Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Let that young girl go live her life man. Find a woman closer to your age. A woman that's 26, 27, 28 is right at the cusp of not being too bitter and jaded but, experienced enough to know it's slim pickings out there. She's gonna appreciate finding a good man.


A woman that's 19, 20, 21 has the luxury of not having to give a fukk about that yet. She can't stop thinking about how much she's missing out on staying with your old azz. You Coli cats stay worried about getting the girl that got ran through. And that's a concern. But trying to tame a young woman is just as stupid.
 

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I'm trying to be the voice of reason, he's always been naive and submissive though, throughout his relationships. 'Why would she want to break up if she says she loves me, and wants to stay together'? I said because she does, and maybe it's just as hard for her to break up and be honest about it, as it is for you to hear it....I'm telling him get ready to let her go, she says she wants to 'rekindle their relationship' like it when they first dated....I said that doesn't sound like a reasonable or like actual goal you can accomplish, you can't artificially replicate falling in love with someone, and I told him, she wants that experience with OTHER/NEW people, because she's only got to experience it with YOU and maybe one other...it's rough and it might hurt, but don't cling to her, let her go, love her that much. Let her fall in love, get her heartbroken, experiment with sex/drugs, because it's unfair to ask her to give up her 20's for you. He's flabby, frail, and sick right now...girl is his life. He doesn't want to tell his family or hers, because 'it would upset them', I said it's because you want to deny it's real, and telling others makes it too real...Your girl moved out, and she will move on.
 

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I'm trying to be the voice of reason, he's always been naive and submissive though, throughout his relationships. 'Why would she want to break up if she says she loves me, and wants to stay together'? I said because she does, and maybe it's just as hard for her to break up and be honest about it, as it is for you to hear it....I'm telling him get ready to let her go, she says she wants to 'rekindle their relationship' like it when they first dated....I said that doesn't sound like a reasonable or like actual goal you can accomplish, you can't artificially replicate falling in love with someone, and I told him, she wants that experience with OTHER/NEW people, because she's only got to experience it with YOU and maybe one other...it's rough and it might hurt, but don't cling to her, let her go, love her that much. Let her fall in love, get her heartbroken, experiment with sex/drugs, because it's unfair to ask her to give up her 20's for you. He's flabby, frail, and sick right now...girl is his life. He doesn't want to tell his family or hers, because 'it would upset them', I said it's because you want to deny it's real, and telling others makes it too real...Your girl moved out, and she will move on.
your friend doesn't want to be saved breh...let him learn on his time.
 

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It's always annoying to hear that "so where are we going with this" talk from a chick you're messing with. Buuuut, I'm also learning that if you never get that talk, she only sees you as a fling.

I met this older woman(she's 31, I'm 25) at an outdoor concert back on July 4. Extremely laid-back and just had an overall chill vibe about her. she let me hit it after the third date. from there we entered something that I guess wasn't quite a relationship, but def had more depth than jumpoff territory. like we still went out to places together and I genuinely enjoyed her company even when we weren't having sex.

that whole time I was wondering when the inevitable, "so where are we going with this?" question would come, but it never came, which was cool with me. but I'm not even gonna front, I started to see her as someone I could possibly build something with. she was extremely chill, never dramatic, very smart, no kids and was just a cool person to be around. so while I wasn't gonna straight up ask her "will you be my girlfriend," I was ready to act more "boyfriendish" in my actions(take her out on more formal dates, call her more often, etc). but just as I was about to do that, she starting to ignore my calls and was always "busy" when I tried to make plans.

I was legit :dwillhuh: cuz she never gave me any signs she was angry at me. but when I told my boy about the situation he was like, "she just saw you as a fling, especially with you being so much younger, the fact that ya'll were fukkin and she never asked for any type of commitment confirmed that, she had her fun now she's just talking to someone new."

i was kind of :wow: at first cuz she is cool as hell(which is hard for me to find these days) but in the end I had to :manny: and keep it moving. if she never got emotional or tried pressuring me into anything serious then she just didn't see me as a potential boyfriend. it's just crazy how it seems like the jumpoffs have the perfect personalities while the girls who actually want relationships are annoying as fukk. if I find someone who combines the two, then I'll know it's someone special

so she finally responded. apologized for being MIA but said "a lot has changed for me and I wanted to talk to you about it but my thoughts were all over the place." I have no idea what that means but she wants to talk when I get out of work. I'll keep ya'll updated
 

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so she finally responded. apologized for being MIA but said "a lot has changed for me and I wanted to talk to you about it but my thoughts were all over the place." I have no idea what that means but she wants to talk when I get out of work. I'll keep ya'll updated
its all game breh.

"I've been busy..."

"lots of things going on..."
 

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My brehs, I need some wisdom passed on to me to slay this thick beast.

My old college fling( a only sucked her titties) spotted me when I was at 7-11 by my school. She was checking me out, the Yung Demi-GAWD was looking good in the RL Cargos with the sperry's. We start talking while we in there, and she drove me back to my dorm. While in the car I kept hearing he saying oooo and I smell good. I'm in my seat like:mjpls::ufdup: gotcha bytch. I found out she dorm near me and she go to the Gym downstairs from my dorm. We working out today, I watching her run on that leg swinging shyt like WOOOOOH:whew:, I had a drivel too:patrice: I ain't gone lie. We finish our workout, and this bytch that work in the came up to me trying to talk, but only because she was there:comeon:. She like oh yea why you leaving and I'm like I gotta go, shawty in the cut:dwillhuh:, i'm like this bytch:beli:. She asked the chick was we dating she like "hell no":what::rudy: In my head I'm like you was just feeling me doe. We walked out and I almost went upside her head.


Brehs:to: this bytch ain't trying to fukk and only giving out little hints. Should I just go up to her and be like :ufdup: "I likes ya, and I want cha". Idk, man she's a tricky one. I paid $8 for some magnums at CVS and I aint using them on myself.
 

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My brehs, I need some wisdom passed on to me to slay this thick beast.

My old college fling( a only sucked her titties) spotted me when I was at 7-11 by my school. She was checking me out, the Yung Demi-GAWD was looking good in the RL Cargos with the sperry's. We start talking while we in there, and she drove me back to my dorm. While in the car I kept hearing he saying oooo and I smell good. I'm in my seat like:mjpls::ufdup: gotcha bytch. I found out she dorm near me and she go to the Gym downstairs from my dorm. We working out today, I watching her run on that leg swinging shyt like WOOOOOH:whew:, I had a drivel too:patrice: I ain't gone lie. We finish our workout, and this bytch that work in the came up to me trying to talk, but only because she was there:comeon:. She like oh yea why you leaving and I'm like I gotta go, shawty in the cut:dwillhuh:, i'm like this bytch:beli:. She asked the chick was we dating she like "hell no":what::rudy: In my head I'm like you was just feeling me doe. We walked out and I almost went upside her head.


Brehs:to: this bytch ain't trying to fukk and only giving out little hints. Should I just go up to her and be like :ufdup: "I likes ya, and I want cha". Idk, man she's a tricky one. I paid $8 for some magnums at CVS and I aint using them on myself.
Invite her over to watch a movie / listen to music....get in a comfortable place where yall both are relaxed...dont seem pressed for the p*ssy...comment and joke on the movie...(charm the panties off her)...make a move like you have to lean on her to get more comfy. ....not too comfy...not to thirsty...and just keep testing the waters...if you get close enough just randomly suck on her neck and tickle it with your toung if she dont protest to much kool...your in...but still seem un phased by how bad she is or how much u wanna smash...until you are smashing...then fukk her like you want to kill her/ you love her...then when you finish just act kool like nothin happened ask her if she want some. Ice tea....

Now make me proud
 

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My brehs, I need some wisdom passed on to me to slay this thick beast.

My old college fling( a only sucked her titties) spotted me when I was at 7-11 by my school. She was checking me out, the Yung Demi-GAWD was looking good in the RL Cargos with the sperry's. We start talking while we in there, and she drove me back to my dorm. While in the car I kept hearing he saying oooo and I smell good. I'm in my seat like:mjpls::ufdup: gotcha bytch. I found out she dorm near me and she go to the Gym downstairs from my dorm. We working out today, I watching her run on that leg swinging shyt like WOOOOOH:whew:, I had a drivel too:patrice: I ain't gone lie. We finish our workout, and this bytch that work in the came up to me trying to talk, but only because she was there:comeon:. She like oh yea why you leaving and I'm like I gotta go, shawty in the cut:dwillhuh:, i'm like this bytch:beli:. She asked the chick was we dating she like "hell no":what::rudy: In my head I'm like you was just feeling me doe. We walked out and I almost went upside her head.


Brehs:to: this bytch ain't trying to fukk and only giving out little hints. Should I just go up to her and be like :ufdup: "I likes ya, and I want cha". Idk, man she's a tricky one. I paid $8 for some magnums at CVS and I aint using them on myself.
saying no is one thing. saying "hell no" is disrespectful. i would have dismissed her at that point. Things are being set up where you'll be in chase mode over her when initially she was chasing you. that other chick was blocking hard though :pachaha:. Personally i would just let it be and not sweat either of them.

but if you still want to smash, i honestly don't know. What Cool Blooded said seems like i good idea. or just withdraw your attention and see if she comes to you.
 

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fellas, let me give some advice to you guys, that is an obvious but i guess my cousin didnt get the memo

at the very beginning stages of you talking to a chick and damn sure by the end of the first date, there needs to be discussion about what the 2 of you expect from the each when you are in a monogamous relationship with someone. My cousin just got serious with a chick after dating her for 2 months, the discussion never came up and now they are butting heads over some the things
 

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saying no is one thing. saying "hell no" is disrespectful. i would have dismissed her at that point. Things are being set up where you'll be in chase mode over her when initially she was chasing you. that other chick was blocking hard though :pachaha:. Personally i would just let it be and not sweat either of them.

but if you still want to smash, i honestly don't know. What Cool Blooded said seems like i good idea. or just withdraw your attention and see if she comes to you.

The hell no shyt almost made me give her this open palm breh. She talk a lot of shyt, i like em like that:shaq:. But, the other chick from yesterday gave me head and shyt. She seen leaving my building and was like oh you really couldn't stay in the gym. I'm like nah, I had things to do. She was like what you gotta do now, I said nothing, why you ask. She was like," Is your roommate there". I said nah he away for football. I signed her in, she start kissing on my neck and shyt... She tried to kiss.. kissing is too personal idk where that bytch lips been. She sucked the brown off me cuhz:datazz: my face the whole time. I skeeted in her mouth and she swallowed:shaq: She said I taste good:jawalrus:
Thank you Naked Juice:blessed:


I'ma do what cold blooded said and I'ma get a pic hopefully of me doing it.
 
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The hell no shyt almost made me give her this open palm breh. She talk a lot of shyt, i like em like that:shaq:. But, the other chick from yesterday gave me head and shyt. She seen leaving my building and was like oh you really couldn't stay in the gym. I'm like nah, I had things to do. She was like what you gotta do now, I said nothing, why you ask. She was like," Is your roommate there". I said nah he away for football. I signed her in, she start kissing on my neck and shyt... She tried to kiss.. kissing is too personal idk where that bytch lips been. She sucked the brown off me cuhz:datazz: my face the whole time. I skeeted in her mouth and she swallowed:shaq: She said I taste good:jawalrus:
Thank you Naked Juice:blessed:


I'ma do what cold blooded said and I'ma get a pic hopefully of me doing it.
Fukk that. If she was feelin u she wouldn't have said "hell no". However,if she's just saying "hell no" because she's one of those chicks that likes to play games then she ain't worth stressin over. Find another
 
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