Question for the older brothers...
- Thread starter murksiderock
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You should be talking to your BM about ways ya’ll can finesse the old head
Be careful young blood
What he’s saying is the cold hard reality of it though. There’s a ton of dudes in their 40s who like the rush or ego boost of pulling a much younger chick- circumstances don’t matter; that’s what your there for - to take care of the kids, house, etc. He’s there to have fun while your in the house, playing House. She’s actually going on dates with him, while you are home??
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
Most of these nikkas were raised by females.
god shamgod
Veteran
you asked this question in your op and I told you what he wants with your baby moms. That’s relevant , the rest some dear diary bullshyt.
murksiderock
Superstar
Lotta reaching in here, sis. I'm not caught up in her on the intimate emotional level to be bothered by her seeing someone else. This thread was mostly for insight on why she feels it pertinent to share shyt with me and what he would be interested beyond just an easy smash, which is what I suspect and have suggested anyway...
Yeah, I think they've been out. That doesn't bother me, though. My perspective is different fam, I'm not "playing house" if I'm home with my daughters, that's not exactly an activity I don't enjoy. But I respect other people may look at it differently!
I think that you convinced yourself that this is not the case, when your actions and words speak different. Why would you care about who she’s smashing and the reasons why, if there is no emotional attachment or connection. Your first thoughts need to be on getting your own place for you and your daughter. The rest of that is extraneous.
this here. I can’t speak to what he may see in her, but if you just read the threads on here you’ll find alotta these same dudes talking about they’ll be able to get younger women when they’re older.
just focus on you children and getting your own space.
Hes 41, but probably not an old head.. My cousin that age, wit 2 nice cars, motorcycle, nice crib, and one of the strongest dudes in the gym. Plus looks younger. A mans rotation can have a few young chicks and girls around his age. Ya girl just in the rotation, and she's rubbin this in your face, because she feels like she won. She'll tryin come back, when she realizes nobody really want her ass tho
I'm 41
I often meet a lot of young women in their 20s who are attracted to me. I used to wonder what they see in older men but I think I get it now. They want the stability off an older man. They THINK an older breh is less likely to cheat or if he had other women they're are some immature wild or disrespectful shyt he won't do like their younger counterparts.
Some older brehs i know are dating younger women and are serious about them. As in they date them seriously and might even marry'em and know if they have a kid together their seeds will have a young mother to look after them long after they themselves are gone. Some it's just another chick you fukking to pass the time. Every now and them you need that injection of youth into the roster as the older women on the roster start to get on your nerves with all their yapping and demands.
Personally, I've been fukking this 27 year old for over a year now. She was 26 when we met. Good p*ssy, head game on steroids, could ride a dikk like nothing I've ever seen, and has an IUD so I be skeeting all up in her.
I know I should know better... I knowBut she super fun and cute, tho. That's my little homey
Low maintenance, talks a lot but doesn't talk my ear off about bullshyt like most women my age. She's hilariously funny tho. and could easily be a standup comedian. She comes over. We fukk. She goes home. Sometimes she'll be stressed at her job and will tell me to stop by her job and get a blowjob in the parking lot. Every now and then we'll link up for drinks and/or dinner or something but no expectations of commitment and all that bullshyt. Doesnt make any demands. She just happy to hang and have fun. I am sure she probably fukking someone else but we never discuss it. + She's bisexual and very into women too.
But again, i love her because she's just a fun person to be around. Cusses like a sailor but will have you laughing from the minute she walks in the room until she grabs the dikk and puts it in her mouth. Really only way she shuts up.
nikkaz always asking what does an older man see in a younger woman...
nikka... what u think.
And like u said, if u got a roster... u definitely need some variety. And the younger females give a different energy.
colicolicoli
Droid Gang
I went through something similar (living with an ex until the lease up).
I don’t think it mattered much to men as much as I thought it would, but I had only a few months left on the lease and I’m good looking.
He may just want sex, he might be happy being able to pull a 25 year old at his age and don’t care about the living situation cause it’s only a few months left. I can’t call it.
I don’t think it mattered much to men as much as I thought it would, but I had only a few months left on the lease and I’m good looking.
He may just want sex, he might be happy being able to pull a 25 year old at his age and don’t care about the living situation cause it’s only a few months left. I can’t call it.
murksiderock
Superstar
I mean I know the physicality part is what an older cat would like, I didn't think I had to spell out for the board that I get that and I was talking besides that...
You're around that age bro, speaking fir yourself, besides obvious easy ass, what would be the appeal in a 25 year old who lives with her kids dad?
OP.... I'm having the same convo with my homeboy. My main guy. Hes going thru a divorce.
I'm like nikka....why is you still talking to her.
Not saying you gotta be mean, or make living in the house terrible.
But gott damn...
In a relationship, priorities are different for the man and woman.
Men naturally prioritize having consistent p*ssy at arms reach, when needed.
Women prioritize having someone to give them their needed attention at any given moment.
So if ur not in a relationship anymore.
And shes not giving u p*ssy.
Why are u still giving her attention.
Let her go talk to them 41yr old bro...
Leave me alone
I'm like nikka....why is you still talking to her.
Not saying you gotta be mean, or make living in the house terrible.
But gott damn...
In a relationship, priorities are different for the man and woman.
Men naturally prioritize having consistent p*ssy at arms reach, when needed.
Women prioritize having someone to give them their needed attention at any given moment.
So if ur not in a relationship anymore.
And shes not giving u p*ssy.
Why are u still giving her attention.
Let her go talk to them 41yr old bro...
Leave me alone
murksiderock
Superstar
Bruh, the 41 year old boyfriend doesn't bother me. I keep telling people that in here and cats are tone deaf, I explicitly said that she keeps bringing dude up to me----->not the other way around...
So because I keep hearing about him, I asked what yall thought about it. That's it, I'm not upset with her. She asked me if I thought it was real, I told her I didn't think so, and she went in on me for "not knowing what I'm talking about" even though she keeps running shyt by me...
Last night I told her to stop talking to me about dude, we'll see if she listens...