself more as an advocate, or a mom like figure than a boss. That seems to be very effective.
Many have started calling me "Boss Lady." It's cute. I like it.
Back to highlighting the differences, I will do things like ask them to lift things for me or directly tell them that they are physically more capable than I am. Now I don't even ask, they just help me with any little task they can.
I also cover up or over look their BS if it suits me.
yolo
<<<<< how I feel
This chick is begging to hang with me and be apart of my social circle, but all she ever does is embarrass herself and run her fukking mouth.
Begging me to give her information on a man who's not interested in her. Go the fukk away. I don't do pathetic and desperate. People might think i'm like you. I can't have that. Nah uh.
I tried to give her a second chance and see keeps doing mad stupid shyt because she has no life. I can't.
You're not cool enough to hang with me, ma'am.
Begging me to give her information on a man who's not interested in her. Go the fukk away. I don't do pathetic and desperate. People might think i'm like you. I can't have that. Nah uh.
I tried to give her a second chance and see keeps doing mad stupid shyt because she has no life. I can't.
You're not cool enough to hang with me, ma'am.
My team fukked up today...like bad. Nothing I couldn't fixed but damn. I fixed like 5 major issues in 1 hour but they just can't stay organized in the most simplistic system.
Makes me not even wanna decorate for Christmas frfr.
Makes me not even wanna decorate for Christmas frfr.
Turtleneck are so flattering
Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
My coworker of ten years died last week. He was buried on Tuesday. He was forty. I turn forty in a few weeks so it’s hitting hard.
I’m going to tell you about his Wife. I’ll try to keep it short and concise. Please tell me what you think about the way she is moving. My Wife and I have a working theory. Here we go.
Sam (my coworker) was dropping his daughter off to FAMU for her first semester of college. That day he passed out. He was in a coma ever since until he passed.
When his brother died last year, his whole family had rest in peace on their social. He’s pretty tight with his family who seems to be based in the DMV area. Nothing has been posted about him. The funeral home posted his obituary. My Wife sent it to me and I saw it. Maybe four hours later it went down. After he passed, she deleted her FB, his FB and his instagram. She posted nothing regarding his condition (being in a coma for four months). She had his phone and didn’t message any of us who knew him for 10-16 years. We were all reaching out since he fell into a coma. One of our guys found out through a family member of his that he was in a coma and told all of us about two weeks ago.
I know and realize grieving, dealing with his condition, taking care of minor children, providing with one salary down and everything else takes its toll. She owes us nothing. She technically owes his family nothing as well.
I pray she finds peace through it all. He is finally in the ground and she can move forward. I don’t know if she pulled the plug or he naturally died but I cant imagine being in her position.
Why do you ladies think she moved the way she did with the limited info you have?
@HarlemHottie
@dora_da_destroyer
@Gloxina
@Yinny
@bourgeoisie tall freak
@Boujee Bonita Braxton
@Selena
@LadyJ2
@CinnaSlim
@Milk N Cookies
@colicolicoli
Sorry black pearl. I can’t tag you.
I’m going to tell you about his Wife. I’ll try to keep it short and concise. Please tell me what you think about the way she is moving. My Wife and I have a working theory. Here we go.
Sam (my coworker) was dropping his daughter off to FAMU for her first semester of college. That day he passed out. He was in a coma ever since until he passed.
When his brother died last year, his whole family had rest in peace on their social. He’s pretty tight with his family who seems to be based in the DMV area. Nothing has been posted about him. The funeral home posted his obituary. My Wife sent it to me and I saw it. Maybe four hours later it went down. After he passed, she deleted her FB, his FB and his instagram. She posted nothing regarding his condition (being in a coma for four months). She had his phone and didn’t message any of us who knew him for 10-16 years. We were all reaching out since he fell into a coma. One of our guys found out through a family member of his that he was in a coma and told all of us about two weeks ago.
I know and realize grieving, dealing with his condition, taking care of minor children, providing with one salary down and everything else takes its toll. She owes us nothing. She technically owes his family nothing as well.
I pray she finds peace through it all. He is finally in the ground and she can move forward. I don’t know if she pulled the plug or he naturally died but I cant imagine being in her position.
Why do you ladies think she moved the way she did with the limited info you have?
@HarlemHottie
@dora_da_destroyer
@Gloxina
@Yinny
@bourgeoisie tall freak
@Boujee Bonita Braxton
@Selena
@LadyJ2
@CinnaSlim
@Milk N Cookies
@colicolicoli
Sorry black pearl. I can’t tag you.
My coworker of ten years died last week. He was buried on Tuesday. He was forty. I turn forty in a few weeks so it’s hitting hard.
I’m going to tell you about his Wife. I’ll try to keep it short and concise. Please tell me what you think about the way she is moving. My Wife and I have a working theory. Here we go.
Sam (my coworker) was dropping his daughter off to FAMU for her first semester of college. That day he passed out. He was in a coma ever since until he passed.
When his brother died last year, his whole family had rest in peace on their social. He’s pretty tight with his family who seems to be based in the DMV area. Nothing has been posted about him. The funeral home posted his obituary. My Wife sent it to me and I saw it. Maybe four hours later it went down. After he passed, she deleted her FB, his FB and his instagram. She posted nothing regarding his condition (being in a coma for four months). She had his phone and didn’t message any of us who knew him for 10-16 years. We were all reaching out since he fell into a coma. One of our guys found out through a family member of his that he was in a coma and told all of us about two weeks ago.
I know and realize grieving, dealing with his condition, taking care of minor children, providing with one salary down and everything else takes its toll. She owes us nothing. She technically owes his family nothing as well.
I pray she finds peace through it all. He is finally in the ground and she can move forward. I don’t know if she pulled the plug or he naturally died but I cant imagine being in her position.
Why do you ladies think she moved the way she did with the limited info you have?
@HarlemHottie
@dora_da_destroyer
@Gloxina
@Yinny
@bourgeoisie tall freak
@Boujee Bonita Braxton
@Selena
@LadyJ2
@CinnaSlim
@Milk N Cookies
@colicolicoli
Sorry black pearl. I can’t tag you.
My condolences on the loss of your friend.
As for her, everyone grieves differently. I have experienced the loss of loved ones but never a spouse or significant other (while together anyway) but I can imagine that it’s traumatic for her. With that being said, deleting all of their socials and not reaching out to anyone about his condition is rather odd to say the least. I don’t know why she would shut everyone out but I don’t want to speculate too much. I hope she finds peace though.