Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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On another note... my long distance relationship is starting to wear on me. It's only 3.5 hours but shyt is a hassle because we have to PLAN everything in advance. I'm trying my hardest brehs... but we on the phone talking about who can take off on a Friday so we take a trip somewhere together, which city has cheaper airfare... I'm trying to use my Delta companion ticket... I don't have the energy for all this scheduling!
why are you doing it then breh ?
seems like y'll are both into eachother and respect eachother. keep your eyes and ears open and follow your intuition but it seems like everything is going good so far breh. props!
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why are you doing it then breh ?
Because like I said in a previous post, its 80/20. This falls in the 20% of shyt I don't like and its potentially temporary. But most importantly I live in Iowa and I gotta do what I gotta do when I meet a quality woman. If I lived in ATL still I doubt I'd deal with anyone that lived more than 45 mins away.
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Two weekends out of the month usually. But I been traveling and sometimes I just wanna hang with the homies. Thats about to slow down tho when this snow comes. She's a good chick, real classy, old fashioned values, etc. So I'm just riding it out and seeing what happens. I cannot do this shyt long term tho.
Brehs, have ya'll ever went through a phrase where you were interested in dating just "bad" women even through you know that they are no good? I just had a date with this chic that I can easy tell that she plotting something but it feel good for someone to show me some affection. I know that I should abort or just pump and dump but a man would just like some company for now. I'm confused on what to do?
Pretty much. I'm not stupid or "trying to be in love" right now. I just want some company every now and then and my roster is non existent. Ever girl that I talk too either got bored with the quickness or was not interested at all. Plus I also trying to move from my city, so I don't want to get emotional attached to anyone. I just want someone that I can kick it with and do out thing but w/o the emotional BS. I knew this chic for about a min because I use to go to her job and drink. At first, she stated that she had a man, so I keep it friendly. But last month, she stated that she was single and we exchanged numbers. We kissed already and she has no problems feeling up on me and vice versa. I think that she want to be bad too and i'm fine with that because I don't want anything serious. Should I just go with the flow and wait for her to show me her hand?
Be careful, a beautiful women that is poison has been playing this game for a while and remains undefeated. Be patient , take it slow. Guard your heart and emotions 
be very careful, one thing I learned off of here is to always have a back up plan and other options, when there is only 1 chick in the mix you end up doing things you may not normally do because you know you dont have any other options. If you know she is trouble why deal with the headache, just move on, and continue to chill/date or whatever it is that is your objective
I'm thinking too much about it to tell the truth. I know what i want is to just hit it and keep it moving. I already learn a hard lesson about opening up to a bad women and I'm not making that mistake again. If i had other options i would be working with them but right now no chic is trying to mess with me so something is better than nothing. In reality, i just trying to make sure that I don't talk myself out of p*ssy.